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Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« on: September 02, 2019, 04:45:23 AM »
Trying to get positive thoughts into my head but one of the things I am hoping to achieve is that I seem to run into the weirdest, insulting people all the time.  People just seem to take one look at me and feel they can disrespect me.

So tonight I went to the store (a place I avoid a lot lately because of the wackiness that insues) and I am getting my stuff rung up and the kid takes everything out of my cart and leaves the cart there.. so the next person can't put their stuff down. Now I didn't even see this person because she wasn't properly in line until I hear "are you done with this cart?" not really paying attention because I was fiddling with the charge machine I absent mindedly said yes (assuming she wanted it to put things in) and instead she goes, because you should move it so other's can put their things down. She huffed off down to another cashier booth.

First, what is she on about?, it is the cashier that moves the cart not me.. I don't even have room to do that on my side.

Secondly, it was literally like 1 second from the time he got everything out of the cart until she asked the question. Is that loaf of bread really going to break your arms?

I could go on but it has really shook me tonight...  I know it takes time for the LOA to work but it definitely shook my faith.

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2019, 04:03:26 PM »
People are often really angry.. frustrated.. stressed. Itís not you. But itís horrible coming across them! Some people just hate you for how you look or what you represent to them.

Thereís one thing that stuck with me, though itís silly and I shouldnít have felt so upset by it. I was getting my kids from the airport.. their first time flying alone.. and had waited for the a long time, we got a taxi from the airport to the train station. Now I am used to people being friendly to me and the kids: I lived in Italy for years where people are so kind to families, and if you speak Italian.. well they start inviting you into their homes and stuff!

I forgot that here in Scotland you sometimes get judged if you speak with an English accent. The taxi driver was a bastard, he was a joyless hate-filled unfriendly man.. quite young. The moment he saw us, the moment I opened my mouth, he had decided to hate us. For some reason itís more upsetting when kids are involved. I was very friendly with him... at some point my boy wanted to tell me something more personal so we switched to German to be private. And his silent anger just went through the roof.. I could feel hatred emanating off him. Omg! Honestly I think if he could have done, that driver would have taken the three of us to the nearest death-camp and gleefully handed us over.

He saw us as ..dunno.. privileged, English (wrong accent), then add to that.. kids flying alone... educated, polite and bi-lingual too. I donít come across as arrogant, very far from it. I can nearly always get people to smile and Ďmeltí. But that man totally had it in for us. I think he would have liked to hurt us if he could have done.

I suppose what I find disturbing is the switching off of empathy... that people are capable of doing that. They all become so angry with each other! Itís just weird.

And this western thing of zero tolerance about small mistakes. Theyíd practically take you out and whip you for.. like.. accidentally being in the wrong lane at the junction or something! I canít stand it. I love people who do stupid things like daydreaming or driving out in front of me then apologising or leaving their stuff in a heap so everyone has to stepover it.. or whatever. Itís human and it often creates opportunity for people to talk to one another and laugh together.

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #2 on: September 02, 2019, 05:32:44 PM »
People are often really angry.. frustrated.. stressed. Itís not you. But itís horrible coming across them! Some people just hate you for how you look or what you represent to them.

I feel like on a conscious level I attract this because I am usually alone.  For some reason this seems to bring out the ability of people to speak to me and sometimes that speaking is negative.

On an LOA level I guess I attract this because I am so careful lately to try to avoid it and have even pretty much stayed in my house a lot of times to avoid it. When I go to the store I try to literally run in and run out so I won't have an incident.  I am probably secretly guarding against it.

I have to remember though, last week I had two nice elderly ladies who didn't know how to buy a ticket for the subway and they asked me to help them. So I did and they were very kind and thanked me. Ironically this was in the city and the meanness seems to come when I am in the suburbs. I am starting to wonder about the place I live as I do seem to have a lot of such incidents in my small town (which you would think would be nicer)

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #3 on: September 03, 2019, 12:22:57 AM »
They are not rude and they are not bastards. It is your interpretation which is flawed.
Like it or lump it, they are just being.

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #4 on: September 03, 2019, 02:06:17 AM »
Ok then I guess I am going to have to get away from everyone.

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #5 on: September 03, 2019, 02:41:49 AM »
Where does "everyone is you pushed out" figure in this?

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #6 on: September 03, 2019, 05:24:38 AM »
Where does "everyone is you pushed out" figure in this?

Huh? I don't understand this.

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Re: Setback - rude people are always coming my way
« Reply #7 on: September 03, 2019, 11:00:36 AM »
Where does "everyone is you pushed out" figure in this?

Huh? I don't understand this.

The theory that we create everything in our own reality and that everyone is a reflection of ourselves. Try searching for it on here or google it. I'm not, erm, pushing that theory but many people preach it as gospel.

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