Author Topic: A new feeling, for the old person.. could this be love?..help!!! (Read 1363 times)

Thumbelina :) · « **on:** November 12, 2010, 07:07:20 PM »

I had almost given up my ex relationship.. though, i was quite successful in attracting him back, but it was never 'my way' .. he always had his own terms and same old attitude and ego clashes,and off late things between us had become so messed up that i almost gave up all communications, plus he started seeing someone else too...
I was quite fine in my own course, until a few days back i had a weird dream regarding him... that we're fighting in the car, and then he's pulling my hand to take me somewhere, i told my friend about this.. this was on my mind.. somewhere, it was bothering me .. until two days back, i gave myself a blind try.. i closed my eye... and relaxed and put my ipod on shuffle.. and the pictures started getting together, and suddenly i saw both of us in some wine party.. talking very sweetly, and walking...holding hands, and then eventually dancing looking into each other's eyes, i kept going deeper into the thought, and out of no where, my romantic song stopped, and his favorite song started playing,, i visualized some more.. and honestly felt great!!
MAGIC..he calls me last night, after 3 weeks.. we start talking and suddenly start arguing about our old relationship and break up and all... i was quite surprised to see that our break up still bothers him somewhere.. we talked like friends for half an hour!!
I am a little confused now, i don't know how his thought came back into my mind, and how did he pop up all over again.. and now whenever i am trying to visualize anything.. it's only him am getting,, something happy.. is there a next to it? or just a time being? ... need some advices!!!

loveofabundance · « **Reply #1 on:** November 12, 2010, 07:40:51 PM »

well, it's natural for you both to still have feelings for each other. since you're happy and positive just take it in stride and have some fun!

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #2 on:** November 12, 2010, 07:56:40 PM »

sounds good.. so i'll keep visualizing good thing happening with us!!.. and be really happy, because presently its keeping me quite pleased, and you never know.. maybe he's the one ... though, that's what my horoscope said.. but i never really paid a lot of attention to it, but i guess its time, i give that a chance too.. hehe :p
thank you so much

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #3 on:** November 17, 2010, 11:47:06 AM »

One big achievement.. super thrilled!! I asked imagined me and my ex getting back together in an amazing trip where we both would go, and the place.. the company and us together would make the magic happen again!!
Miracle.. yesterday he called me up.. we spoke for over 45minutes and he asked me to join him in February.. to Singapore.. so i asked him, how many people will be going? He was like.. No one, i was alone.. and if you come along, then you and me
It sounded so cute, that i'm still getting a blush!!! He asked me to accompany him.. Yay!!!
There's another thing he said, the other night when he called... I asked him to say at least three things he remember's about me...He was quite accurate, to my surprise he remember's my sister's place too... Very impressing i must say!! He keeps forgetting everything all the time, but these gestures almost made me cry...and when i said... "soon, you'll forget my existence too.."
Very seriously he said.." I'll never forget you, for the rest of my life.."
Maybe he told me all this as a friend, maybe even the way he asked me for the trip was like a friend.. but the way i'm looking at it... Its getting better day by day!!
Don't have words to thank the universe!!!
each day, i simply fall in love with him even more..
Last night, i visualized myself getting a tattoo with his name on my back ... and that'll be his b'day gift.. and i know it'll come true soon!!
yes!! thank you thank you....

57angel · « **Reply #4 on:** November 17, 2010, 12:34:19 PM »

Congratulations Thumb, you deserve to love and to be loved. Always have the best of LOA, look forward to your post before you will say "I Do"

Your posts inspires me to keep on doing my little steps of positivity, for it will surely get me to a smile filled relationship

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #5 on:** November 17, 2010, 05:15:15 PM »

Awww.. that was so cute, loved it.. thank you so much... wish you all the happiness in the world too, hope you get whatever you want... amen

UpLOAding · « **Reply #6 on:** November 17, 2010, 07:16:07 PM »

This reminds me a lot of the success period in my "Success Story". I think the most important thing everyone here, and I mean everyone!, should learn, is that people are never static. They stay the same only if you visualize them that way, maybe because of bad memories or just because of pure habit.

The truth is... people change

I'm happy for you!

Thumbs up... oh, I mean, Thumbelina up!

bravelioness · « **Reply #7 on:** November 17, 2010, 07:46:27 PM »

Congrats!How did you manage to have it so fast?How long were you apart if I may ask?

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #8 on:** November 18, 2010, 10:22:10 AM »

@uploading... that is the most sweetest thing, i've heard in ages!! Thank you so much..
@ bravelioness.. We were together for almost 2 yrs.. but throughout the entire period.,. they wouldn't completely commit to me at all... we broke up completely about 6months back, within 3 days he started seeing some1 else.. i moved out of his life completely, and didn't keep any contact with him at all.. i even went to the extent of switching cities, changed my number... but soon.. he did dig me out, and he was like... " i'm not fine without you, i'm struggling without you.. i'm missing you being there..."... since then we've been friends, just about ok ok types friends.. though he tried to bring up the topic of being 'friends with benefit' innumerable number of times.. but i wouldn't do anything, that my self esteem wouldn't allow.. so, now he's seeing different women here and there... he can keep doing that, after all at the end... he'll be mine.. so let him see the world.. Coz once he enters my world with me, he'd never wanna come out of so much of love, hope and trust.. someone he'll be blessed with.. So little pain, for so much gain.. fair enough? ain't it?!! Lol :p

bravelioness · « **Reply #9 on:** November 18, 2010, 08:02:53 PM »

Thumbelina,I admire you for having a faith like that of a child.Remember when we believed that we are princesses,in tooth fairy & Santa Claus?I would want to do that but the situation now that he said that he doesnt want me in his life & that he keeps on rocking his ass with that Carla girl or the other way around makes me feel otherwise.

Skye Frank · « **Reply #10 on:** November 19, 2010, 06:12:02 AM »

I just posted about attracting a specific person with LOA in my blog and included a great video by Bob Doyle, http://skyefrank.wordpress.com/2010/11/18/can-i-attract-a-specific-person-with-the-law-of-attraction/

tereza · « **Reply #11 on:** November 19, 2010, 07:35:47 AM »

Skye, I visited your blog and the post was only a link to Bob Doyle.
Perhaps you could improve your blog by actually writing down some of your thoughts on what Bob says. Also, it might be nice if you actually read the threads your posting on, instead of just spamming the thread with your link. I believe it's fine to promote your blog on here, but usually most members leave a link in their signatures in addition to providing their own views to the thread.

Skye Frank · « **Reply #12 on:** November 19, 2010, 09:14:18 AM »

Tereza, the content you have in your blog is how you wish to have it, the content I have in mine is how I wish to have it. I have had several positive interactions with members on here who have found value in my short but sweet postings. If you do not find value then thats fine, its not meant for you.

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #13 on:** November 19, 2010, 09:34:09 AM »

@bravelioness.. i have heard a lot of shit from my ex too... why would you stick to it? He had told him that, snap out of me.. we're over!! I DON'T LOOK INTO MY PAST.. I NEVER LOOK BACK.. I never ever go back to my ex.. i have too many options.. blah blah ..!! but, honestly look here... in all these above statements he's just been telling me things he doesn't want to do.. and guess what, he'll attract them all... hahaha.. so even better for me!! hahahaha!! Lol!! Be selfish!! your LOA works just for you, so make it work for u.. who cares what the other's have to think anyway.. we're not born to please any1 .. are we??..
and thanks skye.tereza.. i'll just check it...