My biggest obstacle at the moment I think is the atachment that I have to my love. I can't seem to "ignore" the feelings I have for her and can't really do much to stop all the negative thoughts that come along with this atachment, because I seem to always have a little bit of doubt/fear or whatever. I can't describe the feeling, I just know it's bad.
I've been reading a lot about detaching (finally wrote it right

) and how it works, but all I read is: "Detaching is key to happiness" "Your desires will come faster when you detach". They don't explain how to detach. I know it's just to take your mind off of your manifestation, but it is so hard to do it when your emotions are so strong. If I try to do it, I can't. I detach myself unconsciously, but when I start thinking about it, I get atached again. Every time I see her, I get "atached" to her again and it's starting to become really annoying.
Would asking for smaller, more "believable" signs help me detach from her?
P.S: Today the metro was late and I was really afraid that it wouldn't come, so even with these material events detaching is hard