I haven't been on here a while 'cause I've been buzzing about in the vortex and making sure I flippin' stay here! (it's delicious, by the way
So when I came back on here after about a week or 2, yours was the first thread I saw. So this is the one I'm supposed to reply to
I'm gonna break it down really simple for ya:
WHAT MATTERS IS HOW YOU FEEL, NOT WHAT IS HAPPENING.
Excuse me for the caps, I just wanted to emphasise that because IT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT SECRET TO THE WHOLE ENTIRE FLIPPING UNIVERSE!!
Ok, so go and read that bit again, then read this next bit:
When you feel GOOD, it doesn't matter so much what you feel good ABOUT. If you feel good, good things will come. Good things will come in all the ways, including with your ex (by the way if you want her to stop being your ex, try calling her something else in your head, like your 'friend'...self talk is important and sends out the vibes, man!).
So...if you feel GOOD, good things WILL COME.
At first, they will come in the form of BETTER FEELING FEELINGS.
As you sustain those feelings, the good will start to THEN come in the form of MANIFESTATIONS.
The less resistance you hold...the quicker the manifestations will come.
That is why, when you start manifesting like a boss, what comes first will often me the 'little things' (the things you THOUGHT were little)...the ones you just threw out there to the universe and said 'hey Universe, I'd like...(insert thing you're manifesting here but not thinking about much...a cup of coffee, finding $5, seeing a certain kind of car or feather, a phone call from an old friend, new shoes). Because those are the things you've been holding the least resistance about. As you then really get excited about these little things...you'll hope more for the things which you have seen as being further away...then you'll see those things are not further away...you just thought they were. And the excitement of your current manifestations will spur you into new hope, imaginings and belief about more and more things, and then...soon...the entire universe will just yield to your slightest positive touch...And you'll be living bliss 24/7! Yes it is true!!
So, it goes like this:
1. feel good
2. keep feeling good, more good feelings come
3. sustain the good feelings, manifestations come
Obviously you want to be at #3. So you gotta FEEL GOOD.
The key is, it doesn't matter WHAT you feel good about. FEELING GOOD is more important than the FOCUS of your attention.
So, if thinking about the CURRENT state of affairs with your friend (I won't call her your ex anymore) is making you feel bad...don't focus on that! I put CURRENT in capitals there because it's only the residual manifestations of old vibrations, and current reality is no more important than you make it.
If thinking about this new, beautiful girl is making you feel GOOD...then think about that!
Feeling good about this new girl will NOT, I repeat NOT hinder your future relationship with your friend.
(Read that again).
Feeling good about this NEW relationship will in fact do the OPPOSITE of wrecking potential relationship with your friend. WHY? Because it will set you up into the vibrational reality of GOOD RELATIONSHIPS! And then, only good relationships will come to you! In fact, you NEED to be in the vibrational reality of GOOD RELATIONSHIPS to be able to attract MORE of them! And that's what you want, isn't it?
This new girl is a Universe/God-send. She's giving you the gift of a doorway into feeling good relationships.
There is no 'missing out'. You won't ruin potential good things with one person by experiencing good things NOW with another. In fact, you'll get to more good feeling relationships FASTER.
And, as a PS: It's totally cool to be attracted to more than one person. After all, we're all just the one big happy God-Soul anyways