Author Topic: If you're TOTALLY in alignment...but 'it' has not showed up in physical reality? (Read 36999 times)

I Love Rainbows · « **on:** August 18, 2012, 01:35:30 PM »

When you get into alignment, into the vortex...and you hang out mainly there for a little while...sometimes there is the temptation to say 'but what I want has not shown itself yet!'. But understand what physical reality is, and then you will not be troubled and you will enjoy the unfolding. The trust is, physical reality is always a step BEHIND vibrational reality.

In the vortex: First comes the signs and synchronicities...increasing into greater and greater number...and then what you want is YOURS through the path of least resistance. Stay happy, enjoy the evidence that you're in the vortex and in the vibrational vicinity of what you are now in the feeling place of.

REMEMBER that PHYSICAL REALITY is always BEHIND. That means, vibrational reality - YOUR vibrational reality - ALWAYS preceeds your physical reality. So there may be some catch-up time where physical reality 'ECHOES' your past beliefs. Realise that that's ALL that it is - an ECHO.

Watch this video by Bashar for a fuller picture:


Bashar - Circumstances Don't Matter Only State of Being Matters

PS haha I realised I'm echoing Bashar and putting some of my words in CAPS, the same way that he speaks

lucymable · « **Reply #1 on:** August 18, 2012, 03:41:50 PM »

this post is EXACTLY what I needed. thank you rainbows!!!

Free bird · « **Reply #2 on:** August 18, 2012, 03:59:30 PM »

One question..........watching those signs more frequently can make u anxious and push it away.........how can one overcome that?

I Love Rainbows · « **Reply #3 on:** August 18, 2012, 04:20:04 PM »

Quote from: Free bird on August 18, 2012, 03:59:30 PM

One question..........watching those signs more frequently can make u anxious and push it away.........how can one overcome that?

Where does your anxiety come from?

nelson000 · « **Reply #4 on:** August 18, 2012, 05:35:27 PM »

tHANK YOU

Mr Brightside · « **Reply #5 on:** August 18, 2012, 07:47:17 PM »

I think this brings up a very good point on many levels. I know for myself, and many others on this forum, once i set my intention for a specific relationship older ones would appear in my reality. I cant even stress the number of times old ex's i have no interest in have shown up.. actually all of them in the same week have... which was puzzling at the time.

I think once you step back and realize that these are happening for a reason, to show you that you have actually changed.. otherwise you would want to be with them again. In the same sense you have changed in the current situation, and by learning that you are no longer the person that has the same wants and needs as the one in the past you can relax and set you intentions for something even greater that more closely resembles you now.

That is something i have been aligning myself to for some time, stepping away from the specifics in order to let something better come into my life on a relationship level. I know from my past experience whenever i "gave up" or "detached" , which only means you have stopped resisting to the bigger possibilities out there, that manifestations actually occur. This has worked in every other area of my life so it would only be logical that the same principal would work here.

Here is also another Bashar video.. this is something i have learned myself and completely agree with


Bashar \| Drop Expectations

FindDivineTogether · « **Reply #6 on:** August 18, 2012, 09:22:00 PM »

Ohhh thank you so much...can't even tell you how much i needed this today!!!!

This is my new mantra!!!!!

CIRCUMSTANCES DON'T MATTER...

ONLY STATE OF BEING MATTERS

Both videos were amazing. I am going to google Bashar and read more about him. Thanks again!

God Bless

Free bird · « **Reply #7 on:** August 18, 2012, 10:45:53 PM »

Anxiety comes frlm the thought, when will it happen

Awesomeness · « **Reply #8 on:** September 23, 2012, 06:38:34 PM »

I see that often, where the ex's show back up, and i've seen explanations for it. What if they don't? Does it mean anything?

FindDivineTogether · « **Reply #9 on:** September 23, 2012, 08:04:38 PM »

Hey Awesomeness,

I have had ex's return but its only after i moved on or didn't care. Its happened mostly when they made a choice to move on (girlfriend, engagement) and i didn't fight them..i don't like sharing..but then changed their minds

or when for whatever reason our paths just crossed again years later, but i just didn't feel the same, i had changed, my Life had changed..life rolls on, things change even if you don't notice it!

Its amazing sometimes how much time has gone by or how much of our ''best years'' are wasted, given to those who don't seem to appreciate it or us. I feel everyone has a point where change and growth are inevitable, sometime you have no choice!!!!

Whats that 80's song ''Seasons Change, People Change....''

If they don't come back now it doesn't mean they won't later..you just may not care or have found another

if they are on their own or involved it could be that they are just stuck..by choice, even..marriage is much more involved then dating (family obligations, commitment issues, financial ties, etc.) or they are just living Life...and sometimes God intervenes when things are going wrong AND HE MAKES THEM RIGHT!!!!

You just never know in Life~

Hang in There!!!!!!

Awesomeness · « **Reply #10 on:** September 23, 2012, 09:25:26 PM »

I have zero interest in my ex's and very rarely think of them, except my xH, only because we run in the same circles and still have some financial stuff to work out. We never speak directly though, and I have zero feelings for him. I was able to grieve the loss of our marriage for a couple years before we actually split, so it's as if I've been divorced for a few years.

And my heart completely belongs to someone else. But I've heard the same basic thing a couple times here, zero interest in exes, moved on, in love with someone else, and while trying to attract that person, their exes all suddenly show up like a plague.

Just making sure I'm not defective. LOL Or maybe I just give much clearer signals to the universe? So no confusion?

FindDivineTogether · « **Reply #11 on:** September 23, 2012, 09:55:40 PM »

LOA is about Letting Go!

If you are not seeing Ex's show up it could mean either the path they chose..is THE RIGHT PATH for them (they do get a say as well LOA is in all lives) and they are content YOUR STORY WITH THEM IS OVER or it could mean that it just hasn't happened yet....it ain't over til its over....

Any Ex that tried to come back to me..only did after whatever they were doing or who they were doing..LOL..wasn't in the picture anymore and they wanted to ''reconnect'' with me, i did not..when i move on..i move on! If you're with another woman..whether it be temporary or as life decision i don't want you anymore.

Oprah said once ''If you don't want me NOW then i don't want you again, wish you well...God Bless you and Move On....!!!!'' It all happens for a reason.

Once called me 2 days after his wedding was called off..he was relieved seemingly that it happened..he asked me for a date

There is an Article about Detachment that says you will never Manifest if you DO NOT DETACH from the Outcome. You almost have to, let it go completely, and start a new...!!!!!

I guess its like a bouncing ball..when you throw it..it WILL BOUNCE BACK TO YOU..get it..cuz you LET GO OF IT....LOL

That's the Law..of Gravity, Physics, etc.

Awesomeness · « **Reply #12 on:** September 26, 2012, 05:48:18 AM »

I have a question, but I think I will save it for the Relationship board, as it is specific to my situation. Please take a look!

toffeecrumble21 · « **Reply #13 on:** September 27, 2012, 03:19:21 AM »

Bashar is great. He just says things and your like ah ha that makes total sense sometime you don't even have to question it because it feels so right, like remebering something you once knew.

fiercefoxie · « **Reply #14 on:** November 12, 2012, 12:41:54 AM »

Quote from: FindDivineTogether on September 23, 2012, 09:55:40 PM

There is an Article about Detachment that says you will never Manifest if you DO NOT DETACH from the Outcome. You almost have to, let it go completely, and start a new...!!!!!

I guess its like a bouncing ball..when you throw it..it WILL BOUNCE BACK TO YOU..get it..cuz you LET GO OF IT....LOL

That's the Law..of Gravity, Physics, etc.

Anyone have a link to this article? It sounds interesting and would love to read it.