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This is the happiest I've been regardless of what the outcome of this situation may or may not be!

Really? Even if he stopped contacting you you'd be happy?
Just think about it very well, I've been in your shoes and I know what I'm saying.

Yes I'd be fine. When we weren't speaking I was happy and focusing on myself. I'm not here to be unrealistic but I also refuse to be negative. I've willed myself out of many dark places in my life. I think everything does happen for a reason. My life has improved DRASTICALLY over the last several months. Sometimes we break our own hearts by having expectations so I have none in this scenario. I'm just saying that I'm thankful to be back in contact with him.

Then it's good. You have nothing to worry about :) A tip from me is not to worry about it at all. Everything will work itself out :)
Also if you have a dark moment just remember that all that matters is you and if you don't care about the outcome you shouldn't care about what's happening at that moment

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the reality of it is that it will not change how compatible we are with them and how they treat us because of their own character.

That's YOUR reality, then.
Everyone is you pushed out, no one is over there just "being who they are" - they reflect your thoughts, feelings and beliefs about them.
Which, obviously, you have these limiting thoughts, feelings and beliefs so you keep getting the reality you don't want.

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Good for you luxelife always feels freeing to put yourself first and know your worth

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the reality of it is that it will not change how compatible we are with them and how they treat us because of their own character.

That's YOUR reality, then.
Everyone is you pushed out, no one is over there just "being who they are" - they reflect your thoughts, feelings and beliefs about them.
Which, obviously, you have these limiting thoughts, feelings and beliefs so you keep getting the reality you don't want.


well, i meant as far as being compatible. i cant change his family, him living thousands of miles away from me, etc. lol thank you for your input

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Blocked everywhere and didn't get a reply to your email. But talking to you on Snapchat? If I were U, I  would want him to unblock me everywhere if he really cared. I'm sure he doesn't now how to block u on Snapchat. Honestly I feel you are being played with. I would want to be a priority to someone not some toy to be blocked everywhere

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Re: MAJOR UPDATE! (must read for those who have been following my story)
« Reply #21 on: October 23, 2019, 02:20:04 AM »
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« Last Edit: November 05, 2019, 09:26:33 PM by luxelifes2k »

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Re: MAJOR UPDATE! (must read for those who have been following my story)
« Reply #22 on: October 30, 2019, 01:01:28 PM »
You actually need to realise that lack of selflove and self esteem lead you to this point. It was obvious from the first post that a guy does not like you nor respect you.
You were so happy that he actually talks to you? Just realise how much desperation there is in that statement. You are happy that someone took 5 sec to respond to your text?

I mean, you girls are all pretty much the same. You want what you can't have, but damn, there is a fine line between chasing someone who is elusive and chasing someone who flat out disrespects you. I mean blocking you everywhere, dissappearing out of the blue? Come on girl.

Listen, I know as a woman, you will always want a guy that is kinda less interested in you than you are in him, but chasing guys that do not give a single flying fuck about you is a whole another story. It shows that you have absolutely no self esteem. And trust me - men are pigs. They will take advantage of that.

Your job is to focus on self love and self esteem. Get a shrink and talk to him. There must be a reason why you get so attached to someone who does not care about you. Find a cause and work on it. Improve yourself. It is the only way you will ever find a loving relationship and a man who will reciprocate interest.

I do not mean to insult you but your mind is broken. Something is not right in your head and if you do not fix it you will just encounter more pain. It's like you wanted to play for LA Lakers and you can't even run. Of course Lakers won't hire you. At best you will play for some local low grade team. Because you are not ready for Lakers.

Right now you are not ready for a loving relationship and for a man that will take care of you. You are ready for a cold and uninterested men who will take you for granted. Work on that. Best of luck to you. :)

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