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Detachment and relationships :)
Sneha:
Hey angel_star,thanks for such a nice post.More than giving thanks, I would say , I respect you for putting these things together for all of us.A lot of effort on your part, and that too to bring a positive impact :).
My two cents to this would be as follows:
Sometimes past incidents are buried deep inside the subconscious, we only realize them when we have decided things to "Let them be", but then -- when nothing happens, a negative chatter begins in the mind ,making it to believe that nothing good is happening citing those examples from the past.So we should identify all those things , list them and burn them \ forgive them completely to make things manifest easily and kill all the mental roadblocks.
eg :" He did not visit me" is still present in the subconscious, but we have decided things to let be their way.Now for days when nothing happens, the mind starts to say , he dint come to visit me then,and not is happening now also.So it is important to get rid of such limiting believes which are even remotely connected.
Some times, our believes are interdependent.I might not have forgiven a friend for something he \ she did years back ,so when i encounter a similar situation in life again,my attitude and vibration remains same, of not forgiving.Had we forgiven some body then, our reaction to this later situation would be different, a more positive one.
So it's all a process.I hope this makes sense.
Sneha:
well said Irishgirl69 -it feels so good to not take that weight on.It is a self decided and attained freedom.Freedom to breathe peacefully, live peacefully and sleep peacefully, without any mind bugging in the back drop.
Monica Vijay:
Thanks a ton for starting such a thread Shravya.. im lovin' it so much.. love.. :)
@irishgirl: well I could see myself in u.. our situations are very similar.. whatever u say for urself is also for me.. :)
And so after reading the initial post and comparing myself & my current reality with it I could say for sure that I've truly LET GO.. :D but I need some clarification though.. I no longer feel needy for him.. I no longer feel bad that we're not in contact with each other.. and I've forgiven him completely for all the hurt he gave me.. and also my sister who was the root cause for all this.. i don't hold any revenge on her and i didn't also curse her.. I just forgave both.. I don't do any visualization, affirmations or anything else in order to attract him.. I have immense faith on my higher self that he will make a way for me.. i don't ask for signs but im provided with signs daily.. to sum up all Im enjoying my life by myself and with what all that im given NOW and i dont even feel his absence.. but one thing is I at times feel something from my heart from him.. i cant define exactly what it is.. i start to cry thinking of him and the good times, the care, the affection we once shared.. i'll get worried as of why did he do that to me though i didn't do anything wrong.. it lasts only for some time..
He’s there in my daily prayers.. I pray to God to keep him happy, safe & healthy where ever he is.. I feel that he miss and feel my absence.. and I believe that some day he’ll realize his mistake and apologize to me.. im sure I’d give him a love life far more than he’d have ever thought of.. my love for him is still the same and didn’t vanish.. I love him no matter what.. but I don’t want to give him the power anymore to control my emotions.. also im not attached to him.. im already complete with myself..
What else do I need to do? Or need not do? Am I on the right track? any thoughts??
Iron Ur:
one of the best things to do...
that stops you from thinking worringing thoughts.
increases your vibration/ get your in a higher frequency.
allows you to detach.
and gets rid of resistance, doubts and fears among other things.
and much more...
is to live in the moment, live in the NOW. I heard that so many times watching that video by deepak chopra and I never got it until recently.
and Angel is definetly right, don't detach/live in the now as a means to an end. because you can't half way detach. you either are detached or your not.
lashark:
Im not sure if I am detattched. I like that my first natural reaction to this, (after loving everything you wrote) was "I dont care if I am detattched or not because Ive been feeling really good".
Today I woke up and I feel his presence. I feel like he is here with me, Ive never felt this before. Its interesting to say the least. I know I have detattched before on many things. Its part of every manifestation that you attract on purpose. Not just relationships. Im not sure if I have with my manifestations involving Bundy. But like I said I really have been feeling good. I made the decision a loooong time ago that I would rather be happy above all else. I think that is when you truly decide to do "the work". There came a point where I said "Ugh I dont care about this anymore I just want to be happy!" That was when I gave up on trying to control the situation. Its been gradual getting to this point but I really like where I am. I like that when I think of him it is pure love and apprecation for who he is as a human being. I like being by myself and thinking about stuff that feels good. I like aligning myself with things. I just really really am liking myself and where I am right now. I like being who I am. These are the things I know for sure. Detattchment, Im not sure... and to be really honest, at this moment I dont even care : )
Sometimes I get a good feeling : ) =
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUT_Zl0EpdM
This was a beautiful post thanks for sharing : )
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