am i in the right "path"??

[sunshinee]

  GREATT NEWSSSSS wow I am so so happy for you (: you did it wow(: Congratsssss

[loveofabundance]

Sapphire, I actually have tears of joy streaming down my cheeks for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I am overjoyed for both you and your boyfriend because he sure is lucky to have someone who loves him as much as you do!  It is so worth it to believe!  Oh happy day!!   Thank you for sharing your journey with us.  i hope you still stay on the forum and keep us posted!!!!!

[sapphire]

of course i will stay on the forum!!now its the beginning of my journey!!@sunshinee,why are you suprissed??i told you he was going to come back..do the same thing for you,now you have an example that it truly works!go ahead and have your own great update sunshinee!!you worth it!!!

[sunshinee]

I am not surprised I am just amused and a little bit jelaous because I am still vulnerable when I see him posting sad things about other woman and it really affects me..I am happy and positive and when i see how he loves another there is one BOOM and I burst into tears,it happend 30 mins ago.. :x SHame on me!

[sapphire]

i will tell you one thing..my guy uploaded some days ago a photo with another girl.at first i was shocked..and felt weird.but then i kept telling my self..don't bother he is playing..he is confused..let the universe arrange the how and the when..so i stopped opening fb and msn,cause i thought,when the time comes,i dont need to be stand by or online for him to contact me.the universe will find the way...so stop checking fb.forget about fb..it only gives you setbacks.please please don't let yourself feel this way.begin again.re-apply your want,write it down and say what exactly you want.for example i want my bf put his name to come back to me and have a loving and caring relationship,in which i will love and be loved.and things you want.keep the piece of paper you wrote this down,in your pursue.close your eyes,smile and dont think about other girls,crying and things like that.wake up and smile,as if he is waiting for you to share your morning coffee.then put on some music and feel wonderful..and when you don't feel that way,open your pursue,read what you have wrote and think "o what to worry about,the universe wont let me down"and feel it strongly..

[loveofabundance]

@sunshinee, keep your spirits up!  Be patient, happy and focused!  And sapphire is right, stay away from FB.

[sunshinee]

The only thing that bothers me is the ''free will thing''.That if he loves another and he is sad,that my vibes won't correspond to his..but,on the other hand,when we met for the 1st time i was suffering for another guy and HE came into my life and made me forget about him so it's possible that he will forget that girl because of me (: that's my wish..we still see each other but rarely and we have a good time,but i want a serious relationship with him not just hanging out.The strangest thing is that i visualize me and him being at his house (he lives with a friend of his) and i keep visualizing the same picture but it turns out he is moving out form that house and he is coming back to his parents who live 10 mins from my house and I should change my visualizations( I hope it's not a sign that my wish is not possible because of him moving out and changing my visions) may be I'm too sceptical.I shouldn't be,everything's possible (: and it's a little bit hard not to look at his FB i am too curious but i will try my best (: thank you again

[sapphire]

ok so what if you lived 10 years ago when there was no fb??think smth like that.i never looked my bfs fb,because i didnt want to feel bad..and he was always checking my profile,which was always empty..because i thought,ok why to make smth i dont want to?this is not the inspired action!secondly ok visualize you and him going for a walk,go swimming,traveling somewhere,have a romantic dinner,him propose to you to be married..you have millions of choices to visualize.and think that universe and u are just one..take the example of the catalogue of the secret.play theater:you go to a bf's shop take the catalogue,see your guy and you order him.then you pay,and wait to bring him to you.and he is standing in front of you,only there is a wall to keep you apart.so you wait for the sales woman to bring him out right?but lets see xm,she is talking on the phone so it takes a while?what do u do?start crying?feeling lost?obsessed?anxious?no...you start looking around other things in the shop,maybe talk on the phone,look outside i dont know whatever,and wait for your order..just think it like that!i did it many times and in fact i was laughing and saying to my self,well i hope there won't be a black out so it won't take longer!and i was making fun of it!!stay strong you are going to make it..

[sunshinee]

In order to calm down and let go completely I just want somebody to tell me''yes..you can win him even though he loves another at that moment'' it's all i want to hear to be motivated,because I've read all this crap about free will and it was scary and uninspiring

[loveofabundance]

just because he is crying over how another girl hurt him doesn't mean that he is in love with her.  i've cried over the pain men whom i wasn't in love with caused me.  Quit telling yourself that he is in love with another.  that should help you!

[CortneyHouser]

ya, stop looking at how things look. when you put out a vibration the universe does things around you that you couldn't image, just to make your wish come true.  Ya so what he crying, I was heart broken over a girl I bearly like myself. I don't care how bad things look, universe can fix up everything the way you want it.

You could say to yourself to stop saying he in love with another person. But it would be a lot better if you tell yourself he's falling in love with you. Better to keep it positive.

If you staying in a good mood when you away from him, everything would be okay. Just make him your Chief Aim. Meaning all you should think about is him and you together. How good that feel? Just visualize for more than a minute and half each time throughout the day. the longer the better.

this way you emotion about him will become more intense everytime you think about him. how cool is that? It's so cool because it gonna feel like you two already together as you doing this. So you wont care when it happens. That feeling you miss from being with him is in you!!!!!

THINK ABOUT THAT

[CortneyHouser]

cool reply 100, I just notice ^^^^^^^^^^

[sunshinee]

Just make him your Chief Aim. Meaning all you should think about is him and you together. How good that feel? Just visualize for more than a minute and half each time throughout the day. the longer the better.
this way you emotion about him will become more intense everytime you think about him. how cool is that? It's so cool because it gonna feel like you two already together as you doing this. So you wont care when it happens. That feeling you miss from being with him is in you!!!!!

THINK ABOUT THAT

if I think about him all the time i won't be able to let go because i will be obsessed with the idea of getting him 

[loveofabundance]

No, sunshinee, you won't.  i tell myself that i am carrying my guy in my heart wherever i go.  That way, when i'm having fun, i feel like he's there with me.  you don't have to visualise him with you 24/7 if it hurts you.  just feel his presence as you go about your daily life.  it really works, at least for me, at keeping the focus off of being apart and puts the focus on being together.