Can I manifest for someone else?

[annalouise]

I was wondering if I could manifest for someone else. Tony needs a lot of strength and wisdom to do the right thing. He has admitted many times to me that he is madly in love with me and has never felt this way before, but he says he is not strong enough to resolve his current problem and be free to be with me. I truly believe we are supposed to be together but maybe it will take time?  We haven't been in contact for 3 months and sometimes the pain I feel is just too much.
I am trying to keep myself busy and stay happy. Please help.

[annalouise]

Please some one reply and help me..........

[Vicki Christina]

I might suggest that you create positive affirmations for both of you.  Send him love and positive thoughts about how he is healing and is getting the strength and wisdom he needs to be in a new relationship with you.

[simplyjess]

I might suggest that you create positive affirmations for both of you.  Send him love and positive thoughts about how he is healing and is getting the strength and wisdom he needs to be in a new relationship with you.

Exactly what I was going to say

He's still in love with you, so acknowledge that as a success. =) Be patient, and be a friend. Just by being there for him unconditionally, it will help him heal and he will see that you've been there for him all this time. Ask him if there is anything you can do for him. It can be as simple as listening to him.

[Scorpio]

By feeling depresed,weak,unhappy what you will get is more that will streighten those bad emotiones,Its Law!

A true relationship sometimes needs time,the people in it need to grow a bit more to learn more,to feel more to make it work,sometimes it doesnt hapen from the first or second time.

much like the fairytales we all know the characters there never ,,live happily ever after,, from the start-they have to fight,prove,and earn their ,,live happily ever after,,-Think about that,also you have to know that all your wishes do come true,but at the perfectly right time,and this is really not something you should worry about becouse ultematly all want is this person back,so trust that he is on his way back,expect him,look out the window maybe he is there already!
No,he is not there and wount be there until u stop thinking about his problems,and start think about you and you only,what makes you happy,what makes you smile do that,try stuff dont sit your life waiting!

On the topic-can you manifest for someone else-no,you cannot.

[Mr Brightside]

I dont agree that you cant manifest for others. If you wish him to be happy, to resolve the issues in his life and turn it around then why not. He wants those things so why cant you also contribute to turning it around, of course you can. Send love, support and affirmations his way.. do it in pure heart not to gain anything but for him to be happy and overcome his obstacles. 

[tina_attract]

I believe you can help the process along. I mean, here on this forum, we're always sending each other positive vibes and love when one of us wants something. I'm always encouraging my friends in real life and introducing techniques to help them, even though most of them are not into the law of attraction. So you can definitely do that, but just you manifesting alone is not enough. He does need to realize it for himself, and help himself!

[annalouise]

thanks to everyone who gave advice. Any suggestions on affirmations?

[LovePoisoned]

The most correct answer would be BOTH yes and no.
a) Yes, you can manifest a better relationship for you two, as long as you keep up to the GOOD cause.

b) As for the "no" party - no, you cannot FORCE them into something they don't want, e.g. something BAD, because their own POSITIVE vibes are way stronger than your NEGATIVE vibes, which ones will eventually damage no one but you.

In case a), by generating good emotions and vibes, you empower your own self and become more and more able to manifest positive facts. Like a geometric progression.

In case b), what goes around comes around => that goes for both negativity and positivity. Being bad in your intentions will definitely come back around to you and will weaken your power and energy drastically. And you'll do nothing but hurt yourself. You will NEVER affect someone else's life in a bad way, unless given their permission (but that's a complicated thing). Their natural, even instinctive "army" of positivity will block negativity out of the way. Whatever you do, in case b) you are the loser.

So, annalouise, in your case - yes, of course you can have the good, filled with love relationship you BOTH deserve and want. Just be his only one, visualize, believe. There are some threads with affirmations, but I have no time to link any, cuz I'm off to bed, but you can always use:

Me and ... are LOVE.
Me and ... are SUPPORT.
Me and ... are AN AMAZING RELATIONSHIP.
Me and ... are HAPPY TOGETHER.

[karaheissman]

Law of attraction can be really powerful, but it also has limits. You can use the law of attraction to get almost everything you want for yourself; however this does not work when you want someone to do something. When you decide that you want a loving relationship and that you are open to receiving it any way the universe wants to bring it to you then that’s law of attraction and being a vibrational match for it.
Most people think that regularly imagining their ideal soul mates or ideal relationships will fix their current relationship statuses or find them the love of their lives right away. After all, like attracts like, right? However, there is more to the Law of Attraction for relationships that just wishing and wanting for things in your mind. And even if you send out a thousand positive thoughts throughout the day – it will not change things and  your relationship if you are the only one who is doing so. Because another person is involved and this person has his own intentions you cannot control what he will do, and you cannot ask the universe to force someone to make him do what you want him to do. I do not mean however that the things you want to happen won’t happen. They may happen but you can’t ask the universe to cause a certain person to do certain things. Law of attraction is not black magic or anything of that sort.

This may sound selfish for most, but the first thing you need to do is to nurture a loving relationship with yourself. Attract positive vibes. Choose to be happy. Then, open yourself to receive a loving relationship and prepare yourself to receive that love.