While I was walking away,I encountered Andrew's brother,Wilson on the way (he had earphones plugged in his ears). I leaned towards him & I told him that I have a gift for him that its there in the house but he still kept walking.I kinda felt bad for a little while but I said to myself,"Ok,if you mind me or not,fine.I don't care."
Well Wilson's reaction right there would make me not even want to attract him.
I know all of you mean well but my heart is set on Andrew.Yes,going out makes me feel good & it clears my mind but Andrew is always in my heart.I don't think about him desperately but I think of him lovingly.I don't cry anymore.I feel that pure love is flowing from my heart.I don't like anyone to replace Andrew,not even Wilson.I'm happy even if he's not around.Hell,I could feel his presence since his house is just a short distance from mine.I don't have to go to where he is.He is in my heart & he'll always be.
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Well it's her right to change her request.Clearly her heart is no longer set on Andrew.
Ever since the drama started,I was telling this to myself."It is ok if I don't end up with Andrew.I'm ok with any of his brothers.So I "chose" Wilson since he's just a year older than me.
Well perhaps she is in love with the entire family? She does love their mom a lot so maybe she just wants to get close to the mom?
Here is my opinion on this subject:
I don't understand why Brave Lioness feels the need to have a relationship with someone in that particular family. I mean she could be missing out on someone who would love her and show her the respect she deserves so why is she focused on people who have alienated themselves from her? It is one thing to feel in your gut that you belong with ONE specific person but kind of odd that you would feel that way about two different people from the same family. I realize that Wilson has been kind to her in the past and that is why she feels compelled to attract him, but if I were to fall in love with every man who has shown me kindness or anything I could mistake for romantic interest, I wouldn't know the difference between true love and and the need to feel loved.
Brave Lioness has been trying to attract Andrew for close to a year now. I'm not sure if her attempts were unsuccessful because of timing, or because she has not let go (until now with her new interest in Wilson,) or if maybe we really can not influence the free will of another (which some may say is against LOA.) I don't know the reasons. But all I can say is that I myself would not be wanting to attract someone who has blown me off, ignored me on purpose, or cut me as a contact on FaceBook or messenger. I would take that as a message that they were not interested and I think I would just put in a request to the universe that I wanted a relationship with whomever would match the list of qualities I desire in a mate. Then I would let it go and let the universe deliver them to my life when I was in perfect alignment.
Who knows? Maybe now that Brave Lioness has changed her focus over to Wilson, Andrew may be attracted to her after all.
Anyway Brave Lioness, it's your life and we all want to see you happy because we do love you and if it sounds as though some of us may seem harsh, it is because we see things from a different perspective and we don't want you to get your heart broken making the same mistakes we made. We are not only here to encourage and support you but we are also here to give you advice even though that advice may seem to go against what you desire; the decision is ultimately yours to make. Good luck with this one I hope you get whatever your heart desires and more! You know what you need to do................
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