am i in the right "path"??

[sapphire]

hello everybody!i am new in the forum and my english is not so good,but im gonna try tell you my own story...one month ago a friend of mine introduced me to the secret..at that time i was really down,and posessed by tottaly negative thoughts about me and my whole being...at that time i met a guy that i liked pretty much!we started dating and i can say that our first date was the best date i ever had!!but i was really unconfident so i started thinking that i he didnt like me so much,that this cant be true for me and things like that..so one day he told me that he wasnt ready to have a relationship and dissapeared.i was very devastated..i started applying the LOA first of all because i wanted to feel good with my self.then i started applying the LOA to get him back.we dont communicate for a month now,but i feel so much strong confident and happy!i have made a vision board,i visualize a lot,and one day he made a comment about a foto of mine in facebook..so i said this must be the LOA and i replied to his comment.we had a little chat and then nothing more..i feel that this person is my dream man..i just want to ask you,if i am in the right path or i am making something wrong?i just love him,and i somehow feel that he knows i am his dream girl..everytime i think about him i smile,i cannot feel negative emotions about him.i feel like a child so free and so happy!!i am not in a hurry,i know that things are going to happen when they are supposed to,but maybe i am blocking something or not?what do you think??thank you for reading this..and hope the best for us all

[sunshinee]

Hello sapphire,
there's nothing to apologize for,I understood every single word you wrote even though I am not english too ( I'm bulgarian) so my english is not excellent too,well that's not the point.My situation is similar,we were going out for about 3 months,the difference is that HE didn't tell me he wasn't ready,he just disappeared out of nowhere.I understand you,believe me:) and I admire that you manage to stay positive and happy.And YES,I think you attracted that comment..keep going,you're not doing anything wrong,just don't get obsessed over his FB profile

[sapphire]

hello sunshinee!thank you so much for your reply!i believe too that i attracted this comment..i am not obsessed by his fb profile..not as much as i thought i would..i do all the things that i want and i feel really great.its the first time for me that i feel so good about everything,and so grateful for all i have!i have attracted a lot of people in my life mostly friends,and now i feel confident and sure that i will attract my specific dream man too..i just see some winks everyday that tell me not to discourage and just believe more and more!!i just set this topic beacuse maybe i dont do every single thing right..besides we are human beings right??

[sunshinee]

I am happy about you that you are surrounded by positive signs,I wish i would be too because for now the reality around me and him...well, it's not very good but I know that it shouldn't discourage me I try my best not to focus on the negative reality..

[sapphire]

well sunshinee here is what i think about..everything in our lives happen for a reason.so don;t rush anything or anyone and mostly dont rush your self and your own feelings!i just believe that if one person came to your life then if you really really want it it will be there for you!just stay positive no matter what and believe that you deserve what you want..this is what i am doing..and if sometimes i start doubting i do things that make me feel better and let go all the bad thoughts!i just know that i deserve to be happy and have all the things i ve wished for so i stay calm positive and smile a lot!!

[sunshinee]

thank you:) I know that I deserve to be happy,I am aware of that but I have doubts does that very person deserve me :D wellm I want him very bad but he did many stupid things,I am willing to forgive because I love him,I really do but he hurt me and gave me empty promises and I am now in a process where I am deciding what's best for me and what I really want

[sapphire]

i think that you just have to be proud of yourself and think that you are a wonderful person that deserves all good things.i really believe that if you truly love this guy then its really easy to forgive all the bad things because YOU decide your future.so if you forgive him and think positive,then everything will be done as you have dreamed..just realize that YOU attract everything that happens.think about it!

[sunshinee]

Yes,you are right:) but wishes do change though.. Yes,I want the guy but I am still filled up with anger and disappintment towards him and it's not good,I am waiting for the time to pass to get rid of those negative emotions and to realize what I truly want in my love life in the mean time I try not to focus on him because I want to kill him right now haha but I do believe in the power of LOA and I will get what I want when I find out what it is:)

[sapphire]

wishes do change i know that!so why dont you do that.wish for the perfect relationship but not with someone specific..just give your self what you deserve!i am trying the LOA with the guy i told you just because i feel it inside me that we are ment to be together,and that nothing can change that!!if you feel bad for your previous relationship,try to find something to make you feel great and let it go!!

[sapphire]

hello again..i would really like to ask something and someone plz plz plz answer me..i havent still spoke to this guy itold you earlier,but everysingle day i see signs such as wherever i go i see things that have to do with his job which is not a used job for a man..everyone starts telling me things about these stuff without me asking,i see friends of him..is it too much to think that these are winks?

[sunshinee]

Don't get obsessed with those signs,you'll go insane..just relax:) He will come along

[sapphire]

hey sunshinee i just wanted to tell you that i had another like in fb from him..i can see it coming..and i am sooooooooooo happy!!!!!!best wishes!!

[sunshinee]

I am happy about you congrats ! keep it that way

[sapphire]

well sunshinee i told you once and i now i can guarantee it..it works!!he talked to me today,and asked me to meet me...so my friend just believe it everything can happen!!!!!!!

[sunshinee]

wowwwwwwwwww taht's great news I'm waiting for details later