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How do you back off someone you are crazy about?
« on: April 07, 2019, 12:58:45 AM »
I've read before about backing off and telling the universe that I am not afraid of not getting a lady I'm crazy about.  It's very difficult to trust that it will work  When I ignore her she seems to get more distant. She seems to not care that I ignore her. I'm scared that I will never win her over.  it seems impossible to stop thinking about her so much. I ache for her mentally and physically.  I've been using a few techniques to try and love myself and focus on myself and trust the universe will give me what I want.  Sometimes she's very friendly towards me and other times she's cold and distant. I can't seem to stop acting like a 5 year old around her, always seeking her approval. Are there any tricks you used to  become confidently indifferent?  I try to keep busy being a DJ, writing and playing guitar. But when I'm not doing that she is the only thing on my mind.

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Re: How do you back off someone you are crazy about?
« Reply #1 on: April 07, 2019, 07:05:22 AM »
Why do you want to be indifferent? Just visualize you two together idk why there's people on this forum always wanting to play these weird games.

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Re: How do you back off someone you are crazy about?
« Reply #2 on: April 07, 2019, 08:48:52 PM »
its been hard to backing off but if your family support you than it will be easy for you

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Re: How do you back off someone you are crazy about?
« Reply #3 on: April 23, 2019, 02:42:39 PM »
We can attract the perfect partner, even if we have a very long list of criteria.

But we CAN'T attract someone specific and "force" them to love us.

I used to be infatuated with a woman too, several years ago, for several years. Like you, she was constantly on my mind. She liked me a little bit, but not enough for us to get into a romantic relationship. She ended up with someone else.

I learned that it is a mistake to become fixated on a person. Become fixated on love and relationships, but not a specific person.

When you try to "force" love, you end up playing "weird games" as TheLittleBat points out. If you focus on finding a healthy and loving relationship, you won't need to play games or back off. It will be "natural."

So if you have to back off, it means you are too fixated on the person. If you really want to give it a try, you either approach her directly and ask her out OR you leave her completely to "reset." After a reset, you may take another attempt but you still have to approach her directly.

Either YES or NO.


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