Attracting your soul mate

[angel_star]

I know that to find love, you have to love yourself first. I think that is the most important part. Others cannot love you if you do not love yourself first.

Absolutely Most people who want to attract their life partners forget this point. If you do not love yourself you cannot have love in your life. Remember you can give to others only what you give to yourself. And its not just the case in getting your twin flame but to get anything that you love into your life, you should give love to yourself first

[vpsean]

I don't actually believe in a 1-for-1 soul mate

Hey Ginny,

This is a strong point and I agree with it wholeheartedly. Have you considered the idea that maybe it's not the universe specifically that gives you the challenge of being apart, but perhaps you did before you were born for some reason you can't understand yet? 

I don't know you well enough to say for certain, but you may enjoy looking up the topic of Twin Flames. That alone will lead you to other ideas about soul mates ... there's a lot of different theories on it however so take it all with a grain of salt and be open to possibilities ...

From what I have learnt, soulmate dose not necessarily have to be your lover. It can be a friend, a parent, a sibling, etc. Also, we do not have just one soulmate. We have many.

In another thread on this forum, I read that that person who's born just  for us is our twin flame and not soulmate. I heard it here for the first time and it made sense. In my opinion, since we have many soulmates but just one twin flame, it is possible that we get into a relationship with one soulmate and then we split because may be their 'season' (taking from Sheri) in our life ended. When it comes to twin flame, if we attract them into our lives, then they shall stay on forever.

As for the Universe creating our twin flame and keeping them in hiding, here is my opinion. The Universe has already created everything that we desire. Not just our twin flames but literally everything that we want is already created and is waiting for us to draw it into our lives. The reason somethings do come into our lives and some do not is that we are on the same vibrating frequency with some things, while with the others, we are not. So even though all that we desire is already there, in order to bring it into our lives we should be on the same vibrating frequency as our desire. Same thing with our twin flame. We have to be on the frequency of love to allow our twin flames into our lives. And the beginning is by loving ourselves unconditionally first.

Angel,

I think your thoughts on this whole subject are pretty spot on ... at least in my opinion and what I've come to believe with soul mates and twin flames. Personally, I believe Sarah (the girl in the photo) is my twin flame (I also feel very fortunate that I didn't know of the concept until after we were together and had many WILD experiences that we later found to be described by many as 'twin flame' experiences) -- What I recommend to people is really not to get to hung up on the idea. Whether her and I are twin flames or not, I don't think it fully matters in this realm ... what does matter is we have a very deep and profound love - the definition of it? Not to get hung up over ...

Sean...
     Sorry about mistaking her for your wife. I don't know what made me think that

     I wrote that list last night and I have already read through it tonight. I really focused on feeling it, not just reading it. I caught myself smiling throughout the entire thing.  I am so glad and grateful that you suggested I do that.

     "I have all the time in the world" sounds like a much better thing to say. Thank you for pointing that out. I always tell myself that I have plenty of time, so that I don't rush myself. It really does help me get more done. Now I will focus on, "I have all the time in the world" 

Ha Wyat - Oh no worries at all, it's all good. Sarah was sitting next to me and I laughed out loud and told her. It's funny though because though we don't have the legal title of husband and wife, it is as though in this last year we've been together, that we've been married for decades. We've had a life time of experiences together and it's amazing.

I'm so glad the affirmation and change in perspective resonated with you. 

I know that to find love, you have to love yourself first. I think that is the most important part. Others cannot love you if you do not love yourself first.

Absolutely Most people who want to attract their life partners forget this point. If you do not love yourself you cannot have love in your life. Remember you can give to others only what you give to yourself. And its not just the case in getting your twin flame but to get anything that you love into your life, you should give love to yourself first

Could I get an Ah-freaking-men for you two ;-) ?

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com
 

[Wyat]

Sean...
     I am so glad that you two are happy together. I hope you live a long and happy life together 

[angel_star]

[Could I get an Ah-freaking-men for you two ;-) ?

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com
 

What does this mean? I did not understand!!

[priyaLOA]

Here's a wonderful method of attracting your soulmate as described in this Silva System -

http://silvalifesystem.s3.amazonaws.com/attract-your-perfect-soulmate.pdf


God Bless You All,

LOVE,
Priya

[vpsean]

Sean...
     I am so glad that you two are happy together. I hope you live a long and happy life together 

Thanks Wyat.

[Could I get an Ah-freaking-men for you two ;-) ?

What does this mean? I did not understand!!

Lol. "Can I get an Amen" for what was being said before. lol.

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com

[angel_star]

Lol. "Can I get an Amen" for what was being said before. lol.

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com

Ahh okay! You see, people from all over the world are there in this forum so sometimes it becomes difficult for me to understand some expressions that are totally new to me!! And thank you Sean

[vpsean]

Lol. "Can I get an Amen" for what was being said before. lol.

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com

Ahh okay! You see, people from all over the world are there in this forum so sometimes it becomes difficult for me to understand some expressions that are totally new to me!! And thank you Sean

Lol, cultural differences can be hilarious at times :-)


With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com

[angel_star]

@Sean: Agreed

[blue1]

Others cannot love you if you do not love yourself first.

Loving yourself is important, but that does not guarantee that others will love you back.

[angel_star]

Others cannot love you if you do not love yourself first.

Loving yourself is important, but that does not guarantee that others will love you back.

Why do you think so? Loving yourself totally does guarantee that others will love you back. That 'other' can be your ex, or someone much better. But you do get loved back!

[vpsean]

Hi Everyone,

Wow! Haven't been here in so long - Sarah and I have been extremely busy with our Adventures in Manifesting books. I had to stop by and share something quite synchronistic ...

I have an e-mail folder titled "Forums" to capture any response notifications on threads I've been involved with ... I haven't checked it in months until now. I just noticed a response here from back in November ...

Well, I completely forgot about posting in this forum thread - let alone it being titled "Attracting Your Soul Mate."

Here's what's great: Hay House, the #1 publisher of self-help, metaphysical and Law of Attraction material, requested Sarah and I write a book on this exact topic :-)

We're not sure when the release date will be, but we'll definitely update you and let you know if you'd like to know :-)

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org