Anymore suggestions?

[bravelioness]

I'm back from the holidays.I missed all of you.Anyway,this is what I've done.Last Friday,I attended my cousin's 18th birthday party.I really had fun.I saw our common friends & I got to bond with our other cousins.The food was good so I ate & drank as if there's no tomorrow.I went to & from the photo booth to have my pictures taken with my sisters & my cousins.

Last Saturday,we went to the cemetery to visit our loved ones' graves.After that,our uncle treated us for lunch & the food was good especially my cousin's 18th birthday cake.At night time,my parents didn't allow me & my sister to go to one of my cousins' house so what me & my sister did was we waited for them to leave then we'll leave the house.On the trip,we saw a beggar by the church.I gave him rice which I brought with me & we got one free jeepney ride all the way to my cousin's house!Then the next day,my aunt gave us extra fare going home.

Ok.I have no problems in manifesting money since I gave my spare change to donation boxes in the fastfood chains where I usually eat.I do admit that I'm kinda worried about my chief desire not manifesting yet.But I see to it that I do things right.I do my gratitude list every day & the ho'oponopono whenever I have negative feelings.I still refrain from contacting Andrew even if I always see him online & walking/jogging to his house even if it's just close to my place.I still have a strong desire to attract him back but I believe that we both have to be in contact & friends first before anything deeper takes place (little steps).As far as the contact,I think it's best for him to initiate the contact since I'm female & it would look that I'm chasing & pursuing him if I initiate the contact.Any more help/suggestion on how I'd manifest what I want especially the thing where he initiates the contact preferably before next month ?I'll be waiting for your responses.Keep being positive

[loveofabundance]

sounds like you've got a good handle on things brave.  Keep up the good work!

[Captain Kirk]

Greetings,
Sounds like you got life by the horns, great
however in response to the guy thing and because im a guy i can lend you some tips;

APPRECIATION is the greatest tool for manifestation, i dont really know you but heres what i would do.

Process:
I would open up a file on my computer (Or paper) call it or write at the top of the page "MY BOOK OF APPRECIATION"
so you can use this template as an example and fill in the gaps:
Ive pasted this example from one of my other previous posts

Get a sheet of paper and write at the top "MY BOOK OF APPRECIATION"

(HERES AN EXAMPLE OF ONE I DID FOR MY FRIEND GINA:)
Use this as a template for your own. Just write whats natural dont rush or put more than you need to..

GINA:
What do i like about you?
     I like that your compassionate, you understand me completly, i like that we are like best friends and that we share all of our secrets together, i like your unique style and grace, i like that you pick me up when im to drunk to drive and buy me kebabs to sobre me up, i also like that your there when i need a shoulder, i like playfighting with you playing on the Xbox together when you should be getting up early for work

WhyWhy do I love you so much?
             I love you so much because you are my soul mate, I love you because if I were stranded on an island I would trade all my goods for you, I love you because BLAH BLAH (Continue)


What are your positive aspects?

(Write about there positive aspects)



Now the more you do this the more you are raising your vibration to getting more of what you have just put, the more you focus on the positive aspects of anything the more you will get those aspects, be honest wrie what you genuinely like but your aim is to appreciate them, eventually you will feel so good and honoured to be there friend (Or in there line of sight) etc, that they will have no choice but to respond to you in that way and your friend will call because you have just shifted your lack of the relationship to the abundance.


What you will do is resonate an energy of attraction within you, and next time he see’s you he will be thrown through your very aura that energy you’ve been accumulating about him,
This is what guys do to attract or seduce woman its all energy and how you can manipulate it, when you find that someone is attracted to you, they instantly become more attractive to you .

Like with guys its not what they do but how they do it that generates success with woman, and if you can cultivate an aura of sexual, emotional and self confidence aura of energy within you the whole world we see you as intensely attractive and that is the law of seduction, if you were to talk to him after raising your vibrations you could look him in the eye and get any response you desire.
And this process is aiming to appreciate this man because then he will have to at least enter your experience because we get more of the qualities in life that we appreciate.

Good luck Keep appreciating.
Luv Kirk xxx

Good luck

[bravelioness]

Thanks Kirk.I've been doing that.My problem right now is how to resume the contact between the two of us where in he'll be the one to initiate the contact as it would look that I'm chasing & pursuing him if I initiate the contact.

[loveofabundance]

@bravelioness, just keep developing yourself.  I think you need more time to focus on yourself.  Like Kirk said, as you build an aura of attraction, he will contact you. 
 
The two of you have know each other since you were 14.  That's a long time.  he is used to having you in his life.  he will reach a point, i'm sure where his missing you will be so great that he has to see you.

[Iron Ur]

1.stay away from any negative music, news, movies and people or places. they will drain you of your personal power
 
2. live in the moment and reach for the feeling of happiness. because there is only the now and your end gola is happyness, when you are truelyhappy and worry free, ALL your desires come to you.
 
3. continue to cultivate your personal magnatism, physical magnatism is the fuel to manifeting your desires.
 
4. when ever you feel dought or worry, or have  negative thought. stop and reach for the positive one and hold them. this will retrain your mind to think positive and kill yoru negative thoughts.
 
5 don't concern yourself with time, -time- -is- a ILLUSION. because in truth you all ready have you beloved, he never left you.
 
Ever notice when you get a cut you feel no pain until you notice it? it is as if that cut is not there.
 
it is the same with your desires, they are not there UNTIL you notice them

[Captain Kirk]

Yet again we are the things we repeatedly tell ourselves we are.

If you approach feeling inadequate, lame or whatever then you that is what you will project, even if he were to approach you,
I suggest that if you really want to see massive improvement you forget about him for now and set yourself a month of "Self confidence-esteem building"
I’m an attractive guy, but i used to be really shy and terrible with talking to woman, and even though sometimes i got approached by the woman I desired, eventually my insecurities and how i really felt about myself shined like a giant warning beacon.

I think if you self appreciate yourself and care about just yourself for once you will set a whole new vibration of respect and love into the world, this is the problem,
nothing worse than a lovely sensitive soul like yourself so self beating either consciously or unconsciously.
Its up to you but i recommend this book, you could by it cheap of Amazon or nip into town but it really boosted my confidence and you get a free mind programming cd to its "Instant Confidence" (by Paul Mckenna) Check it out


LOVE KIRK

 
XXXXXXX

[bravelioness]

Hi Kirk.I'm doing what you're suggesting.Do I have to write it everyday?Or write it then read it until it sinks in then I get to focus on it?I'm not feeling sad anymore.I'm just kinda worried since he doesn't contact me for the past 3 months & I avoid contacting him because that's what I should do for now & I'm kinda scared because I may never hear from him again.Well,gotta trash that thought out.Him contacting me preferably before the Christmas season is the first step into getting my ultimate desire which I really hope happens soon.What I'm doing is doing things that make me happy.And it helps.

[bravelioness]

@Kirk-How do I build an  aura of attraction for him to contact me?

[boomergirl]

Thanks Kirk...I'm gonna look into getting that book too.
 
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