How to get ex back with law of attraction?

[sneha Biswas]

Hi Everyone,

Though iam new to this forum, i have been reading a lot about the LOA in different books and articles.well my agenda for debate is  regarding relationships, specially with exes, i.e if a person wants to get back with their ex but their ex doesnt't want to ( i mean c'mmon that is why they dumped you) can we excercise the LOA for such kinda relationship, where only one partner wants to get back. Can we manifest such a thing negating some one else's ( the ex's) will?  can LOa be used against some one's fee will?


Ok my second question, if once a person is dumped, although he or she might want to get back...how do u forget / forgive and stop the negative chatter accompanied with the break up you are handling? i mean we all (those  who want to get here ex back) want to be with that special some 1 but we resent thm havin feelings of bein humiliated or ill treated or not bein pampered or well attended to ...how can we think only good things...i have tried many things but i only could mange for 2-3 days n again the negative chatter in my mind started.
i think allo f us face such probs n dilemmas.....


thanks in advance for  help

[Galina Shibileva]

Hey!

There are many people here with the same problem...wanting the Ex back...

I'm not pretending knowing everything on the LoA, I'm in process just like everyone....

But according to me, You can't act against someone's free will with the LoA.

LoA works for relationships -you can use it to  have a better relationship by changing first of all your inside. When you change, the others around you will change in consequence.

You can use the LoA to find your soulmate. Use the techniques Ankur and Sneha already described - by focusing on the feeling like you already have the person with you, visualizing him with you-  BUT stay on the outcome, not on the process of the realisation.

This soulmate can be your ex boyfriend or girlfriend if ONLY   he or she is on your vibes. Then the LoA will bring just both of you together ....

I can advice you the same as Sneha - write in details the character of your dream soulmate, how you want him to be, to behave with you.

And turn the page of the past. The past brings you down, takes you back to the bad memories and all painfull feelings you've had.  You should try to find the perfect person for you in order to be happy, not  to look back trying to stick back the broken pieces...

The future is full of surprised, the world is full of people, possibilities, new friendships, new relations with people that will bring you a lot of positive energy, positive emotions! So just close, shut  the door to the past, look forward, feel the good things happening to you already. Attract the happiness!

[S]

I agree with you all that we need to love ourselves and change from within, but you can definately attract an ex back. Ive attracted mine back a few times before and the reason why we broke up was because of his strict family. We both have a lesson to learn and that is to become stronger! Other than that I am not at all being forceful trying go against his free will.

[Ankur Sancheti]

Hey Sneha,

Firstly, Welcome to the forum.

Secondly, your debate is welcome and i would rather call it descussion, as per me debates take you nowhere, dicussion let you make a choice. 

Anyways, in the first paragraph you mentioned about breaking into somone's free will with law of Attraction, matter of fact is, Law of Attraction is no Black Magic, You can not control anyone with LOA, you can make your vibes so strong with LOA, that it eventually manifests.

In the second paragraph you mentioned about how to keep from negative thoughts fo the past. Well, fact of the matter is, if you keep thiking about the past, that will weaken you in someway or the other, then in simple worlds, "You are carrying a Baggage", Which will do nothing but make you tired on your journey.

If you still feel as you were dumped, it will never give you a healthy self respect , for yourself. Are you fragile enough to get your emotions controlled by others?

Its not about how he thinkgs of you, its about what do you think about yourself. Do not get carried away with emotions that do not empower you. Change the way you think about your self.

Remember what i said, "Healthy Self-Respect is the Key". 

- Ankur

[S]

Hi Ankur! Just to let u know ive posted something for you on your article titled: power law of attraction- get ex back with law of attraction, the part which is notin your forum section,
I await your reply.
Have a good day!

[Ankur Sancheti]

Hello S,

Check the Blog, i have repled to what you have asked.

- Ankur

[S]

thanks ankur, I will make miracles happen, make mountains move! It's my bierhdayon Wednesday and I will attract him by him contacting me on my birthday!
Blessings to you and everyone!

[Galina Shibileva]

DEAR S,

I think you either misunderstood my post either you just simply didn't read it?

You said: 

Other than that I am not at all being forceful trying go against his free will.

First of all,  no one here said that you are trying to attract your ex boyfriend back AGAINST his free will.
  I said

This soulmate can be your ex boyfriend or girlfriend if ONLY  he or she is on your vibes. Then the LoA will bring just both of you together ....

Second, I never said you can't attract your ex boyfriend.  Sure you can if the person is on the same vibrations... I just maintain the same Ankur says " LoA isn't a black magic", you can't manipulate people with it, there's no magical instant solution.

You send a request to the Universe for a person you already know and love- If the person is in the same state of mind, then he will come to you - NO DOUBT.

Now, I don't know your personal story, I try to give my opinion on the general question of attracting exes,  in consideration of my personal experience.

If you are absolutely sure that this guy is "the one" and maybe or most probably he feels the same for you...then just go ahaid with all the power you can find in your heart!
If you've attracted  this person already many times as you say, then why are you doubting now?

There's nothing more powerful then love!

You must stop doubting, looking in the past....that's all. Just keep the faith and attract.... EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

Best regards,
Galia

[S]

Hey galia,
Thanks very much for your advice, I read your post and I had agreed with you, I wasn't implying or saying anything to you, I was saying to people from the other sites accusing me of going against his free will, that's all. I have had negativity of other people in the past.
I'm doubting because it's taken him longer than usual to come back, i've been through a lot of pain lately and I've come to these forums for encouragement, hope and positivity.
I wasn't saying anything at all against you ok, I totally appreciate your advice, you are doing a wonderful thing,   so I hope that you haven't misunderstood me.
Are u okay with me?
Blessings! I await your reply

[S]

Also, how can I get us to be on the same vibrations? Any tips?
Thanks

[Galina Shibileva]

Hi "S"...

I just try to make myself clear...sorry if it looks agressive...

If it takes time for him to come back, just don't worrie.
Everything is a process. And believe me, the process has an end!

I had a similar story to yours... Being with a guy in my past, when parents weren't agree AT ALL... My family did everything they were able to separte us....and unfortunatelly for me, or happily, they succeeded.
With the guy we tried many times to come back together in spite of the distance but always everything seemed to be complicated and it was ending up with a separation thanks to my parents.

You know what...they succeeded in separating us, but they could never take the love I had for that man out of my heart!

So please, don't give up! Please fight until you succeed to be with that guy.  Your love is stronger than everything!

Just to encourage you, I'll tell you what happened recently for example to see the LoA works...

I was looking buying a flat for 8 whole months - visualizing, attracting etc.... And I found today the one I really want to have. I went , I visited it. The price was very high, I couldn't afford. BUT I just went in , I felt home and I spoke with the real Estate agency, we found an agreement and I have this appartement at a price I can afford to pay! And the difference of the initial price is quite big!

Yesterday, when I took the appointment to visit it, I felt so much energy passing trew my whole body, I felt attracting this flat with whole my human being, I was  feeling the huge energy that was connecting me with the flat...

So you see, it works. Sometimes it takes time. Because you are in a process of changing yourself, this change is operating in the other people around you. But imagine...I succeed to have an appartement - this is a material thing...imagine how much more powerfull it is when coming to a human being?!

You have the power in you! I'm so very sure about that!  SO please, do that, continue to attract this guy as much as you can, you will see, there'll be a result! and NEVER EVER DOUBT about that!

You are what he needs! You are "the one" for him! You are his soulmate, he wants to be with you!

GO AHAID!

[S]

That was wonderful galia, it was so inspiring! Wow! I will not give up, I will use all my power, I will go for it, and I will succeed, even if he has someone else or not...right?
Blessing!
By the way congrats on your apartment!

[Galina Shibileva]

Hi!

Thank you!
Nevermind the guy has someone or he doesn't; just don't bother with such details... The important is the issue! Think about the result, feel like it already happened! And be gratefull for that "in advance" like it happened already.

 To show you that it could work, Here I wanted to publish the REAL story of one friend of mine - he's the moderator of one forum in Facebook called  "John Kehoe's learn mind powers discussion group"... He has a lot of experience in LoA as he practices it for 20 years if I remember well.. So LoA works great for him everytime. It worked great to find a soulmate...so read  that testimony:




Scott Mckenzie (Vancouver, BC) wrote on 06/07/ 2009 ; 21:04
hi ,

i used his mind power technique for relationship
I always wanted more than a relationship I wanted a soulmate for life. I was married at the time and keep visualizing the same theme..."soulmate for life"...I was hoping that my wife at the time would be that person and our relationship would improve, blossom and be what I wanted. I didnt happen that . We grew apart and then divorced. So much for mind powers right??!!! 1 year later..guess what.. i met someone that i can see spending the rest of my life with ...a soulmate.. THIS WAS NOT AN EASY PROCESS!! Very painful.. but that is what I ASKED FOR. the universe has to create a VOID so that it fill fill with with what i was trying to attract to me.

That is my experience...
Scott

[S]

Thanks! That was nice, just shows that the LOA does work!
So I'm going to attract him back, no matter the circumstance, whether it's the strict family, whether he is with someone or not, or whatever, I just gotta believe right?

Blessings!

[Galina Shibileva]

That's right!

Keep the faith no matter what! Keep attracting!!!