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[win-my-race]

I keep getting hot and cold vibes from her.  She went out of her way to listen to my game on the radio this weekend which is something she never did before when we dated, but afterwards I tried talking to her and she was really cold.  She sends me a few texts yesterday, but as soon as I get into the conversation she leaves me hanging and wont respond and claims she forgot to text me back.  I guess I am trying to decide if I should pursue or back off and almost ignore her?  When I ignore her it has made upset in the past and makes her pursuit my attention more.

[tereza]

Is she still in a long-distance relationship?

[win-my-race]

Yes she is

[win-my-race]

yes she is.  Yesterday she found me studying by claiming to smell my scent in the library which seems pretty crazy to me.  She never saw me, just smelled that I was there.  We had a decent convo, but no vibes that she is coming my way though yet.

[Vicki Christina]

Well let her keep looking for you.   Lean back and let her do the work to connect.

[MiaVictoria]

Really interesting, WMR, that she caught your scent in the library.  Maybe there is something still existing between you two.   

[tereza]

Well let her keep looking for you.   Lean back and let her do the work to connect.

Yeah, I think that's probably the best thing to do.

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

This girl is calling him on a regular basis and listening to his games and now smelling or sensing him in the library.....connected?  You bet!!!  Interested?  You bet!!! She is obviously drawn to you.........just give it some time, patience is the key here but I am betting, if she thought you were interested in someone else or even dating someone else.....all hell would break lose!!  But I wouldn't go out and find someone to date just because you want to illicit a response from her, just saying that I am fairly certain she would be very upset and would even possibly come clean with her interest in you if she thought you were interested in someone else seriously. 

[win-my-race]

thanks for the input and I think I am handling it pretty well and just letting things happen.  We had lab together a few nights ago and I got some good signs that she feels very comfortable around me.  I had to get hooked up to electrodes to monitor my muscle activation with exercises and she was the one to volunteer to hook up the nodes to my body, which involved a lot of touching of my body.  It was her turn next and I returned the favor and had to be very close to her and touch her.  It felt great to be close to her again in which we were flirting as we helped eachother out.  After we were done she seeked out to sit very close to me and observe the other students.  I also feel like I have a sixth sense for her as I was walking out of class erlier today I could feel her near me and gave a quick glance around me and caught her coming out of a door towards me in which we had another quick but pleasant conversation as we both wished eachother good luck in our games this weekend. 

I am very happy to say that we feel very comfortable around eachother and can still sense eachother when we are nearby.  That is something we always had when we dated and our friends thought we were crazy that we could do that! haha But I still dont know if its enough to make her come to me as she does seem very happy in her relationship now which I am happy for her.  I just feel like we are honestly meant for eachother, our body chemistries tell me so.

[win-my-race]

just an update and more hot and cold action.  After my game there was a halloween celebration at the local bar in which she and ran into me briefly at first.  Then she came and found me a few minutes later and sat with me.  Her and her roomate stuck with me the entire time and they were looking goregous in their costumes.  We shared a lot of laughs, danced, and lookd at eachother.  It was my first time meeting her new roomate and she seemed to very interested in me as well, as she later told me she knows a lot about me as my girl has mentioned me several times.  We talked about hanging with eachother after the bar but I could tell my ex was kind of hesitant while the roomate wanted to.  I got a call 20 minutes later from my ex just asking where the party was, which was back at me place and said she would let me know.  They decided to stay home and watch movies together, but I got a few texts at 4 am just asking how the party was.  Sunday was silent, then monday after class she waited for me, we talk for a bit then she just took off.  I texted her later in the night and she took three hours to answer and just gave me a one word reply and didn't respond when I wrote back.  Women, you are very confusing creatures! I hope she doesn't feel guilty by spending time with me.