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He's started dating others
« on: May 15, 2018, 05:59:04 PM »
So my crush has started dating others and he's been on a few dates with this girl, I'm getting worried! What do I need to do?? I really really like him a lot and I feel we should be together😁😭

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2018, 09:55:32 PM »
So my crush has started dating others and he's been on a few dates with this girl, I'm getting worried! What do I need to do?? I really really like him a lot and I feel we should be together😁😭

What you feel is not what he feels. It is best to find someone who returns your feelings with equal measure.

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2018, 11:17:28 PM »
What you focus on is what you get. Don't pay attention to this girl, because you'll just get more of her. Focus more on you and him being together.

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2018, 04:29:07 AM »
Thank you all. I guess I just find it difficult not to focus on the negatives especially when he is the one telling me all the details 😁

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2018, 09:55:19 AM »
Thank you all. I guess I just find it difficult not to focus on the negatives especially when he is the one telling me all the details 😁

So he doesn't know about your feelings?

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #5 on: May 19, 2018, 04:51:10 AM »
I've never told him anything directly but I'm sure he senses it.

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #6 on: May 19, 2018, 09:42:20 AM »
I've never told him anything directly but I'm sure he senses it.

I think you should tell him before he starts to become seriously involved with someone else.


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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #7 on: May 19, 2018, 01:51:29 PM »
But if you tell him, there's a possibility that he becomes distant and cut off all contacts with you. It depends.
I was madly in love with a guy...we would share everything. I  really cared for him and was always there when he needed me. But due to the fact that i never confessed my love, he treated me as friend only. And one day...he told me that he is getting married. I was shattered. I could not hold it anymore and confessed that i was in love with him since long time time. He told me i should have confessed and it's too late now. He cut off all contacts with me.
To avoid being depressed...i moved on and started dating other guys. And very soon he came back in my life again, loving and caring like no one had done before.


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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #8 on: May 19, 2018, 03:44:53 PM »
So my crush has started dating others and he's been on a few dates with this girl, I'm getting worried! What do I need to do?? I really really like him a lot and I feel we should be together😁😭

Stop being worried. It's as simple as that. Worry accomplishes nothing. Trust in the universe. If it is meant to be, it will be.

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #9 on: May 19, 2018, 11:18:51 PM »
Does he show signs of interest in you? If so you've got to give him some sort of sign you feel the same before he gets serious with someone else. I have been there before where I knew a guy liked me and I spent so much time trying to figure out how to tell him I liked him that he moved on. Guys will not risk rejection if they think the girl does not like them and therefore will not approach a girl, then the girl sees that as him not being interested. So if you think he likes you, give him a hint. If it doesn't work out then you will have saved yourself the heartache of what ifs.

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #10 on: May 21, 2018, 06:26:18 AM »
Well in a strange twist of events, the girl he is dating got a job interstate and is moving away from here. Wow. He seemed into her and is upset by it. I'm wondering if I somehow manifested this.  I haven't told him how I felt, the timing doesn't feel right.
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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #11 on: May 22, 2018, 05:44:59 AM »
Focus on loving yourself more and more! Just do things that you love, make it a project to make faithful happy and inspired, with or without him. He will surely be attracted to someone who is happy. Just as you will be attracted to someone who is happy and inspiring!

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #12 on: May 22, 2018, 08:38:20 AM »
Don't tell him how you feel. It's a turn offfor guys.
Just show signs that you are interested and flirt.
Also be willing to walk away or not even in a contact with him if he doesn't reciprocate.
You want relationship with him. You don't want to just be in his life and listen to his dating story forever, right?
Who cares what he is doing. Don't be in friendzone.

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Re: He's started dating others
« Reply #13 on: May 23, 2018, 08:15:20 AM »
Thanks everyone. I just don't get the sense he's attracted to me at all lately and has been a bit distant. Perhaps time to move on:(

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