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How to spark desire for goals?
« on: June 12, 2018, 05:56:52 PM »
We all have desires.

We wanna get jacked, or eat healthy, or start that project we've been sacrificing for game of thrones.

Some of us watch the days go by and get pissed off cause our most valuable asset - time - is being thrown out the door because of our lack of self control/discipline.

Time may be an illusion - but we still live in a world that revolves around time and thus need to make the most of it.


I've been re-reading Think and Grow Rich, I'm sure everyone here has read it at least once due to how popular it is. It mentions how crucial it is to have a BURNING desire.

But like in sales, selling features isn't as good as selling benefits (selling 20lbs of muscle vs selling confidence).

So, does anyone have any strategies to find the deeper, motivating forces behind our goals?


I've heard of the "7 why's" exercise (if you haven't heard of it, Google it. It does work pretty well but...) it didn't work 100% for me. I got to a deeper meaning which is excellent, but I still don't feel too much of a drive.

There is a much stronger drive than before but it feels like there should be more.


Last question here - of course you can't rely on desire alone because we all have days where we'd rather do nothing. Just in a low state of mind in general.

So having discipline come into play, any good for strategies for that that you've used?


Would appreciate your thoughts, thanks for reading

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