Author Topic: feeling a bit low...could do with advice (Read 1397 times)

belive88 · « **on:** February 20, 2011, 10:14:58 PM »

hi all!!

im trying to attract my guy back into my life- we were together for 2.5 years! we had to leave things due to our culture. i really love him and he loves me and im the only one for him, but he said he couildnt to that to his family (he told me at the time we had to leave it) we have on off contact. he told me 3 weeks ago out of the blue he missed me and missed everything- i didnt expect him to contact me. and he wanted to meet the day after so we met up and it was FANTASTIC

was like the old times! and since that i txt him two days later and a few days later..maybe i pushed two much in expecting him to text after such progress. but i text him two weeks ago and no reply- and i keep checking my phone and especially today im feeling really down

... i also need to checking his facebook- as this is not letting go isit?.....i feel lost and feel to text him but i shouldnt...

tereza · « **Reply #1 on:** February 20, 2011, 11:01:17 PM »

Hello

Ever notice that when you are watching something intently...nothing happens? It's like that saying, "a watched pot never boils". That's what's going on with you and your guy. Trust that he loves you (obviously he does because he said he misses you!) and continue happily living your life. He'll notice that you're having fun and come back to you.

Anyway, I found this yesterday and I think it relates to your situation (it's also pretty funny too):
http://goodvibeblog.com/2010/08/how-to-catch-a-dog-anything-else-you-want/

passionmax · « **Reply #2 on:** February 20, 2011, 11:04:50 PM »

Right said Tereza, TRUST is a very powerful tool.... @belive88: avoid any negative thoughts coming to your mind.. He is yours.. and I wish you a great success!

belive88 · « **Reply #3 on:** February 20, 2011, 11:22:33 PM »

thank you so much terza and passion max for replying!

yeah everytime i keep looking i know its not going to help yet i do it! i think i may need to put my phone away somewhere where i cant be bothered to go and get it!

tereza when u say: when he sees you having fun he will come back? is this also true if he is very stubborn! and due to culture

i love him with all my heart!

passionmax- sometimes when your having a bad day like i am today i just keep crying its hard to trust and believe any techniques that you have used to help you trust and believe...i am also doing gratitude list and affirmations suggested by schnerderson22

i very much appreciate you help guys

passionmax · « **Reply #4 on:** February 21, 2011, 12:00:07 AM »

@belive88: you are right, as we read in "The Secret", it is impossible to feel good and bad at the same time. You can keep Secret shifters with you which can immediately strike and change your mood. It worked for me and may work for you. You can keep with you some sweet memories/moments which you shared with him, any funny moment or any thing which will make you laugh/change your mood at once. In case one of these do not work for you, you can try another.. Personally, when I am sad, I play a very sweet video of my baby stored in my cellphone and most of the time it works, even you can re-play any sweet memory of yours with him, it should work. Wish you lots and lots of success.

lise · « **Reply #5 on:** February 21, 2011, 12:03:42 AM »

passionmax- sometimes when your having a bad day like i am today i just keep crying its hard to trust and believe any techniques that you have used to help you trust and believe...i am also doing gratitude list and affirmations suggested by schnerderson22

I'm feeling a bit the same and I think sometimes, it's better to just give into it and have a good cry. what you resist persists and pretending it's ok when you're not feeling it, I think makes the affirmations a bit pointless.

I'd have a good cry - get it out but then try not to have a pity party. I find sometimes before I can get back to the affirmations etc - that pampering myself helps - a hot bath, a tan, nails etc - when you've made the effort to look good - it makes you feel a little better. Then just trying to chill by reading (something none loa related) watching a film - recharges your batteries and you can face the next day in a genuinely more positive mood.

Recognising how your feeling - listening to why you feel that way helps you start to feel better.

belive88 · « **Reply #6 on:** February 21, 2011, 12:31:26 AM »

yeah i have tried but things like that especially today made me more upset! but i think im just having a bad day!

thank you so much for replying guys......i can do with more i still have a lot to learn and how to apply! although 'LETTING GO' is the difficult bit and how to apply it!

schnederson22 thankkk you! you have helped me and taught me alot

passionmax · « **Reply #7 on:** February 21, 2011, 01:09:46 AM »

belive88: there are times when you feel like crying. But, you can just trust law of attraction that everyday will not be the same. Wish you cool and better positive days....

belive88 · « **Reply #8 on:** February 21, 2011, 11:21:17 PM »

tereza i read the link you posted and its awesome and quite true hehe! even knowing these things its bit difficult getting tour head around hehe! iam getting there! may i thank you for this! it was very helpful!

passion max thank you soo much! everyone on this forum is so lovely its great to have loving support

........carry on attracting all good!! i read somewhere you wrote your cousin attracted back an ex good on him too

passionmax · « **Reply #9 on:** February 21, 2011, 11:32:25 PM »

Thats right... my cousin unknowingly kept on visualizing and attracting his ex back. Finally, when he told me the story that something "unusual" happened. I explained him that this is just Law of attraction which keeps on working even when you are not aware of. I then gave him "The Power" to read. He now knows what is attraction and said will use it "knowingly"

MinDiddy · « **Reply #10 on:** February 22, 2011, 05:23:36 AM »

I too am having a down day / moment .. I'm grateful to all of you for bringing up my spirits and helping inspire me to continue to believe!

THANK YOU!

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #11 on:** February 22, 2011, 06:25:00 AM »

Passionmax, Was your cousin trying to attract back the ex?

Believe, I think Lise is right that sometimes to let go you have to let go of built up emotions. Sometimes that includes a good cry or a day or a weekend of indulging feelings. Then take a nice bath and go on and do what you can for fun and relaxation. Sometimes the process has to be repeated again and again. We just hope the times of feeling ok are more and more as well as longer and longer. Keep the gratitude list up too! Big hugs! VC

passionmax · « **Reply #12 on:** February 22, 2011, 06:54:50 AM »

Right VC, they had a break-up an year ago, they were badly in love with each other, but things changed and they had a break-up. Somehow, he realized that he needs her back again. He was not aware of Law of attraction and he unknowingly kept on thinking about her all the time and would visualize her calling him/talking to her and the best thing he did was(still unknowingly) that he had a diary in which he daily wrote that he loved her and she is still with her and so on... unknowingly that he is attracting her back. One fine day... she called him, they met another day and now they are together... Good thing is that he called me up just half an hour ago and said they are going to marry this May. "Nice thing"

I told him about LOA and that he had been attracting her all the time even when he was not aware..

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #13 on:** February 22, 2011, 07:04:27 AM »

Thank you, passionmax. One day you will find a way to post a picture of your new daughter!

Christy Michelle · « **Reply #14 on:** February 22, 2011, 10:08:33 PM »

Thats great, passionmax! You also gave me a tip there, to keep a notebook saying i love him and hell be back to me. It just a matter of time

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