How to get ex back with law of attraction?

[S]

Yes I'm ready to use my power! The only thing I'm stuck on is...how do I make sure I'm on the same vibes as him?
Blessings!

[Ankur Sancheti]

Yes I'm ready to use my power! The only thing I'm stuck on is...how do I make sure I'm on the same vibes as him?

Hey S,

There is nothing to make sure of. Only make sure that you attract is like you already have achieved it.

Well, it may sound you just a plain engllish, but the deeper you go, more sense it makes, You may not understand it all in once, you do not even have to, gradually you will see it all yourself.

Keep attracting and enjoy it, as if you have already achieved it.

- Ankur

[S]

thanks, but i've heard on here that you have to be on the same vibrational level as him, how do I do that?
Thanks very much
Blessings!

[maia]

Hello
 I think it is necessary for you to think carefully about the reasons why you got separated  and if it is possible fix that problem from your side, try your best to make yourself much more attractive and interesting physically and mentally. and when you make sure that you look your best and your personality is changed in that way your ex would love,  just meet him to talk over the things honestly and tell him what you think, you can remember feelings you both had when you were together, remind him the best  pleasing memories you both had, how much you loved each other, feelings never disappear. never mention negative things and I'm sure you will be the most attractive you him and by this way you attract him

[S]

Thanks Maia, for your advice, my problem that seperated us was my negative thinking, I started suspecting him, although he's innocent, I am already physically attractive and am working on making my personality positive but, were not contacting at the moment and we don't live near eachother,

 so in that situation, how do I get on the same vibrational level as him in LOA?
Thanks and blessings!

[Galina Shibileva]

Hi,

here's one link:   http://www.allaboutprosperity.com/articles/bproctor-lawofvibration2.htm

I found something that at least can help all of us understand the vibrations:


You automatically like people who cause you to feel good. It would necessarily follow, therefore, that others will like you when you cause them to feel good, or when you move them into a more positive vibration.

Example

Vibratory control of the body, mind and soul of a person gives you a means for the restoration of positive vibrations, through the medium of resonant electric waves of the brain cells, from you to another person.

As already stated, the human body, including the brain, is a high-powered electrical instrument. Therefore, you are a veritable "broadcasting station," relative to other people. When the "tune in" between you and them has been completed, or when the composite personality has been established between you and the other person, the other person receives and becomes conscious of the vibrating thought which is being broadcast by you.

Under the Law Of The Perpetual Transmission And Transmutation Of Energy, the other person, being a low potential of energy, takes on this added energy which is being sent out by you. And, like a weak battery, the other person becomes recharged, more energetic, and more positive as a result of his contact with you.

The process of transmitting energy between you and the other person is exactly the same as the process which takes place between the broadcasting station and the radio. That is to say, laws which are identical in nature, govern both phenomena.

Vibrations And Attitude

Every physical thing throws off a vibration. Everything which you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch, throws off a vibration because these things, like everything else, are in a constant state of motion. Whenever you get near enough to them to enter into their "sphere of vibration," you will be affected by that vibration, whether you realize it or not. Have you ever noticed, for example, how peaceful you feel (vibrate) while walking alone in the woods?

The Law operates exactly in the same way in the mental realm. For when a person thinks a thought, it means the person has consciously or unconsciously started a group of brain cells vibrating abnormally. Once these brain cells, being things, begin to vibrate abnormally, they throw off a wave of electronic energy which moves out seeking a place to land.

If you are in the sphere (space) of their vibrations and you happen to have similar cells which are in rapport (in harmony or agreement) with the ones vibrating in the other person's brain, then you receive these vibrations and are affected mentally by them, either negatively or positively. (It is clear that everyone in sales or management will thoroughly understand this information.)

Let us suppose that another person is vibrating to "Anger Concepts." If you are the type of person who becomes easily angered and you happen to enter the vibratory field of those anger vibrations, then those vibrations will strike the "anger cells" in your own brain. A condition of resonance being present, those vibrations will start your brain cells vibrating and your entire being will move into that vibration. You will become irritated or angry (even though you may, or may not know, the cause of your own anger). If you do not understand what has happened, you will be at a loss to change the conditions which caused the effect in the first place.

The same principle applies to all mental vibrations. As soon as a person starts to think, he starts brain cells vibrating. Energy is released, therefore, in the form of electrons which travel out according to the intensity of the thought involved. Whoever stops that energy, is affected by it. But bear in mind, the only thing which stops a thought, is that which resonates with that thought. This means, if you should run into an electromagnetic vibratory field of negative thoughts, you will, if you are that type of person, become negative yourself. Conversely, if you run into a positive vibratory field, you will experience the opposite of the negative; namely, the positive.

Since the air we breathe is literally "filled" with both types of vibrations, they are constantly bouncing into your brain. As a result, you could become like a "ship without a rudder," tossed about at the mercy of whatever is vibrating or "in the air." However, once you understand the Law of Vibration, you are in a position to insulate yourself against the negative vibrations. You can then be in control of yourself, in the true sense of the word, and you will begin to attract to you the things and circumstances that you choose.

Become A Mental Magnet

Attract What You Need
For The Physical Manifestation Of Your Image

If it is true that energy, or Spirit, is neither created nor destroyed and everything in its original state is either energy or Spirit, it necessarily follows that everything you will ever want is already here. It is simply a matter of choosing the thoughts which will put you into harmonious vibration with the good that you desire.

Everything you are seeking is seeking you in return. Therefore, everything you want is already yours. So you don't have to get anything; it is simply a matter of becoming more aware of what you already possess.

The moment you bring your life into harmony with the Law, into harmony with the current of Divine Order, you will find that the "negative" will have "taken wings." For its cause will have been removed and you will no longer attract what you don't want.

The secret to receiving, on the physical plane, the results you desire is always locked into the Law of Attraction. This entire book has been designed to help you understand how to get into harmonious vibration with the good you desire, and then how to stay in that positive vibration, so you will begin to attract whatever you need for your image of prosperity to move into form.

The Acorn Analogy

In Raymond Holliwell's magnificent book, Working with The Law, Holliwell points out in the chapter entitled "The Law of Success," the following: "All of the processes of nature are successful. Nature knows no failures. She never plans anything but success. She aims at results in every form and manner. To succeed in the best and fullest sense of the term we must, with nature as our model, copy her methods. In her principles and laws we shall discover all the secrets of success."

Keep in mind that everything in this universe you can see with the naked eye and everything you cannot see, is an expression of Spirit. Also bear in mind that Spirit operates by exact laws. You are subject to those laws, in just the same manner nature is. Therefore, Holliwell is right-we definitely should copy nature's methods.

For years I have held up an acorn in the seminar and used it as a device for helping people to gain a better understanding of how the law of attraction actually works in their lives. So please visualize, if you will, an acorn. Then think-really think-about what it is you are looking at.

Although the acorn may appear to be a solid object, by now you should clearly understand that the acorn, like everything else which appears to be solid, is in truth, "a mass of molecules at a very high speed of vibration." Within the acorn, there is a nucleus or a patterned plan that dictates the vibratory rate at which these molecules will move. Moreover, the same principle holds true for all seeds. In other words, every seed has a nucleus or a patterned plan within it, which dictates the vibration it will be in and which thereby governs the end-product into which it will expand or grow.

I believe you are all aware of this fact: everything in the universe is governed by a basic law-"Either create or disintegrate." Therefore, it follows that, if something is not in the process of growing, it must, by the law of its being, be dying. For example, so long as the acorn is kept out of the earth, it is slowly but surely disintegrating. However, as soon as you plant the acorn in the earth, the patterned plan or the vibratory rate of the acorn sets up an attractive force and the acorn begins to attract everything that vibrates in harmony with it. If you were able to observe with the naked eye exactly what is taking place, you would see a "parade" of particles of energy-a never-ending stream of them-marching in a very orderly manner toward the acorn. As they came in contact with the molecules making up the acorn, they would join, marry, become one, and of course, the acorn would expand, become larger, grow.

Now consider this - if you were to put two drops of water and two drops of oil on an arborite table and then you were to move them together, the two drops of water would resonate and become one larger drop of water, as they came in contact with each other. On the other hand, if you were to move the water toward the oil, they would actually repel each other because they are not in harmonious vibration. Likewise, with the acorn, the only things which join with the acorn are those particles of energy which are vibrating in harmony with it. All the other particles of energy, which make up the earth, are repelled.

As the acorn expands from the never-ending stream of molecules which are attracted to it, little shoots begin to come out of the bottom and out of the top of it. These shoots, in turn, begin to develop into roots. As they grow or expand and burst through the earth into the earth's atmosphere, this attractive force continues, and particles of energy from the atmosphere are attracted to it (just as the particles of energy in the earth were attracted to it). As the acorn continues to expand, at some point it ceases to be an acorn and it begins to become an oak tree. The roots, the trunk, the bark, the branches, the twigs, and the leaves, are all in the universe and they are attracted to the acorn, because of the nucleus or the patterned plan which rests within the seed.

Now, unlike the human creature, the acorn does not have the ability to change its vibratory rate. It can therefore only grow into what it has been programmed to grow into; namely, an oak tree. You are much like the acorn in many respects. For example, you are also a "seed," relative to the whole scheme of things. However, the difference between you and the acorn is that since you are a co-creator, you can choose your own programming. Therefore, the image you choose to hold, on the screen of your conscious mind, and plant deeply in the treasury of your subconscious mind is the patterned plan or the nucleus which determines what you will eventually grow into. It dictates the vibration you will be in and also controls what you will attract to you and what you will repel.

This is an orderly universe; nothing happens by accident. The images which you plant in your marvelous mind instantly set up an attractive force, which governs your results in life. You must remember though, if your image is continually fluctuating, you will continually be growing into something different and that sets in motion a most chaotic process. Unfortunately, those individuals who are unaware of these very exact laws are planting images of plenty in their minds one minute and then images of poverty the next. They are continually "switching" vibrations, so they are attracting good things one minute and then bad things the next. The sad truth is, the vast majority of people spend their entire lives oscillating between these two extreme positions, with the resulting effect that their lives become disordered and chaotic to the "nth" degree.

Although it is true that everything you will ever want is already here, it is up to you to get into harmony with it. Clearly, you will never get into harmony with prosperity, if you insist upon holding images of lack and limitation in the storehouse of your marvelous mind. Since you are always magnetized toward something, it follows it can never be anyone else's fault, when something comes into your life you supposedly do not want. Understand you have ordered it and it is being delivered to you, right on schedule!

Excerpted from You Were Born Rich by Bob Proctor.

[S]

Galia, THANK YOU, it makes sense now, this is exactly what I was looking for!
Bless you!
S

[Galina Shibileva]

I'm sorry for being a bit long on the reply, just I had a very busy day...

I hope it will really help!

When something changes, write, we are here for you!

Keep the faith!


P.S.  If I were in your shoes, I would contact the guy , send him a letter, a poem, send him flowers, writing "i love you" under his window on the street...something desparate and crazy? 

[S]

thank you, I'm so glad you are there for me galia, thanks.
Lol, I don't mind initiating contact, but going desperate and crazy, would probably scare him lol
Could I use my vibes and my power to get hi
To contact me especially in 3 days time as it will be my birthday then?
Bless you

[S]

By the way, should I be doing what Mira is doing too?
Blessings

[Galina Shibileva]

 

well, I'm not a medium I hope very strongly for you that he'll contact you. I don't know your relation with him...You should try to stay focused on your outcome - being together for good! Either he calls or not on this special day - it's just a small part, a detail on the way of the realisation of your purpose...

I can see how badly you want it...all I can advice you is to continue to visualize - the phone ringing...he's on the other side saying "hello" etc......

About Mira,
what she is doing is the basics of the Law of Attraction. This is what exactly you should do from the beginning - saying on a loud voice, with very short phrases describing the reality you want to create. But also spending time on visualizations of that reality - you can make your own movie in your head and putting it on everytime you have 5 minutes to relax...imaging how good you feel together, how happy you are together....how he takes your hand...

You should spend (if you can) for example 20 minutes daily (10 in the morning, 10 before going to sleep)  on making positive affirmations and then visualizing the reality you want to create...

Hope I helped!

Blessings to you too!

[Ankur Sancheti]

Great Going Galia....

Thanks for being Global Moderator Here. 

- Ankur

[Sneha Kulkarni]

Well i read your comment . S dont let these people put you down.... just let go and focus on what you desire... hope you have started writing down your desires!!! if not i m sure you might be thinking of it every morning as soon as you get up!!. nothing can stop anyone from manifesting their desires.
and yes do not forget to be thankful for the things you already have, gradually you will realize that you been getting a breakthrough towards your desire!!


sneha

[Sneha Kulkarni]

Yes you can use your vibes very strongly!!!
just send him those positive vibes and watch the miracle.

Sneha

[S]

Wow! Thanks sneha, thanks galia...when I think of me and him together, I feel so good, so warm, happy, positive and I'm starting to feel myself letting go of how it happens, I'm worrying less and so grateful for what I already have!
I'm hopefully taking the right approach and yeah sneha, you are right!, I think about him as soon as I open my eyes in the morning and the last thing before I fall asleep at night!

Blessings to you all!
S