Author Topic: Beware of this user (Read 1061 times)

bravelioness · « **on:** April 18, 2011, 08:16:28 AM »

Hi people!I decided to post this in the relationships section since this is the most active part of the forum.Do you still remember this user "lola"?She messaged me (as in personal message) regarding my recent thread and this is what she said:

You are a pathetic little loser. You will never get Andrew or Wilson. Dream on!

If you ask me,she being totally rude so I blew my top.This is what I said to her:

O yeah?Are you God to say that?You even sent me a personal message to me just to say that?Who's pathetic now?Yeah.I'm gonna dream on.But let me tell you this.Every successful person started in a dream.Yes.They've encountered people LIKE YOU that are saying it's impossible,you'll never get there etc. but they GOT whatever it is they dream of b/c they disregarded all of the sh*t that are being said to them.You know what I ought to tell you?Find a life of your own.Stop ruining others' dreams.Maybe your life is so sh*tty that why you discourage people & the like.And one more thing.STOP messaging me or anyone else here or posting/replying to other's posts if you have nothing nice to say.Yeah.If you have nothing nice to say SHUT UP ok.

Well,I'm sorry for being a bit rude here but I have to tell you about this especially those who are trying to get back a special someone b/c she might make ugly responses that aren't helpful at all or might even send you personal messages that are somewhat similar to this.I just want to save you guys from being harassed by her/being pissed off.

Good day!

angel_star · « **Reply #1 on:** April 18, 2011, 01:57:51 PM »

Brave, thanks for the warning about the user. Is there any way to block her? And you need not worry about such people and their messages when so many of us are here supporting you, and wishing the best for you. I hope you did not worry too much, but I can understand it will get on the nerves some times. Remember 'Personal Emotional Trainers (PETs)' from 'The Power'? If you havent read that book, it says various people act like Personal Emotional Trainers for us. They throw many negative situations as challenges to us. But we should choose love, by looking for things we love in that person. If we cant love anything in a particular person, it is better that we turn away from them and look for other things in life that we love. If we react to them negatively, we'll end up attracting negativity to ourselves. Just consider 'lola' as a very tough PET and ignore her by looking at people who have loved you and supported you. However, I am not saying you or anyone should let such people harrass you. You have done a good job by replying firmly. But in future, if you still get such messages from anyone, do not spend your energy on replying to them. Just report about the abuse to the moderators. Do not let 'lola' have any space in your beautiful life.

lise · « **Reply #2 on:** April 18, 2011, 02:17:30 PM »

How unpleasant. I have found this forum to be a really good example of the positivity it promotes. I agree with angel star about the PETS - or maybe it is lola who has something to learn from you? as there must be a reason why they are on this forum or drawn to it.

You know what you know and you believe what you believe - being happy is the best form of "revenge" x

bravelioness · « **Reply #3 on:** April 18, 2011, 03:54:18 PM »

I already reported her to Ankur.Ankur said he sent a last warning message to her.

DH4-everhappyinlove · « **Reply #4 on:** April 18, 2011, 03:56:33 PM »

Bravelioness....This is for you

I PROMISE MYSELF...

TO BE STRONG THAT NOTHING CAN DISTURB MY PEACE OF MIND
TO TALK HEALTH, HAPPINESS, AND PROSPERITY TO EVERY PERSON I MEET
TO MAKE ALL MY FRIENDS FEEL THAT THERE IS SOMETHING WORTHWHILE IN THEM
TO LOOK AT THE SUNNY SIDE OF EVERYTHING AND MAKE MY OPINION COME TRUE
TO THINK ONLY OF THE BEST, TO WORK ONLY FOR THE BEST, AND TO EXPECT ONLY THE BEST
TO BE JUST AS ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT ABOUT THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS AS I AM BOUT MY OWN
TO FORGET THE MISTAKES OF THE PAST AND PRESS ON TO THE GREATER ACHIEVEMENT OF THE FUTURE
TO WEAR A CHEERFUL EXPRESSION AT ALL TIME AND TO GIVE A SMILE TO EVERY LIVING CREATURE THAT I MEET
TO GIVE SO MUCH TIME TO IMPROVING MYSELF THAT I HAVE NO TIME TO CRITICIZE OTHERS
TO BE TO LARGE FOR WORRY, TO NOBLE TO ANGER, TOO STRONG FOR FEAR, AND TOO HAPPY TO PERMIT THE PRESENCE OF TROUBLE
TO THINK WELL OF MYSELF AND TO PROCLAIM THIS A FACT TO THE WORLD, NOT IN LOUD WORDS, BUT IN GREAT DEEDS.
TO LIVE IN THE FAITH THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS ON MY SIDE, SO LONG AS I AM TRUE TO THE BEST THAT IS IN ME.

BY CHRISTIAN D. LARSON (MODIFIED BY THE SECRET 2007)

HANG IN THERE AND DON'T LET ANYONE DISTURB YOUR PEACE...YOU ARE BRAVE ENOUGH TO TELL YOUR STORY IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT OTHERS MIGHT THINK/SAY...GUESS WHAT A LOT WOULD HIDE THEIRS IN FEAR ....JUST BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

bravelioness · « **Reply #5 on:** April 18, 2011, 04:04:15 PM »

DHaynes-You're an angel!Where did you get this?Thanks for the support.

DH4-everhappyinlove · « **Reply #6 on:** April 18, 2011, 04:22:37 PM »

BRAVE....YOU ARE WELCOME MY LOVE...GOT IT FROM THE SECRET WEBSITE....I TYPED IT UP GLAD YOU LOVED IT.....HAVE A WONDERFUL DAT

DH4-everhappyinlove · « **Reply #7 on:** April 18, 2011, 04:23:52 PM »

WONDERFUL *DAY* THAT SHOULD READ

angel_star · « **Reply #8 on:** April 18, 2011, 04:40:00 PM »

DHaynes thanks a lot for putting that up here. I had downloaded that wallpaper from the Secret website a few months back. Everytime I open see that wallpaper, I feel positive energy flowing inside me

Ankur Sancheti · « **Reply #9 on:** April 18, 2011, 04:48:48 PM »

Brave and other fellow memebrs,

I am aware of this, rest assured i have an eye on each and every activity on forum.

I will take care of this.

ElGuardian · « **Reply #10 on:** April 18, 2011, 07:47:17 PM »

Quote from: Ankur Sancheti on April 18, 2011, 04:48:48 PM

Brave and other fellow memebrs,

I am aware of this, rest assured i have an eye on each and every activity on forum.

I will take care of this.

THIS BIG BOSS I VERRRRYYYYYYYYY LIKEEE

vpsean · « **Reply #11 on:** April 18, 2011, 08:33:35 PM »

Quote from: bravelioness on April 18, 2011, 08:16:28 AM

Hi people!I decided to post this in the relationships section since this is the most active part of the forum.Do you still remember this user "lola"?She messaged me (as in personal message) regarding my recent thread and this is what she said:

You are a pathetic little loser. You will never get Andrew or Wilson. Dream on!

If you ask me,she being totally rude so I blew my top.This is what I said to her:

O yeah?Are you God to say that?You even sent me a personal message to me just to say that?Who's pathetic now?Yeah.I'm gonna dream on.But let me tell you this.Every successful person started in a dream.Yes.They've encountered people LIKE YOU that are saying it's impossible,you'll never get there etc. but they GOT whatever it is they dream of b/c they disregarded all of the sh*t that are being said to them.You know what I ought to tell you?Find a life of your own.Stop ruining others' dreams.Maybe your life is so sh*tty that why you discourage people & the like.And one more thing.STOP messaging me or anyone else here or posting/replying to other's posts if you have nothing nice to say.Yeah.If you have nothing nice to say SHUT UP ok.

Well,I'm sorry for being a bit rude here but I have to tell you about this especially those who are trying to get back a special someone b/c she might make ugly responses that aren't helpful at all or might even send you personal messages that are somewhat similar to this.I just want to save you guys from being harassed by her/being pissed off.

Good day!

Hey Brave,

Have you reported her to the moderator?

I honestly wouldn't engage with someone like that ...

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org

schenderson22 · « **Reply #12 on:** April 19, 2011, 03:24:31 AM »

The owner of this website, Ankur, has it handled Sean.

Sweet Spirit · « **Reply #13 on:** April 19, 2011, 07:24:13 PM »

Proverbs 12:19 reminds us that the tongue is mightier than the sword and words cut like a knife, so we should all choose our words carefully for a knife will cut through the flesh while words will cut through the heart.

Ankur Sancheti · « **Reply #14 on:** April 19, 2011, 08:34:08 PM »

Thanks SweetSpirit.

Alright, lets close this topic here, let engage energy into something Constructive, than to keep disucssing this issue.

Forgive and Move on.

Lola, No Hard Feeling, we do welcome you, should you want to join us again.

Thanks all!

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