Can LOA be used to attract love from long ago?

[Luvingmenow]

 :)Hello, everyone!  I am new to the forum, but I am so happy and grateful to have found it.   Thank you!

[Mr Brightside]

I just have a few questions to ask you, and I’m only doing this because your situation is complicated, in the sense that it will really affect many people around you with the decision you make.  Btw you don’t have to answer them on here, just think about them if you like.

Are you thinking about your old ex because you feel there is something missing in your marriage? Are the things missing in your marriage based on your feeling or some real lack that you husband has? When and why did you start feeling this way, what happened to make you doubt what you currently have?  If you took away this issue, how do you feel about your life in other areas? Lastly if you and your ex got back together, how would your life look like and how would you feel, is this something you can’t do right now in the present situation?

To answer your questions, yes you can get back with your ex; actually that’s the simple part in this entire situation.  If you want my honest advice, I would say take your husband and go see a marriage counselor.  You two are married, and have a child together; I think the situation deserves at least some open communication.  Two things will come out of this. Either you will realize there is nothing wrong with your marriage, and you just hit a bump in the road where you felt doubtful in what you have or you will separate and at least give him the opportunity to deal with his emotions.

I’m not trying to say you should or shouldn’t do anything, I’m saying your decision will have very deep influences on people around you.. and you should take it very seriously.

[Luvingmenow]

Thank you, Stefzilla!

[Mr Brightside]

Why do you think he is not contacting, is it because you are married? The ball is in his court, and I agree if you are initiating all the contact it would be on him to respond back to you.  In the mean time I would not make any decisions, at least until you know the bigger picture. The worst thing you can do it end your marriage only to find your ex is still unreliable. But at the same time, you wanted stability and he wasn’t able to provide that before, is this something he can do now.

I just don’t want you to make any rash decisions, and regret them later on. If being with your ex is something you really want, make sure that it is the right thing for you before you commit. Wait for the contact and talk openly with him. In the meantime try to reconnect with your husband, either through open discussions or counseling and see what you are missing in the relationship.