Miracle in the Making ;) .. [Delightful Journey!!]

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

Wow!  What a great idea!!  I think I will join you, wholeheartedly!!

I need to take a week and just get stuff done and focus on me and not think about my guy.

So bravo, for the wonderful idea!!! 

I'm in!! 

[Monica Vijay]

Miracles I must admit that ur happiness and positivity has become infectious to me and everyone over here..    I get very much inspired reading ur posts.. count me also in as Im too   working on myself alone currently and not to obsess over him.. and now a   days im not stalking him on fb and gmail as im busy looking after my   own things..  Much love to u..

[Miracles]

Hello beautiful people!

Well, I've been taking care of myself, eating healthy, exercising (i lost 1 more Kg!  ), and really contemplating my life and what i want to do with it..
I've had some really down moments.. Many of my friends are graduating (i have 1 more year left), and many are starting career life, and many are getting married and engaged!
So it made me think about what i really want to do and about my true dreams.. I'm still searching my soul for answers. And i know, As long as i keep getting happy, loving and taking care of myself, and giving love and gratitude to the world, EVERYTHING will work out perfectly, and GREAT things will come! 

About my man, Well, That's one more thing.. He hasn't called since we talked.. But I truly feel that it's ok.. at this point, I've said and done everything i can.. I learned so much! I learned Patience, Unconditional love , Courage to open my heart and be vulnerable .. And I really have no idea what's in store.. but i'm sure, whether it's Him or someone else, My next relationship will be AWESOME! I wrote the list describing the love of my life, and the reltionship i'm ready to receive in my life.. and i focus on that!

I remember Thumbelina's words when she said that getting abck together is a slow process and it takes long ..And sometimes i feel like I'm running out of patience, but I think the universe is teaching me one more lessn , which is "Letting Go" ..

We talk about letting go A LOT here, and i've manifested tons of things because i'm not attached to the outcome.. I lost around 9 Kg of weight, I got a lot of easy money, got my perfect pair of skinny jeans, got good grades in college given that i made no effort at all in studying ,,..
But my relationship with my guy is a bit more challenging to be completely detached from..
But at this point, I have nothing to lose really.. He's just one man.. and I'm already happy in my life, so it would be a privelage to him or any other man i choose, to be MY king!
So at this point, it's either he let me know how much he wants me, OR I'm already on my way moving on... I owe ths to myself.. I was too attached, and I went through alot of pain over all this.. Now, it's HIS turn to prove if he's good enough to me my man!

I used to be SO afraid of giving him the impression that i don't care.. I made sure to talk to him every now n then, but now, i'm in a totally different place.. I really don't feel like initiating contact with him at ALL!

It's a very interesting journey I'm on! And I owe so much of my growth to you guys here! Your immense help , support and healthy positive energy are blessings that I'm so grateful for! 

Can't wait to see what's unfolding next!   

[Miracles]

One more thing..
Some time ago, I asked the universe to show me a Butterfly, as a symbol of the transformation in my relationship with my man, and that we're getting closer..

next day i saw one (I was in the DESERT!!!) which was amazing!

Actually, today I was not thinking about butterflies at all, and was not asking for any signs.. and i saw butterflies, twice!

Oh well, the universe has mysterious ways of letting you know that it's there, watching and working things out! 

[Believing Love]

Miracle ..

i always got signs too .. but i didnt go specific like you .. i always got his car number plate every time i asked the universe to give me a sign if im in the right track .. and you know what .. it's like less than an hour,the sign will show up

i am happy for you and i believe we are closer to our manifestation

[Miracles]

Believing Love,

From what i went through, i can definitely say that the more you let go, and feel like you don't care about the oucome that much anymore, YOU ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU WANT!

I've been contemplating this paradox.. But i think it's the universe's way of teaching us to ALWAYS put the focus on US.. and that when we direct it to something else, We lose our energy and we feel pain!

When i got the sign the first time, i was thrilled, but immediately, i shifted the focus from myself, BACK to my boyfriend.. and the result : No more signs for a really long time...
(that's when we are too eager and attached, and expect things to go well, but then they don't , and we feel bad, and so forth.. ) ..
But this time i avoided this vicious cycle.. I was "amused" when i got the sign, and i was grateful for the universe's presence.. BUT i didn't stop my life and wait for his call or text... I  went on with my life, exercising, focusing on my happiness and feeling good, and generally minding my own business!

and the result? We had an AMAZING heartfelt conversation on phone, and he wants to meet up, again! 
I don't know how it will end, and i'm fine whichever way it does.. I'm enjoying, observing and learning!

I'm delighted to be witnessing this universal magic in my life!
Can't wait to the next surprise to unfold!!!

Much love! 

[tereza]

I've been contemplating this paradox.. But i think it's the universe's way of teaching us to ALWAYS put the focus on US.. and that when we direct it to something else, We lose our energy and we feel pain!

Thank you for sharing this, it's a good reminder that I need to direct the focus back on me.

[Believing Love]

When i got the sign the first time, i was thrilled, but immediately, i shifted the focus from myself, BACK to my boyfriend.. and the result : No more signs for a really long time...
(that's when we are too eager and attached, and expect things to go well, but then they don't , and we feel bad, and so forth.. ) ..
But this time i avoided this vicious cycle.. I was "amused" when i got the sign, and i was grateful for the universe's presence.. BUT i didn't stop my life and wait for his call or text... I  went on with my life, exercising, focusing on my happiness and feeling good, and generally minding my own business!

I couldnt agree more, when something starts to work out, we start to think too much and becoming attach to the outcome and the Universe is sending us back square one. We often don't see it because we thought that it's a process that we have to go through. But No, actually things will manifest as soon as we start to let go and dont really care about the outcome ( detaching our self from the outcome ) And sometimes we didnt appreciate the process of being and ask for more. Yep,i couldnt agree more about that, that's like a phase that made us stuck during the whole process.

Being Happy is the key. Signs are given just to show that we are in the right path..sometimes the Universe give us signs .. sometimes not .. we shouldnt worry about that because everything is created as soon as we visualize our dream

Let go is the Key !!

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

I love this post because as I am letting go and feeling less attached to my situation and the outcome, today I started to think....."What the heck is going on?......Do I care about this any more?"   I am getting so detached that I am shocking myself, thinking maybe I don't really want it anymore. 

I do, but it kind of feels like I don't, or I just don't care. 

After almost 9 months of being obsessed with this, since focusing on my happiness and practicing the LOA, I seem to be just too involved in my own life to care about the outcome.

It almost feels foreign to me to not care. 

If it wasn't for that little voice in my head reassuring me that this is exactly where I am suppose to be and what I am suppose to do, I might start doubting or just giving up but the voice keeps telling me, "stop it!  Don't waste time thinking about any of this because you have been shown your future and you know the outcome, so get on with what you are doing and just keep moving forward and following the path that makes you happy.  The rest will come when the time is right......it's all good!" 

So thank you for this post!  It is just a written verification that I am truly on the right path and that everything is working just as it should be!

I think this post is a personal sign to me! 

Happy, Happy, Joy, Joy!!!   

[Monica Vijay]

I love this post because as I am letting go and feeling less attached to my situation and the outcome, today I started to think....."What the heck is going on?......Do I care about this any more?"   I am getting so detached that I am shocking myself, thinking maybe I don't really want it anymore. 

I do, but it kind of feels like I don't, or I just don't care. 

This was my exact feeling yesterday night.. i was really shocked as of why i did think that way.. am i really letting go?? coz since ever i fell in love with him i've never thought like this.. i also doubted whether my love for him is getting thin or what but at that moment  tears dropped from my eyes and my lips started to move telling that "no matter what he's the one for you and regret this present reality and look forward for the future.. its exactly is what u asked for"..
 
 Im persevering and doing all this just for him and him only.. to get together with him no matter what anyone says ill about him.. i know him very well.. i love him to the core.. but im not obsessing much now-a-days.. and it feels good.. i dont even mind or worry even if he dont contact for a week or more.. i guess im on the right track and also I get the signs whenever i ask for.. bless me.. support me..

Also one thing i wanted to ask sorry to him for doubting his relationship and behavior with me but i cant ask it to him directly and so im asking it here and im sure it'll reach his mind.. IM REALLY REALLY SORRY HUN..LOVE U..

Much love to all..

[DH4-everhappyinlove]

Believing Love,

From what i went through, i can definitely say that the more you let go, and feel like you don't care about the oucome that much anymore, YOU ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU WANT!

I've been contemplating this paradox.. But i think it's the universe's way of teaching us to ALWAYS put the focus on US.. and that when we direct it to something else, We lose our energy and we feel pain!



Miracles you could not have said it any better....it is a reminder to us all...Love your post!

much love and peace.

[Miracles]

About the law of detachment

A blog entry from Paul Tobey , Link: http://www.paultobey.com/blog/archives/2011/01/06/law-of-detachment/


Many people ask, “what is the quickest way to get from where I am to where I want to be?” Funnily enough, the answer is; stop trying to figure out how you will get it.
And, that is perhaps the most difficult lesson that we as humans will ever have to learn. The problem for most people is that when they set their sights on a specific outcome, their focus is usually only on one way to get it.
For example; let’s say you want to take a vacation. The way most people would go about that is to pick a time that they are off work and then save up the money to go on the vacation. And while that seems like a logical strategy, there are a million other ways that that vacation could come to you.

I’m not going to spend the short time I have for this article and explain all the different ways that it could come about, that’s where your imagination comes in. And then most people would say,” that’s not reality.” And, I would say that reality is for people that lack imagination.
What we’re really talking about here is something called the law of detachment. It basically means whatever comes about is actually the quickest route from where you are to where you want to get. Generally the way that we want something to happen and force and expect it to happen is not usually the quickest way.
If we focus on a specific path, strategy or plan to bring something about, when it doesn’t happen exactly as planned we become upset, agitated, worried and fearful. Because, we really desire that specific thing to come about.
It seems natural to do that. That’s the way we’ve learned. We were taught that if we work hard will get ahead. My question to you is,” how is that working for you?”
If you are going to really understand the law detachment, then you’re going to have to go much deeper than just thought. Most humans would think their way to or result when in actual fact they should be feeling their way there.
Every human possesses a massive amount of creative magnetic energy, humans are ultimately creative, everyone of us. And, were also magnetic, we draw situations, circumstances and people to us based on how we feel.
That is ultimately the law of attraction at work. The law of attraction and the law detachment are intertwined. Why is that? Because, when you detach from any specific outcome, you are feeling better, you know that life is supposed to be effortless.
And so when there is an effortlessness about life and you are feeling good, that activates the law of attraction which then brings things to your quicker than if you were to force them.

The whole problem with the law detachment is that it is very uncommon in today’s world. Most people have either not heard of it or have heard of it and dismissed it because it’s not part of their belief system. I once had a gentleman send me an e-mail after a seminar saying that he did not believe it was a good idea to make money while you sleep.
He said he was from the old country where they work hard for their money. I do not have a problem with that. But, the question is if you’ve been working hard your whole life and still have not got what you consider to be a hat then you need a better plan, a better strategy.

My belief system says the law detachment is the quickest way to get from where you are now to where you want to get. By all means, pick a specific destination, pick a specific goal. However, when you take action, and you must absolutely take action, don’t be surprised if the very path that you wanted to take has several roadblocks in the way. And rather than force yourself through them, the law detachment states; stop, reassess, reinitiate, and take the opportunity that seems like the easiest route.
This is not the normal way to behave. But, there is nothing normal about extraordinary success. If you want extraordinary success, you will eventually have to understand, practice and utilize the law of detachment in your life.

But do not misunderstand me, the law of detachment does not mean saying to yourself, ” well I know wasn’t to happen anyways so therefore I’m detached, I’m okay with it.” The law of detachment is not putting up with the things in your life that you do not want, the law of detachment is initiating, and taking action towards a big goal, but then detaching from whatever path and opportunity that is sent to you.
It is very difficult to do this. You literally have to revamp your entire belief system.
So my suggestion is; you either pick up a book and read more about it, and there are several out there, or you take a training seminar with somebody that understands this law and can give you specific exercises on how to make it come about.
A perfect example of the law detachment is this very article. Every morning I set out on my walk, with my digital recorder, not knowing exactly what I want to write. I just know that I will write something. It doesn’t have to be perfect and I don’t have to strategize for six months on an article. I do not have to force the contents to come but, I just allowed the meditative act of walking to bring into my mind something that feels good and to dictate that into the recorder.

I have written hundreds of articles using law of detachment. The opposite way, like I said, is to know exactly what you’re going to write. And usually when someone tries to write exactly what is planned they generally never get started or never finish, because it always has to be perfect.
The hardest thing that I’ve had to do in my life is to understand the law detachment because as a Virgo I am inherently a perfectionist. However, I can tell you that when I let go of the need to be perfect, which is an ego driven concept, things flowed easier into my life, and for this I am grateful.

My greatest wish for you is that you understand the law detachment. And, at least initiate some steps to bring it into practice in your life.

[Miracles]

How to Detach from the Outcome for Creative Visualization
By Tania Kotsos
 Link: http://www.mind-your-reality.com/how_to_detach.html

Article:

The fifth and final step in the creative visualization process is to learn how to detach from your intended outcome. Detachment cannot be emphasized enough. Detach yourself from the outcome you have chosen to see manifest in your life. Whenever you are attached to someone or something you effectively strip yourself of your authentic power to consciously create the life you choose. You cannot be grateful or feel unconditional love or enjoy peace of mind when you are attached to the unfolding of a specific outcome, so detach, detach, detach.

What it Means to be Detached: Detachment is a mindset. To be detached means to be at peace with what is, knowing that whatever you are experiencing, whether "good" or "bad", is a product of the creative power of your mind - all of it. To be detached is to be empowered by this knowledge that you create your reality and that you are one with the One Universal Mind - the One Creator - for whom nothing is impossible and impossible is nothing. When you are truly detached, there is no desire. Your desire becomes your will. Your will is your intention. It is your choice. It leaves no room for doubt. Endeavour to make the mindset of detachment part of your everyday life and of your creative visualization sessions. In so doing, you will enjoy a peace of mind far greater than you have ever experienced.

A Powerful Exercise to Learn How to Detach: Use this creative visualization technique to learn how to detach from your intended outcome. While in a relaxed state, imagining your mental images with feeling and belief, surround your intention with a brilliant white light. Imagine this warm and protective light expanding outwards until it fills the room in which you are sitting, feel it extending beyond the walls, above the height of the trees and higher still above the clouds until it extends beyond the atmosphere, beyond the solar system and becomes one with infinity - with your choice at its very centre. Mentally sense how your choices are free of any desire and allow yourself to experience the greater sense of certainty which comes with this transformation. Then hand over your intended outcome to the All-Knowing, Universal Mind knowing that you have planted a living seed of creation in the invisible realm from which all things become manifest by Universal Law.

Making Detachment Effortless: As you learn how to detach from your outcome, you will find that thesecret to effortless detachment is faith. Not the kind of faith that is blind or based on wishful thinking but rather that which comes from "seeing" the invisible realm in the same multicolour with which you see the visible world. Detachment becomes effortless when you internalise the truth that your circumstances are simply mirroring your beliefs and that in order to see any transformation in your life, no matter how miraculous you may deem it to be, all you need do is believe it.

Detaching in the Face of Panic: Panicking that your desire may not manifest is a sure sign that you are attached, which itself is a product of your desire. A powerful aid when learning how to detach, is to learn to transform your desire into your choice. Attachment is really nothing more than ignorance of the Truth about reality creation and your thought power. Instead of trying to desperately detach from your desire in the face of panic, just take a deep breath, relax and focus on consciously understanding the truth that all is energy, that you are one with the All-Powerful Universal Mind, that you are connected to everything and everyone, that your unwanted circumstances have absolutely no creative power other than that which you give them and that your mind is the creative centre of your reality. When you know all this to be true, then panic will be transformed into certainty and the need to detach will fall away for "the Truth shall have set you free".

In a nutshell, the fifth and perhaps the most critical step in the creative visualization process is to learn how to detach from that which you intend to create in your life. Attachment in any sense is disempowering and holds you prisoner to circumstances and misconceived external forces. Detachment itself becomes easy when your creative visualization sessions are based in the kind of faith that is the "evidence of things not seen", allowing you to say with calmness and peace of mind, "this or something better".

[Miracles]

Effortless Detachment – the Missing Key to Conscious Creation
By Tania Kotsos

Link: http://www.dreammanifesto.com/effortless-detachment-missing-key-conscious-creation.html


Detachment from your desired outcome is vital to creating your ideal reality. To be attached to your desires is to live in the fear that they will not materialize and traps you in a continuous state of desire. Attachment to any thing or any one turns love into fear and belief into doubt. Faith allows you to detach yourself from the outcome and transforms your desires into your choice.

Attachment is Giving Away Your Power
The instant you attach yourself to a specific person’s actions or words or to a certain outcome, you give your power away to external forces and circumstances. In effect, you give away your power to create your own reality.

To be attached to any one or to any thing is to tell yourself that you are somehow incomplete without that person, thing or event in your life. In so doing you fail to see the divine perfection in what is, as it is. Instead, you create within yourself a desperate need to control the process and a sense of doubt as to whether your desire will manifest. Attachment breeds doubt and as Kahil Gibran said, “doubt is a pain too lonely to know that faith is his twin brother”.

Detachment Transforms Desire into Will
Paradoxically, desire keeps your desires away from you because to desire something is to acknowledge its absence in your life. When you become certain of the outcome, then your desire becomes your will. Your will is your intention, it is your choice. It transforms “what could be” into “what is” and dissolves all doubt. When you will something, you no longer desire it to happen, you choose for it to do so. Remember that we were all given “free will” – you have the free will to create the reality of your choice.

Faith is the Antidote for Attachment
When you detach yourself from the outcome you will instantly feel your doubt and fear transforming into a deep sense of knowing and certainty – this is faith. Faith is the route to true detachment. It is the only way to willingly hand over your choices to the Omnipotence of the Universe of which you are a part. To have faith does not mean to sit back and wish things could be different.

It is to relax in the knowledge that your choice has already manifested in the mental realm from which all things manifest, and to take inspired action toward that specific outcome materializing in the physical world. Faith is not blind. To the contrary, it is “the evidence of things not seen”.

Making Detachment Effortless
Detachment comes naturally when you know, understand and apply the Truth that you are one with the Universal Mind – the All, the One Creator – for which nothing is impossible. Whenever you feel a sense of panic or a need to control the process whether it be in your day-to-day thoughts or during your creative visualization sessions, then know that you are in a state of attachment. In that moment, relax and remind yourself of the Truth that time is an illusion of the physical realm and that what you have chosen to experience is already here albeit simply in the process of transforming from a non-physical to a physical state. You are only ever in control when you do not have a need to control.

Do Not Confuse Detachment with Giving Up
To detach is not the same as giving up on your choices. On the contrary, it is to feel so certain of their manifestation in your life, that you no longer have to worry, wonder or even think about them. When you are detached you feel more powerful, determined and clear in your thoughts. You can tell whether you have detached or given up by gauging how you feel. Simply put, when you detach you feel empowered, when you give up you feel disempowered.

Letting Go Allows for Flow
When you are attached to the manifestation of a specific outcome, you place yourself in a state of resistance to what is, and as the saying goes “what you resist persists”. To detach shifts your state into one of total non-resistance where panic transforms into peace of mind and certainty. This is the state which allows life to flow. This is the state which allows for your desires to become your choice and your choice to become your reality.

It maximises your thought power and allows your choices to manifest in the shortest period of time as you consciously align yourself with the Law of Attraction. It enables you to enjoy the process and know that everything is in perfect order as it is. When you are detached, life becomes a game to be enjoyed.

“This or Something Better”
Detachment allows you to experience the full gamut of life. You open yourself up to experiences and events infinitely more joyful than perhaps even those that you initially desired for yourself. This is why it is important to always say “this or something better” when you choose something in your life. When you can say that with all honesty, then you know you are truly detached.

In a nutshell, detachment is vital to allowing for your ideal reality to manifest in your physical world. Attachment breeds panic, fear and disempowerment which detachment transforms into peace of mind, certainty and empowerment. Detachment transform your desire into your choice. The route to detachment is faith. The Truth that you are One with the Universal Mind and that everything in your outside world is a reflection of your inner world, makes detachment effortless.

In a nutshell, detachment is vital to allowing your ideal reality to manifest in your physical world. Attachment breeds panic, fear and disempowerment which detachment transforms into peace of mind, certainty and empowerment. Detachment transforms your desire into your choice. The route to detachment is faith. The truth that you are One with the Universal Mind and that everything in your outside world is a reflection of your inner world, makes detachment effortless.

[Vicki Christina]

Miracles,  These articles on detachment are priceless.    I hope they get marked so we are able to find them easily when new members come here and ask about letting go and detachment!  Hugs!