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I am blessed with amazing friends
« on: October 27, 2011, 08:34:58 PM »
I have never been one to have a huge circle of friends and I like it that way.  I am way more interested in quality over quantity in all aspects of my life.

Currently I have 3 amazing friends who mean the world to me and know every little thing about me (and love me anyway).  These friends know that I am a verbal processor which means that whenever anything happens with the guy I like (like last weekend) that I need to talk it out.  They are patient with me and also very honest.

One of my friends lives in another state, so our relationship mostly exists over text and occasional phone conversations.  She texted me last night something that really opened my eyes.  She told me that her opinion was that, for now, I should put him on the backburner of my mind and focus on other things and other men.  She pointed out that he is going through a weird phase right now where he is not able to give me the kind of relationship I want.  I have done a lot of work on myself in the past year in healing from my past, getting healthier (physically and emotionally) and just being overall happier.  Her fear is that my feelings for this man and his not being in a place to return them properly will cause a backward slide.  I love that she trusts our friendship enough to be honest with me about her feelings.  And she's right. 

I had a moment of clarity yesterday.  I am a catch.  Seriously.  I am kind, generous, intelligent, funny, warm and talented.  I have a career, I own my own home and I don't build my life around anyone but me.  I'm not bad on the eyes either.   ;) If he would rather spend time with a young girl who is half the woman I am as opposed to jumping at the chance to be with someone like me, he clearly has some issues that he needs to work on.  I believe with all my heart that the connection we have has shown me who he is at the core.  But that's not who he is right now.  I don't know why and that's because he won't let me into his life enough to find out.  I will continue to send him my love and focus on the qualities that are what made me fall for him in the first place.  He's a wonderful man - I think he just forgot that and is settling for so much less than he deserves.

I'm so grateful to my friend for loving me enough to send me that text.  I'm very blessed.
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Re: I am blessed with amazing friends
« Reply #1 on: October 27, 2011, 11:15:00 PM »
Yay  on boosting confidence Irishgirl!!!!!!

Im happy for you :)


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