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Offline ThomasHunt

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How to deal with big fear?
« on: February 06, 2019, 06:33:09 AM »
Hi everyone,

I have a problem I need your help with appreciate any assistance. I've been reading for awhile now here and on reddit and have been using self hypnosis and affirmations. I really dig Neville goddard he is such a powerful speaker, but I find much of the spiritual stuff he says kooky.

I'm working on a money target. I need $50k in the next 4 months. A payment on a property needs to be made if not I lose it. I'll be personally ok, its not the apartment I'm living in. But its very important and if I lose this I would have lost alot of money I've already put in here.

The thing is that without this imagination I will not be able to get this money. There is no other realistic or normal way for this large sum in four months. I don't have the credit for multiple loans, and I can't borrow so much from family and friends. I also need the whole $50k, even $1 less and it won't work.

I'm all in and this is my lifeboat. So i woke up yesterday and this hit me and I felt much fear. Really bad. Because if this doesn't work or I don't work it correctly, its gone. Will take me years to recover from this loss financially.

I am a very confident guy, but the other side of confidence when it sometimes fails is great fear. Usually I relax or drink or sleep and it goes away after a few hours. But I am new to neville. This is the first time I'm doing something like this. The fear has not gone away in the past day like it normally does.

How do you guys deal with this fear ? I mean I read alot of ex back and growing taller threads. Those things won't work without imagination. There is no backup. This is a fact. When it hits you, it must be very scary. How do you deal with it ?

Please bear in mind that I am very new to all of this. I'm still reading Neville and the power of the subconscious mind. But i got the basics and have started for about a week now.

Thanks.


Thomas, on the Hunt.
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Re: How to deal with big fear?
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2019, 01:46:57 PM »
Hi Thomas, in my experience, fear comes from not knowing what to do or what to expect.

If we are clear about what we need to do, what steps to take, and if we know the outcome, we won't be afraid. I can't help you specifically on raising the funds you need, but do you have a clear plan, or do you know someone who can help you develop a clear plan?

Fear itself is not useful. When we are in a predicament, we actually need to be as calm and calculated as possible. Our creative mind finds the best solutions when we are relaxed and not feeling threatened. In your case, feeling afraid might be preventing you from figuring out the correct solution.

I try to not feel fear about anything that has a possible answer. Even though I don't know the answer right now, I know that I can keep going until I find the answer. Knowing that I can keep going, and that there is an answer, helps me to not feel afraid and have the energy to move forward.

Cheers,

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Re: How to deal with big fear?
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2019, 07:17:13 PM »
Hi Deny hey thanks for the good reply.

I have checked out every possible normal real world option with my financial advisers and bankers. Nothing will work for me. The law of imagination is the last resort and the only one that will work. I've come to this conclusion after nearly 4 months of strong efforts to solve or work around this issue. But thank you for checking that with me I appreciate it.

 
Hi Thomas, in my experience, fear comes from not knowing what to do or what to expect.

That's the problem here. I am new to this. This is my first deliberate goal. So I don't know what to expect deep down. I'm going on Neville and what I've read online here. Never done this before. So I don't have the fallback of personal experience. Hence my difficulty in pulling myself out of fear when it hits.

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Re: How to deal with big fear?
« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2019, 05:21:25 AM »
Update everyone. I'm better now. I started reading some success stories on the secret website of all things and feel better. I mean probably only 1 out of 20 posted there are genuine but that's still a lot of manifestation success from people who are mostly new to this stuff.

Thanks for the advice, thoughts and prayers.




Thomas, Back on the Hunt

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