Detachment and relationships :)

[chrissy8907]

I definitely needed this. I would detach then become attached again after something good happened.  It was all so confusing I then let go I had a obsession of my affirmation with him within a day I stopped and he told me he loved me from one day to the next!! I didn't become attached after that though I stayed in the present but sent out my desire Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

[2thetop]

ya this is an awesome post, i think it should be read once a week by those beginning the process and should be reviewed often by those that have moved a long a bit.

[eyewonder]

Wow, this is a great source of information for me.  I never knew detachment in this manner.

[Lika]

Just wanted to share this with you.

It makes me feel much better.

"Have not a care in the world. Be free spirited and carefree. Have fun, play the game. Remember there are no rules and there are no limits. Just have the attitude of doing something and then seeing what happens. Be in a position where you have nothing to lose. We are beings of evolution. It doesn’t matter whether the past experience was good or not. Keep moving on to the next one.

Some of the best things you desire just seem to happen to you when you are in a total “I don’t give a damn” mode. And while it is happening, it is no big deal to you and it doesn’t matter. But you acknowledge the paradox of what’s going on in the situation, that you get what you want when you don’t really seem to want it."

All the best,

Lidija

[Happybeingme]

Great Quote, thanks for that. I think it sums up detachment perfectly

[angel_star]

Lidija, I totally loved that! Thanks a lot for sharing

[kjkitt]

This is a great thread and very educational! Thank you!

[A-luvs-J]

what method of RS are you doing?
Can you tell me exactly the way you do it? and what time of day?
so much thanks

[JustForToday]

what method of RS are you doing?
Can you tell me exactly the way you do it? and what time of day?
so much thanks

here is a free mp3 which most of us use--- its guided.

just try it and you love it


http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/attachment/download?id=1335877%3AUploadedFi58%3A2198490

[marioska]

That's the one I'm using, and IT WORKS, IT REALLY WORKS! for me it worked really fast in fact, now my guy wants to see me almost everyday ^^, but each person and each relationship is different. Don't be desperate if you don't se results as fast as you'd like them to ben, just detach yourself from the outcome and enjoy as much as you can. Love!

[Purple_Ray]

Hello everyone!

I am new on this forum, but in the last days I enjoyed reading so many positive posts.
Marioska, can you tell me how much time you needed until RS started to work? I know that it will not be the same period for everyone, but just wondering... Thanks!

[marioska]

Hi Daniela! I believe that it began to work inmediately, but my lover didn't contact me until the 3rd or 4th day since I began to use it. I know that he wanted to see me before, but my doubtful thougths were preventing his behavior to manifest. So, I continued to do de RS thing, and I detached at the same time. I have to add, that even we've seen each other about 4 times, we only had sex once because I wanted it. The other days we just enjoyed talking to each other, laughing, kissing and cuddling. It's not just sex, there's something else
I prefer this tipe of RS because I need to be guided, and, moreover, it's not only about sending sexual intentions, you send love too. If you have any other question, feel free to contact me ^^ Love!

[alliswell]

Hi all

Loved the thread....so much inspiring that i feel it should be applied to every aspect of our lives.....detachment from each and every desire....i personally feel when i was happy with myself , i attracted the best things in my life...and after all this heartache that i recently went through and still going , i somewhere lost myself.....and that made me attract more of that.....

i really wish that i can be free again ...completely.....want to forgive him completely......however its verryy  difficult....i really do not know what will happen next.... will i be able to bear all this  or will break down...but i am hoping the best ...that everything would get better someday...as it was once.....everything happens for a reason , may be this also what i feel so bad about......

just a question to angel star ... does discussing all this on this forum regularly a violation of detachment and let go?

[Purple_Ray]

Thank you, Marioska!

I was thinking the same as Alliswell, as reading or posting about detachment makes us even more aware of the thing we must detach and let go, so we don't really do so...  I think it would be better to read everything what we need to know & ask questions where/when we need some guidance) and after that "disappear" for a while from this forum, until we can also have a success story to tell about.

[angel_star]

just a question to angel star ... does discussing all this on this forum regularly a violation of detachment and let go?

That's a very interesting question Alliswell. In my opinion, we all need help at trying times and it will be much better if we have someone with whom we can share our fears and get some support. That's what we do here on the forum. So its okay if you discuss it once in a while when you feel low but its important that you follow the advice you get, gather back your positive feelings and get going with life. So according to me, its better if you ask for advice, take them seriously and follow them. Have faith and trust, so would automatically let go. In that way you won't be brooding or crying over it on the forum or anywhere else everyday so things will turn out well. Its fine to discuss our situations but its not okay to get hung up on those sad feelings.

This is something I wanted to share with everyone: I figured out recently that detachment doesn't necessarily mean 'I don't care if my desire manifests or not' Its actually feeling and knowing that 'Whatever I have desired for will definitely come into my life. There is absolutely no doubt about it. So why should I worry and waste time on it? I will rather be happy and focus on other desires because the previous desires have already been taken care of by the Universe'. Knowing that our desires will come to us, in one way or the other, gives more relief and thereby detachment rather than feeling its okay not to have a desire. The first kind feels more like joyful faith, while the second kind might bring feelings of fear and frustration. This is my opinion, and that's how I have been getting things to work for me