Attract ex back or am I confusing the Universe?

[boomergirl]

I'm not sure where my last post went or if it got posted so I'm going to say it again.

Is dating or being interested in other men while believing your ex will be back sending mixed messages to the Universe?  I read it raises your vibration and sends a message to him that I'm desired/desirable and feeling good.

When I start to doubt that this will ever work to get him back and it's not 100% guaranteed, I think could be wasting my time and  I'm more hopeful someone else better might come along and I hope to meet someone else.

If I meet a guy and he asks me out, is it best to say "no" I'm not interested.  Of course I'd be interested, "ya never know" what could come out of it, right?
 
I'm just confused.  And I don't want to send any more confusing messages to the universe that got me in this position  in the first place.

Is it enough to just believe it gets better and that's it.  Let it go.  Could be anybody I meet any where?

Any feed back would be greatly appreciated.
boomergirl

[MinDiddy]

The key is to just be happy. If it makes you happy to go out with others than do that. I felt the same as you, I was wondering if dating others was the right thing to do. I think the answer is do what feels right for you.

Unlike you, I just don't feel right dating. I went out on a date, because everyone said it would be good for me, but honestly it just made me miss my ex more. It was obvious to me that I just was not ready. If dating isn't right for you, just go out, have fun, keep busy. Keep yourself happy and your good vibrations will go out into the Universe. That's what I'm trying to do.

Good luck!

Best of LOA to you!

[boomergirl]

Thank you MinDiddy 

That's great advice.  I know I love my ex that's it.