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Getting my ex back after I ended it
« on: September 02, 2019, 11:24:22 AM »
Hi all, I need your help and tips!

So after a one year breakup with my partner and endless scrolling of information on how to get your ex back, he came back to me! We ended up engaged at the end of last year, BUT we recently had a fight and I ended it (I didnít end it over that fight particularly, but that was the catalyst - Iíd had enough). Anyhow, we exchanged a few emails, and it looked like in the last bit of correspondence from him that he wanted to continue. But I was confused at the time, and thought I should stand my ground of it being over. Fast forward two weeks and it suddenly hit me that it was over and I was missing him, so I sent him an email asking if heíd like to talk... but he ignored me until another 2 or 3 weeks later when he emailed me saying he doesnít want to talk and I should get a friend to collect my things from his house, and to return the ring via a friend when I get back from o/s (currently o/s). I tried one last time to see if there was a chance to talk just before my things got collected a few days ago, but my plea was met with a long angry essay accusing me of this and that, followed by some back and forth messages between us with the bad result of him basically reiterating itís over, and my things need to go. I heard from my landlord that actually heís moving house.

Anyway, needless to say, Iím not feeling good about this breakup at all - especially since we were about to get married, and also that it was me who actually said itís over (usually Iím the dumpee). Iím just wondering if the process for getting your ex back is the same whether youíve dumped them or theyíve dumped you? Iím in such a massive state of depression right now, and regretting I jumped so quickly to end it. Iím scared to contact him again to receive another negative, angry, rejecting message. I donít understand how he could have changed his mind in just two weeks time - going from indicating he wanted to continue to not wanting to.

It makes me feel so sad that after my time here overseas, he wonít be at the airport waiting to greet me and continue our life together. :/

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Re: Getting my ex back after I ended it
« Reply #1 on: September 06, 2019, 01:51:36 PM »
Don't return the ring whatever you do!

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Re: Getting my ex back after I ended it
« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2019, 10:07:23 PM »
Don't return the ring whatever you do!

Yeh, I am also thinking the same.

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Re: Getting my ex back after I ended it
« Reply #3 on: October 23, 2019, 05:12:47 PM »
Keep the ring and ran away.  :D  ;)

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Re: Getting my ex back after I ended it
« Reply #4 on: October 24, 2019, 12:06:03 PM »
OK Luckygirl.....Personally in my opinion...don't give him anything without a fight or a negotiation....Make him work for it...OK To have anything you have to visualize this as though you already own it...So you want him....don't ever feel that...You have to OWN him...Or else just go into No Contact crap...They tell you this cause they don't want to get you attached to your outcome, further forget and better yourself and maybe when you feel good about yourself he will see this and contact you or else you will have an easier time to move on......
    Long story short...Visualize once a day if you can, him pleasing you...make him do it right...Just visualize of what you want...don't go kissy kissy ...because remember YOU OWN HIM....He does everything to please you just visualize  as done...your desire as done...Get it!!! You Own him otherwise it won't work...assure yourself...Be STRONG....
   Have fun my friend and keep us posted!!

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