30 days Facebook challenge

[irishgirl69]

Lucky Starrrr, this person is a troll that periodically does this - they keep getting banned and creating new user names just to post hateful things on the forum and in PM's.  The best thing to do is to ignore them completely and simply report them.

[Miracles Magnet]

Day 5

Weekend is harder! Without work to occupy me, I find myself missing him more, think about our good times more, wondering what he is doing more.  but no, I do not have any urge to reactivate my fb still.

I have no doubt that the universe is watching my back and what I truly desire will eventually be delivered to me.  I do have faith, but I do still feel lonely at times still.

I wish to  be more in touch with my inner self, be more intuitive, receive guidance from the universe and higher self, any suggestions how I can achieve that?

[star24]

Miracles Magnet! I love that you have made this post! I am currently in the same situation, wanting to distance myself from facebook. During the day when I'm occupied and busy with work or uni i find myself being very positive, in the moment and focused on myself ....well most of the time, it gets easier every day
but any spare moment I had I was checking facebook because it was the only access I had to my guy since we are in NC... I read one of your previous posts where you mentioned doing 30days and loved the idea and have been trying to limit my access too
I also grew tired of checking my mobile excitedly so often hoping that he had texted me....so I got a new phone and only sent my new number to my closest friends It's the best feeling ins't it, reclaiming your power, even if they don't know what lengths you've taken, we're now giving out a more positive vibration so on some subconscious level I'm sure they'll feel it and everyone else we're in contact with
your post is such an inspiration. thank you xx

[Miracles Magnet]

Thanks Gab! Your post has put a smile on my face.  It's nice to know I have inspired someone.

you are welcome to join me on this journey too! It's great you have changed your number.. But it's not really nc if both of you still get updates on what's happening to each other.

All the best to both of us and may our desire comes true! 

[JustForToday]

i am proud of you that youre so strong miracles.

of course weekends are harder, harder to distract yourself and on top ( that is the case with me sometimes) all are busy with their partner, husbands and family, which i dont even have.
so i am alone too and notice a blues is coming up.

you will make it, i am sure.... just dont expect something after these 30 days.
but you know already that the universe is supporting you and it was the best thing you can do.
embrace such days, cry if you need to, it belongs to that process.

i am with you and i like coming here to read how you feel each day, thank you 

[Miracles Magnet]

Day 6

It is apparent that if he even noticed I have deactivated my Acc, he is not going to ask me about it.  But that's ok, I kind of expect that and I didn't do it just to get a reaction from him anyway.

Recently a guy I have known for 2 years starting texting me again. We knew each other from online dating website.  But I was going through another heart break at that time, and frankly speaking, I couldn't feel any connection with him at that time.  He was attached to another girl after that, and about one month ago, they broke up, and he started texting me again.  He is a nice guy, though I still couldn't feel any connection at this point, I don't mind getting to know him better.  But I am also aware that he just came out from a relationship, so I got to be careful to draw a distance and not be his rebound until he is ready for another relationship.

Read two articles today, it made me realised that I want my guy to be courageous enough of face the break up of a relationship, how a guy handled an end of a rs says a lot about a guy too.  I also want a guy who is positive about life and is able to handle life stresses with wisdom and humours. My guy currently has none of this, even though he accused me of being negative and losing my cool too easily, it was a laugh for him to say that, he loses his cool all the time and his fb was always filled with emotional and angry statement.. Guess his self awareness need some work too.  57angel was right, we both have lessons we need to learn.

Today is mother's day! A great reminder how much I love my family.  Being the middle child, I had always felt not being loved by my parents and this thinking has created a lot of problems for me after I entered adulthood.  I cried buckets of tears and went to counsellor, hypnotherapist, tarot card readers etc, just to seek answers.  I met an awesome hypnotherapist and a very wide tarot card reader last year, who finally convinced me that there is nothing wrong with me.  I also finally realised that I have a choice not to let my past affect my future.

by the way, crazysoul, you are right, I cannot hold my breath and expect things to happen after 30 days.

[Miracles Magnet]

Day 7

Wow! It's been a week! Woohoo!

I'm almost 1/4 past my journey.  It is not as hard as I thought and I'm beginning to enjoy not knowing what's happening to him.  Ignorance is bliss, it is nice not having to worry about my mood being affected by his updates. 

I think I have made the right decision.  It has really made my life, and made moving on much easier.  If he is still trying to get over me, I'm sure he feels relieved now too.  It is really for the best for both of us.

[arminhul]

Bravo Bravo girl, you rock, good going

Just one thing, try not to think about him at all. Don't even think what he could be thinking, whether he notices your disappearance or not. Try diverting your mind whenever his thoughts pop up. Ho'oponopono works brilliantly for diverting (at least for me). Give it a try

I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you, Thank you. (keep repeating this in your head)

[JustForToday]

Day 7

Ignorance is bliss, it is nice not having to worry about my mood being affected by his updates. 

I think I have made the right decision.  It has really made my life, and made moving on much easier.  If he is still trying to get over me, I'm sure he feels relieved now too.  It is really for the best for both of us.

that IS the point, pretending yourself from getting unhappy or upset by reasing this updates. we should all stop letting others hurt us so we have no chance to be happy. even though his intent is not to hurt you by his updates, you are upset, confused and distracted from you way to your own happiness. you will go there.
be prepared, that it might also be that there is something much more better waiting for you though 

you go girl, getting better each day!!!

[Miracles Magnet]

Day 8

Had such a busy day at work, so tired that I can't really think of what to say.

But I realised I will be happy with or without him in my life.  I WILL find someone else.

[JustForToday]

yeah, being very busy distract sometimes.... i know that.

just stay on track and i am happy about your thoughts that you dont need him!!!
THE UNIVERSE WILL ALWAYS PROVIDES THE BEST FOR YOU 

[Miracles Magnet]

Day 9

Actually I have nothing much to say anymore.  He still cross my mind a couple of times a day.  But really, much as I missed the times we share, all these are in the past.  I am grateful for the memories, but I am ok for them and for him to stay in the past.  I will always be fond of him, but it's ok for us not to cross path again, I won't force things.

I don't think I will come here and update everyday anymore.  I don't really want to talk about him everyday anymore.  But I have any happy thoughts to share, I will update you guys again.

[JustForToday]

it seems that this 30 day challenge really helped you to move on and let go of him 
and thats whats all about......


you have a very good mindstate now

[Miracles Magnet]

Day 10

every break up is an opportunity for me to become a better person.

I have had so many failed relationships, every time I thought there is no way I can be any better than the me 'pre-break up', I always surprised myself and outdo myself, every single time.  I realised I am quite undefeatable!  Haha!

Today, I am totally motivated to change and better myself again.  I have a vision, a plan, an image of the new me, and I am going to make sure I become that person.

And this person, will be someone who is too good for any of my exes.

[Dr Scully]

Miracles Magnet,
Just wanted to say hi and that I'm enjoying reading your progress.  I recently decided to stop contacting my ex at the same time you de-activated your FB (he's ignoring me now anyways).  It's nice to see your progress since I feel like I'm at the same spot now too

Also wanted to ask you (and everyone else here) a question, did anyone find that after a while you sort of feel like "well I'm not even sure if I would take back my ex anyways"?  I'm feeling this now and not sure if that's normal or not. 

I was very sure that this person is/was my soulmate, and the "one" for me, that I was meant to be with.  But if he was to want me back right now, it would have to be a different relationship, with more communication/visiting each more over the distance, and without any of this immature crap like him ignoring me now.  I feel confused since if this person really is my soulmate why am I not sure if I would take him back right now?  I also went on a dating site today and messaged a few men I had my eye on, since I feel like maybe I was wrong and there's someone else I'm meant to be with?

I trust the universe will bring me the man that will make me truly happy... so why am I unsure now if my ex is the one that will make me really happy?  We had such an amazing, loving connection that I know I won't find with someone else so why these thoughts?