Boyfriend treats me wrong

[lashark]

hahah screw it mayeb you should, going to the beach with someone that cares about you sounds WAAAY better than being around a guy stressed out cuz he doesnt even respect you, follow your heart and doo what makes you happy and if following your heart isnt making you happy then just do what makes you happy, WHO CARES what that might be as long as YOU are happy because that is all that matters. Good luck

[georgina]

Haha thank you, but u know that ex wasn't always that caring he was treating me bad also a time ago

[tereza]

The fact that he's adding 10 girls every day on facebook wouldn't make me jealous, so much as it would make him look kind of lame in my eyes. It's like he's collecting women like he's collecting pokemon.

Anyway, I think that this is one of those things that if you keep giving it attention, it'll just get worse. Since you've only been together for a month, I kind of agree with Lise. If what he's doing is bothering you, why stick around?

[Sherryy]

Hey georgina,

As you have a previous experience with the LOA and already succeeded in attracting an ex to be intersted in you, then i think you know the way and how to go.

look dear, i don't know but i can smell something in here, if you are with this new guy since only one month and he is not acting and behaving in a proper way and being immature then his love is not yet mature enough "why do you think you love him"?
I think you have to get a pen and paper and write down what do you realy like in him and why he deserves you to spend from your time and mind to change him to be suitable for what you want him to be ..  I think True love "that's my own beleive" mean that we love the other person unconditionally, we love them as they are and we shouldn't try to change them to make them as we want them to be because then you'll be a controlling person.

yes you can change him, but this is not good... either you love him as he is or just he is not the right person for you.. and  you have to be aware of something that NO body is completely perfect in everything, so if you feel you do love him and wants him then you have only ONE option which is to be PATIENT and by time you'll become more close to each others and your love both of you will grow mature and you both then will be able to see things more clearer and will know if you suits each others or not.

you have "if you realy do love him" to bare and try gently to show him that your self confidence is very high and whatever he is doing regarding adding those women on his fb is not affecting your confidence in your self, because you know the value of yourself, try to take things more easier and don't give attention to what he is doing but the only thing you have to do now is to make him love you more and more then he by himself will stop acting this way when he feels that he is not in need for whomever.

beleive me, things never change this way but slowly and wisely everything can be and happen exactly the way you want when you just don't give an attention to what you hate and don't want, and focus only on what you want and how you want it to be.

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT, NOT WHAT YOU DON'T WANT OR HATE

[Chantal]

Before I discovered the existence of the LOA, I searched the internet for "How to get an ex back?" What I discovered, was the push-pull technique, it might not sound really LOA like, but perhaps it is. What you can do is detach yourself from him (not like break up or so, but do not initiate contact or something), just act you do not care about him. The one who cares most, is not "in control" (stupid mind things perhaps) In the meantime, you can focus on yourself and your own hapiness.

If it is meant to be, then he will contact you and ask how come you are acting like that. You can say ... I do not know really what you can say. But you can "test" if he is worth it. What I also read, was that if you do not set your boundaries straight at the beginning of a relationship, it will keep get worse (Uh...in the Netherlands there is a saying: Zachte heelmeesters maken stinkende wonden > Soft heal masters make smelly wounds, haha). So I think it is wise to set your boundaries now instead of after a year or so. But you should focus on yourself now I suppose. Your happiness is in your hands, you cannot control him or his behaviour. The only thing you can do (and you did that) is say calm you do not want that behaviour because it does not show for yourself that you...are liked? or loved? or uh...whatever it is...   Be grateful for what you have and what you do not have, will come if you just think it is already there. Sleep well!