Attracting a situation I don't want

[djatomicdog]

Hi guys,

After some advice.

My head is spinning as my ex is going out next weekend, I don't know what she is doing or where she is going but she has asked some mutual friends to babysit.

All I have going through my head is that she is going on a date with another guy... I know its speculation and madness and the more I think in this way the I could manifest it... but I don't know how to stop it and get back to being positive. I think if she really was going on a date she would of said something to our friends, but I don't want to end up finding out through our daughter as that would be mortifying.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks so much.

Tim

[pq]

Hello Tim
Well is really difficult put a stop in your thinking but you must stop , because you are feeding your illusion.  Human mind naturally thinks to much and our imagination is so complete and complex , but you must use it for your happiness , for our life and not to make you suffer without reason.  You are suffering and creating bad energies based in your fears and in your imagination and that is not good. Stop , go to sleep ,  do things that you love to do , things that make you happy and positive and to distract you ,  and most important use your imagination for a good cause : to make you peaceful and happy.
I Hope this can help you...

Lots of good vibes and peace for you Tim
Hug.

[schenderson22]

Tim, this is normal.  We all get stressed when we know someone we love is going out and we don't know what they are doing.  The question is how long do you plan on letting this behavior control you?  We cannot control a situation but we can definitely control how we choose to react to it. 

First and foremost I would say do NOT act on any of your emotions at this time.  My next piece of advice is to "forgive" her in your heart.  Literally say to yourself over and over "I forgive her, I forgive her".  Do you want to be back together with her?

Next I would say listen ( with headphones) to the following each night before bed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7dEkWvqrlA&list=FLnBDT1ODm-LCip0Iym6RogQ&index=9&feature=plpp_video

  This will help raise your vibration.

Lots of love and the VERY best of LOA to you!

[djatomicdog]

Hi all,

Sorry it has taken me so long to reply – life is manic! But a good manic!

Thank you all for your kind replies it really does mean a lot.

So to update you guys... I have been really getting in the zone with my happiness, lots of meditation, have been doing the remote seduction meditation daily and also have made a magical creation box.

What has happened since is my ex has really warmed up to me, I have seen my daughter 2 weeks running and my ex has been very smiley and positive, today I gave her a little valentines chocolate for our daughter but then gave her a little packet of love hearts and said it was so she didn't feel left out. It has been so wonderful that we have been talking and smiling, it wasn't so long ago that she wouldn't even look me in the eye and hold a conversation – she has now been replying to my texts and even instigated a chat session on facebook with me!

I know that this is only the beginning and that my desire to reunite will be manifested soon! I really feel it!

She is still moving away to another town but we have been speaking about arrangements to see our daughter. I am happy to release with this and not let it stand in my way, nor have I overdone things – it would be easy to splash out with a huge gift for valentines day but I think a little touch is much sweeter and means more – especially as her love of lovehearts were one of the first things she told me on our first date all those years ago.

I am happy and know that I am attracting her back into my life and we will soon be back together for the greater good of all 3 of us!

You guys on this forum are truly awesome! I will keep you posted!

Tim

[schenderson22]

That is wonderful news Djatomicdog!!

I have also adopted Ho'oponopono It is simple you just say "I love you, please forgive me, I am sorry, Thank you.  You can read more about it here: http://www.idreamcatcher.com/hooponopono/

I have noticed a huge shift and am so grateful so I wanted to share.

Lots of love and the very best of LOA to you!