Author Topic: Don't know what to make of this! (update) (Read 3411 times)

lise · « **Reply #60 on:** June 03, 2012, 10:58:31 PM »

Re tapping. I received this link recently on fb via The Silva Method page. Tapping isn't something I've really taken to but I thought I might give this ago. You need to register and then there's a short questionnaire to do ahead of the tapping shindig to identify the areas that you may have blockages and need to do work on.

http://www.projecttapping.com/online/awaken-your-abundant-life

irishgirl69 · « **Reply #61 on:** June 03, 2012, 11:49:37 PM »

I'm not sure what thread they were in on now - I favorited the videos on youtube. You can do a search under stefzilla's name to find his posts - then it will come up. Or you can look in the different forums - it wasn't that long ago so it should still be on the first page.

AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :) · « **Reply #62 on:** June 04, 2012, 12:10:33 AM »

believe...

Here is the link... I also needed to check the resistance one... Thank You for reminding me

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-abundance-4/tapping-into-miracles/

LOVE & GOD BLESS,
NS

tereza · « **Reply #63 on:** June 04, 2012, 12:32:13 AM »

Quote from: truelove on June 03, 2012, 07:41:55 PM

Well, sadly he called me to say he had had a massive night last night, and had been in bed most of the day and was planning on going back to bed, but arranged to meet on Thursday instead.
I know it's not the end of the world, but I was pretty bummed.

This really bought up a big issue in me that I know I have to deal with... because it's my fear of rejection playing out (AGAIN) and I keep thinking I am learning and growing and it keeps coming back into my expereince...

Wll try and relax and let it go...

I think (and this is part of my problem too) is that you're way too available and accommodating for this guy. He's been distant all this time and then finally when you see him again, he asks to meet up the next day as if nothing ever happened and you said yes. Maybe it would've been better to say I need to check my schedule, I'll get back to you on that and then never did?

It's kind of like in that post that I'm always quoting, "Never turn your existing life and routine upside down for your lover, like cancelling appointments to accommodate him/ her unless it's really necessary". I kind of think that even if all you had planned was laundry, it might've been a good idea to still turn him down. He's got your number, he had all week to get in touch with you. There's really no excuse for that sort of last minute stuff.

JustForToday · « **Reply #64 on:** June 04, 2012, 12:47:53 AM »

oh yes tracey!! tereza IS right! i forgot about that point---- thank you tereza

belive88 · « **Reply #65 on:** June 04, 2012, 02:59:51 AM »

Thank you guys for the link, i wil be tapping away tap tap tap!!

truelove · « **Reply #66 on:** June 04, 2012, 08:27:41 AM »

Thanks everyone. This is all very insightful.
Thank you irishgirl, I will try the tapping for releasing blocks. Yeah, I do try to just let things happen and not force things (on the physical plane) but I think my energy around this subject is so nervous that I can't let it be in an energetic way. I know I need to be more relaxed about the whole thing.

Tereza, you are right (as usual

) I am too accommodating... I just get all excited about the idea and go with it. It would feel unnatural for me to say no to an offer to see him... but you are right (I have read The Rules hahaha, in fact I have a girl friend who read that book, did EVERYTHING it said had a man fall head over heals for her with in weeks!!)

Though for the reschedule, he asked when I was free to catch up, so I couldn't really say 'I will never be free' haha.
But I hear the advice, I need to give myself more VALUE!!!

I know this is all happening for me to work out my issues, so I am grateful to him for being my teacher right now... I am working on a better more self loving version of myself!!

57angel · « **Reply #67 on:** June 04, 2012, 11:45:15 AM »

Go back to completely forgiving yourself, him and all the others in your life from your childhood days who rejected you. They still might have the influence there in your subconscious mind that contributed to all of these, maybe worth for your time to look into

Tereza is right, learn to say "no" and make him feel a bit that your world not only revolves in him, and that he needs to catch your attention and time - that he needs to do everything he can so you will be his

truelove · « **Reply #68 on:** June 07, 2012, 06:02:03 PM »

I am feeling quite proud of myself!

Tonight is the night we had arranged to meet up.. but the weather has been awful and I was thinking that I was just as happy to stay home and be by myself as I was to see him. It really didn't bother me either way...

He called to say he was still wanting to catch up but wanted to warn me that he was a bit sick.
The old me would have wanted to see him anyway, but I said no lets catch up someother time... so it's now reschedualled to the weekend.

I feel like things are changing for me around relationships. I am no longer feeling worried, and I don't feel like i have to know what's happening, I really am ok right now just as things are. I have faith that everything is ok.

truelove · « **Reply #69 on:** July 10, 2012, 11:23:33 AM »

Well, hello.
I thought I would update this thread, because FINALLY we are catching up today for sure.. haha.

Over the last few weeks we have both tried to initiate a meeting but something ALWAYS came up for either him or I and we just couldn't manage to do it. I haven't been worried about it. I feel pretty detached and yet expectant because I can feel energy shifting for me around relationships. I have had people I have dated in the past contacting me and wanting to see me (one from 6 years ago has told me he would like to "win back my affections"!!) I'm not into going back there but happy to meet for coffee and hear what he has to say.

Then last week when I was at work I was putting my phone on my desk, it was locked, but it started playing a song and it was the song I had in my head the day after the night we met, and it's by his favourite artist. Anyway this song started playing, it was quite spooky really and it reminded me of him. Less than 2 hours later he texted me. We texted a few times throughout the day and finally agreed to hang out Tuesday (today). He told me he had a gig on the weekend, and I thought about going but didn't think I would.

Then one of my friends said she was going to the gig and asked me to come to, so I figured I might as well. I texted him and told him that I would be coming to the gig and that "I expected to be wowed by some awesome stage moves... " he wrote back, "You'll get what you're given. haha" which made me laugh.

Anyway at the gig all was normal, we chatted and caught up a bit, before he went on. This is the part I thought was interesting... He came with his best friend who I have met a few times and is such a lovely guy. And then this other friend who I had never met turns up and starts flirting with me really full on. This went on for a while my guys band was playing and then the best friend asked this guy to come outside for a cigarette. They were gone for ages and when they came back, the guy didn't want a bar of me, just went and sat somewhere else in the room! It made me wonder if he had been told "hands off" if so that would mean that my guy DOES have feelings for me. (hmmm, I know I have been scolded before for over thinking - Stefzilla, I know it's out of love

- but that's my brain, doesn't stop. hahah)

Anyway he called me just now to see if we are still on for today so.. yep. Heading over there later. doesn't matter what happens, I just love spending time with him. I just want him to be himself and be happy and I want the same for me, and if we both want to do that together then that is cool.

I know the Universe provides for us, it has been proven to me again and again. And I know that my love is on his way, I just don't know who he is yet, just going to have fun finding out!!

Happy travels!! xxx

hellokiki · « **Reply #70 on:** July 10, 2012, 11:45:28 AM »

Quote from: truelove on July 10, 2012, 11:23:33 AM

They were gone for ages and when they came back, the guy didn't want a bar of me, just went and sat somewhere else in the room! It made me wonder if he had been told "hands off" if so that would mean that my guy DOES have feelings for me. (hmmm, I know I have been scolded before for over thinking - Stefzilla, I know it's out of love - but that's my brain, doesn't stop. hahah)

It's not only you truelove, every girl over thinks

Anyway, I am so happy for your good news!!!! Keep us posted

AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :) · « **Reply #71 on:** July 10, 2012, 12:02:19 PM »

truelove...

You remind me of a Happy little Princess skipping away in Glory...

Have fun... But remember not to get off the pedestal

LOVE & GOD BLESS,
NS

Autumn · « **Reply #72 on:** July 10, 2012, 01:24:22 PM »

Sounds really promising

. Have fun, stay happy and enjoy.

Keep us updated, good luck girl!

Mr Brightside · « **Reply #73 on:** July 10, 2012, 08:34:58 PM »

Scolded !! Geez you’re going to make me look like a mean guy around here haha.

He definitely got the “She’s off limits” chat outside, must have been pretty intense if he didn’t even come over to sit with you guys. Not only is he forbidden to talk to you, he has to keep his distance haha. I had that talk with my friends before, unfortunately most of the time they try even harder to piss me off or they try to ruin my advances. Hmm I need new friends.

This is good, maybe he will finally clue in that you are not going to be available much longer, and will grow a pair. Let us know what happens, I’m sure you will have some news very soon

irishgirl69 · « **Reply #74 on:** July 10, 2012, 08:53:25 PM »

I agree with Stef, he definitely got the talk.

Can't wait for the next update!

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