Author Topic: "Blue Valentine" (Read 2086 times)

DanF007 · « **on:** September 05, 2011, 04:17:35 AM »

Hi everyone,

I am really into movies and today I just saw a very interesting movie called "Blue Valentine". As some of you may already know. I am in the process of attracting my ex fiancee back into my life and I can say with a big smile on my face that I believe to be halfway their. My eyes have been open to my mistakes when she left me and after watching this movie, they just opened a little more. This movie is very interesting and it might be a little too real of a love story for some. So please be warned don't watch around children. Also it just better to watch the movie on your own that way you can make your own thought about the movie and share them here. This movie is like a test and I will explain once we get a few answers back on how this relates to the LOA, Enjoy.

Also if you have seen it, don't spoil it for those that haven't, thank you.

lashark · « **Reply #1 on:** September 05, 2011, 06:27:08 AM »

Thanks for this Dan, I am a total movie buff too! I will definately be checking it out.

DanF007 · « **Reply #2 on:** September 05, 2011, 06:34:59 AM »

Your welcome.

lashark · « **Reply #3 on:** September 05, 2011, 08:31:40 AM »

This movie is very raw and very real, seems to hit home because alot of people could relate. Abraham Hicks said something interesting, I cant remember the name of the vid or how I found it, thats why I only remember this bit, I was barely paying attention but I remember it catching my attention.

She said that our soulmates are those we feel at home with. However soulmates could just as easily stir within us anger and frustration and drive us crazy. They are refelcting back to you the relationshiip you have with yourself, I remember thinking, man so many people want and their exes back and its probably because they really are soulmates. Even though they broke up that would make sense. It made sense as to why we could be SO attarcted to someone specifically yet be in the midst of a painful "break up".

My thoughts on "love" and "relationships" LOA wise run much deeper. But what she said, I found pretty interesting,

DanF007 · « **Reply #4 on:** September 05, 2011, 09:01:08 AM »

Did you see the movie already?

It's funny that you talk about soul mates i just now like 10 minute ago finished reading my book "only love is real" by Brain Weiss.. It is a must read. Also his other book "many lives, many masters".

He explains that the reason why soul mates have conflict in a relationship is because one soul is more awaken than the other. When both soul are awake they the relationship can go on.

The test for "Blue Valentine" is easy, since it is an open ending, the question you have ask yourself is"Do they get back together?"

lashark · « **Reply #5 on:** September 05, 2011, 09:44:08 AM »

I was hesitant because its a romance and since my ex left Ive strayed away from romance films. I have a bunch waiting for me on netflix that I want to watch but I havent yet. I looked up reviews though and they talked about alot of scenes and they just hit home....

Yes love is the only thing that is real, love is what rhonda byrnes talks about in the book "the power", love is what it feels like to be in the vortex from the abraham hicks teachings.

Ive never really thought about that before, not the love part but the part about a soul mate not being awakened yet even though the otehr is. My eyes are like watery right now, you know the way my ex and I met and everything we experienced was like a movie, and I knew it, I knew that when I met him it was like "oh hey there you are, Ive been waiting for you" It felt like I had spent a thousand years with him before even knowing who he was. I guess thats why I took the break up as hard as I did, because I knew it wasnt right because we were supposed to be together for life, because of how beautiful we fit together and because it was a joy to be in eachotehrs presence. A kind of joy that neither of us had ever felt.

I had a feeling that we would end up together, I had it when we broke up, I had it while with him, I had it while dating other guys. I sometimes still get it. and I never understood where that feeling came from, I thought it was just me wanting it, who knows those gut feelings and desires could be the same thing.

After the break up, I could write books on the changes Ive made. The way I used to think just seems insane compared to how I view life now. I soley created my experience of our relationship however we co created the relationship itself.

Who knows what will happen, my only focus now is feeling good, right now. I love him unconditionally which means he can come back or he can stay away and my love is still there and it is my sole responsibilty to be happy. Not his. or anyone else. His actions and thoughts are irrelevant to my happiness.

I know him and I were very similar to how we thought, so if I had some downers Im sure he at the time did as well, when I think of him now, I imagine him complete and with inner happiness, I imagine him smiling wherever he is, loving his life.

I had a gut feeling man, I really did that we would end up together, even when I made myself comfortable with the thought of falling in love with someone else. It would make sense as to why even though we are soul mates and I can promise you we have spent lifetimes togther that he is still not here even though my soul is practically sparkling. He might still be in the process and he might not ever get to that point and even if he does love me unconditionally which I know he does, because it is unconditional, that doesnt mean we have to be together. All I know is I have inner happiness and what more is there? I am set for life.

I know kind of a long post but this really gave me an aha moment, Im curious to what else could be said about this, regarding the soulmates and one not being :fully awakened". As for the film, as all films that end that way,
THEY ALWAYS END UP TOGETHER! hahah I am a romantic at heart and every single film Ive watched like that, I always know they end up togther. : ) You should check out "Happy Accidents" Talk about ending up togther.....

DanF007 · « **Reply #6 on:** September 05, 2011, 10:02:00 AM »

I loved your story. And my answer after watching the movie was that they end up together, i'm also a romantic. It inside us all. Ready to be awaken.

From the book:

"Unwakened means that he or she does not see life clearly, is not aware of the many levels of existence."

"Never worry about meeting soulmates. Such meetings are a matter of destiny, They will occur. After the meeting, the free will of both partners resigns. What decisions are made or not made are a matter of free will, of choice. The less awakened will make decisions based on the mind and all of its fears and prejudices. Unfortunately, this often leads to heartache. The more awakened the couple is, the more the likelihood of a decision based on love. When both partners are awakened, ecstasy is with their grasp."

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #7 on:** September 05, 2011, 11:46:50 AM »

Ok, so here's my view and I posted it once before in another post.

Soul mates end up together because once they find each other they recognize each other, they FEEL the deep down pull and love for one another; then the ultimate pull begins.....once they meet, regardless of circumstances.......they MUST be together!

Now, yes, they may be apart for a time for whatever reason, in my case it's to resolve a situation that prevented us being fully, completely together. This situation needed to be rectified in order for us to resume our relationship.

Yes, sometimes the mind and ego interfere somewhat for a period of time but ultimately.......two souls that are truly MEANT to be together are unable to be apart. No matter what, they will be drawn together again and again, like magnets.

Can you have more than one soul mate, well, I believe you can....not many, but it is possible.

My honey has this look in his eyes each and every time he sees me......it's like a Christmas tree that just lights up the moment he lays eyes on me. He lights up with this look of complete adoration, love and unconditional acceptance, this is how I recognized him. That look is what made me fall for him.

I have only seen a few men in my life look at me that way, my father, my grandfather, my uncle and my very 1st love and my honey.

I hadn't seen my honey from the day he broke up with me in October until February when I showed up at his work and dropped off his stuff, but then he was told someone was waiting for him and he had no idea it was me, I caught him off guard. He came to the door, opened it, looked at me, got this surprised look on his face and then it was like he just lit up and I could actually hear his soul say to me "OH THERE YOU ARE", and he smiled, his eyes smiled at me and his entire face smiled at me, almost in relief! And I thought, "You are completely in love with me, your soul is completely in love with mine."

This only lasted for a few seconds, once he realized why I was there but I have held onto that look in his eyes, the windows to his soul, ever since.

Soul mates do exist and mine never leaves me, he is always with me. That is the other thing, no matter where I am or what I am doing I always feel his love for me, it never leaves. That isn't to say this has been easy, my ego gets in the way every so often but the truth is he does love me and I know that and always have.

I just love LOVE!!!

DanF007 · « **Reply #8 on:** September 05, 2011, 09:01:39 PM »

la shark! I saw the movie last night. it was really cool i liked it, thanks.

I was also expecting a happy ending

2thetop · « **Reply #9 on:** September 06, 2011, 01:54:49 AM »

i just ordered this from netflix. soon as i get it and watch it ill be back here! thanks for the recommendation. my mom keeps recommending eat pray love......anyone see that?

DanF007 · « **Reply #10 on:** September 06, 2011, 02:29:08 AM »

2thetop did you post a success story?

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #11 on:** September 06, 2011, 02:36:52 AM »

For a good soul mate movie......has anyone seen "The Adjustment Bureau?"

It is an ultimate soul mate movie!!

2thetop · « **Reply #12 on:** September 06, 2011, 02:59:19 AM »

no dan, not yet. just changed the picture to reinforce in my mind the things that are here and things to come.

loveofabundance · « **Reply #13 on:** September 06, 2011, 05:17:33 AM »

Hi Guys! I believe that soul mates and twin flames are two different things and that what this post is referring to is what I call twin flame love, so that's the term I will use. We're still all talking about the same thing though. BTW, I've heard of this movie and would like to see it.
I, 100% believe in the whole "sometimes one is asleep" theory because of how I learned of it - through talking to Chris in meditation!

Anyway, he told me that it was my "job" as his twin to help him awaken by continuing my own spritual growth and that in doing this he would awaken naturally. I thought that was pretty cool, but, being a skeptic at heart, I take each meditational experience with a grain of salt. Anyway, I then read something on the theory and was blow away because what I learned in meditation must be true. I'm pretty excited because I actually feel Chris and I growing closer Within. Life is very interesting. Isn't it?

Mr positive · « **Reply #14 on:** September 06, 2011, 06:15:15 AM »

Interesting i cant meditate i dont have the patience to sit still but would love to experience it one day..! As for soul mates i believe i allready met mine but im not awakened completely

i feel so close idk i am still dating other women because it seems so out of reach right now she says every other guy has dissapointed her and that im the only one she actually loves idk how its possible but im going to keep having faith

good luck all

and never saw this movie herd it was ok