I'm going to be seeing my ex around the 15th, I have been paying him back for some classes I told him I would and the last of it I'm giving to him around the 15th, sooo in a couple days... This is the 3rd time, last time I didn't ask him about "us" or anything just gave him the cash as I began to walk away he said have a good day. I said you too and that was it, before I walked out to give it to him I remember thinking to myself OK, I'm leaving it up to the universe and just be civil. Him wishing me a good day on his own is A BIG DEAL considering how it was the time before that and the time before that. I don't text him anymore, sometimes I want to tell him stuff and I don't care if he responds but I still stop myself, which for me is another reason as to why I have the questions below.
Anyways- With LOA I know we visualize and affirm and script, the end goal. Mine is us having fun eating, laughing, on a date. That's my baby end goal there are others. Like marriage, but OK I visualize my end goal, NO whens or hows, but I know for a fact I'm seeing him around the 15th... Do I set up an end goal for that day as well or just take it as it comes but only focus on the original end goal?
I guess, should I be like oh hey while we stop by the bank I'm pretty hungry want to grab something on the way out? Only keeping that goal in mind or should I just be my normal happy attractive self and NOT initiate, NOT ask, and if it end up that we get back from teh bank and it's goodbye again, so be it because my end goal will happen regardless. HONESTLY I guess I'm at the point where I feel like I can be doing more than just visualizing on some goals in my life, but confused at times if I should do anything about it because doesn't that fall into the category of questioning the whens and hows?