Author Topic: Am I on the right track to getting her back? (Read 13752 times)

vpsean · « **Reply #75 on:** April 19, 2011, 02:06:09 PM »

Quote from: schenderson22 on April 19, 2011, 02:21:39 AM

This is all happening for a reason. While you may not see it right now, you will be able to later. Hence the term "hindsight is 20/20". My advice to you is start doing things that make you happy. Don't let her or her actions determine your happiness. Stop worrying about what she is doing or not doing. Live your life. Don't be the Keeper of your own prison.

xoxox

Quote from: Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck on April 19, 2011, 05:34:00 AM

You know what to do, LC, and just like we talked about, she is playing you, and mine did the same, you need to take her offf the pedestal, and walk, and have fun, she will be back, you are a mel magnet, but self love is what is in order. You see what is happening with me, all good, let go and be happy, the ladies are giving you good advise.

Licks, I'm gonna second both what Sheri, and most of what Magdog are saying (aside from the comment 'she will be back,'). Read over what both of them said a second time and pay attention to these points specifically (I'd go as far to copy what they, print it, and post it on your wall)

* This is all happening for a reason.
* Start doing things that make you happy.
* Live your life.
* Have Fun
* Self love is what is in order
* Let go and be happy

As for the point about 'she will be back,' --> My only point in saying that is because, maybe she will, maybe she won't ... what you have to consider and focus on is yourself. It's from a place of self-love and real inner happiness that, if it were meant to be, this person would come back to you ...

Best of luck Licks :-)

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
www.AlskaPublishing.com

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #76 on:** April 19, 2011, 11:53:37 PM »

Vp,

Part of loa is not having doubt, please do not put doubt in his mind or anyone else's, why is it do important for you to stress maybe she will, maybe she wont, point is many if not all that really believed achieved this goal. SCH do you not agree with me on this? This is where if even you have lost interest in responding to me, I will continue to set you straight.

MD, Mr. Best Luck, Humble and Grateful

licks17 · « **Reply #77 on:** April 20, 2011, 08:09:41 AM »

So I can't manifest her back to me? I feel like I have before, and I am also the reason she left.

Nene · « **Reply #78 on:** April 20, 2011, 08:18:23 AM »

i really need help .. recently ive been reading alot on law of attraction ..The secret and all ..
its been 1 and half year since my breakup ..
the sad part is that my bf wants to enjoy his life .. he thinks its cool to have more than 1 gf .. so currently he's with many ..
he still says he loves me,but he thinks he can never change .. he thinks hes a playboy by nature ... i know he tries to stay sincere with me,i feel his love ..but then he also likes many girls ..
i know its disgusting,obviously who can share someone we love so much .. thats why i broke up with him i never wanted him to take me for granted ..

everyone asks me to move on .. but i love him ..i spent 2 years with him,i planned my who life with him .. how can i let go of him?
and even after the break up i stayed his friend,i was always there for him.. but sometimes i do get angry,coz i love him and he wants to be with many girls,and cant give me time everyday ..
it really hurts when on one side he says he loves me and on the other he's fooling around with others.
we both are young. hes 20 and im 19,people say he is immature ..
can the law of attraction make him sincere and loyal and pious?if i imagine that he's nice,and good .. he cares about me,will it work?
what should i do?

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #79 on:** April 20, 2011, 08:32:44 AM »

Nene, You can attract them back, but not with limiting beliefs and fears which are sometimes found in the subconscious. First, find what you have to be grateful for in your life and then try to discover the hidden blocks and negative belliefs and fears. The fears have to be banished to allow.

licks17 · « **Reply #80 on:** April 20, 2011, 08:44:46 AM »

it is so tough to not think negatively every once in a while. Doubt creeps in so easily for us. Thats why letting go is key, it keeps you positive and upbeat. I am still working on this everyday because it is tough.

I am actually seeing my girl tomorrow night because I have some stuff of hers and she is presistent on meeting at my place and hanging out for a bit when I have offered to just drop it off and let her be. However, I am afraid that she is going to break some bad news to me that she is moving on to either her ex or the guy she just met recently as all the signs point to this and I can't get it out of my head. When I see her she is very nice and eager to talk to me, however she is a text message queen and doesn't text me anymore and takes forever to answer one of mine. She is always talking to one of the other guys and it annoys me and she knows this. This will be our last hang out before we leave for the summer. I have a written a letter about the good times we had and wishing her the best on her journey through life and that I am moving on, just debating whether to give it to her.

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #81 on:** April 20, 2011, 08:47:52 AM »

Find a way to get into your heart! Pray, meditate, affirm, and visualize happy and positive!
Big hug! VC

Believing Love · « **Reply #82 on:** April 20, 2011, 09:01:07 AM »

attract attract attract without doubt
believe when the Universe ready to deliver .. Universe will deliver her to you
if .. IF it's not her,then it's someone else better !!!!
But do believe what ever your heart desire, it will manifest

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #83 on:** April 20, 2011, 11:47:58 PM »

@ Licks ~ "fear" only brings more things to be "fearful" of. "like" attracts "like"... Go through this thread again.. look at all the wonderful advice that has been given to you. It is time to take responsibility and choose whether or not you want to take the advice.

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This is all happening for a reason. While you may not see it right now, you will be able to later. Hence the term "hindsight is 20/20". My advice to you is start doing things that make you happy. Don't let her or her actions determine your happiness. Stop worrying about what she is doing or not doing. Live your life. Don't be the Keeper of your own prison.

Lots of love!!

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #84 on:** April 21, 2011, 12:02:43 AM »

Sch,

You are correct, unfortunately VP did lay, doubt and fear in Licks, we spoke last night via FB, and he is all good, thank you for being supportive of him and many others on her.

MD, Mr. Best Luck, Humble and Grateful

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #85 on:** April 21, 2011, 12:11:17 AM »

No one puts doubt in anyone else. We are 100% responsible for our own thoughts and feelings. No one else is to blame.

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #86 on:** April 21, 2011, 12:16:20 AM »

Quote from: schenderson22 on April 21, 2011, 12:11:17 AM

No one puts doubt in anyone else. We are 100% responsible for our own thoughts and feelings. No one else is to blame.

lol, ok. if you think so, I doubt it.

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #87 on:** April 21, 2011, 12:20:01 AM »

I know so.

Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck · « **Reply #88 on:** April 21, 2011, 12:29:24 AM »

Me too, you can lay doubt in many people, depending on the emotional state of that person, its called manipulation, and I have seen it done to others, and also seen it attempted here, as the fact that you stated that I was angry, laying doubt in others minds that my action were not sincere, as to protect the integrity of what we both believe, you can get a specific person. You are at this point not seeing me clearly for whatever reason. Maybe it is because I have openly disagreed with you on some things, and that your advise was not correct, none LOA advise. I try to stay consistent with LOA, be in a good place, let go, go with your gut, and stay away from dating advise that I have read in books. I am not here to embarrass anyone or run for most popular on this forum, or rack up the most karma points. I am learning and sharing, and when I see something that goes against what I have learned or experienced concerning LOA, then I will voice an opinion out of Love and Gratitude. I have never accused you of anything on this forum, but at this point I think you have a chip on your shoulder toward me, and that I do not doubt. Trying to imply negatives in my behavior or questioning my motives proves that. I know that.

Peace and Love

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #89 on:** April 21, 2011, 01:14:58 AM »

Licks, I am so sorry for all of this. Peter wants to protect you from those who seem not to know what they are doing. I have no doubt it comes from a good place. However, I am tired being attacked by him.

Peter, I don't have a chip. I just see through your words and have tried to help many times. However, you don't like to say, so consider this my last communication with you.