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How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« on: January 11, 2018, 11:04:34 AM »
Hello,
 I am in need of some advice. How have all of you dealt with negative thoughts? Any tips/tools. I really miss my ex and I keep thinking negative thoughts. These include thinking she feels farther away, that times gonna pass and shes gonna move, and that she already forgot me. I just feel like the more I think of  these the more resistance I will create, but as time passes they just grow louder. Any personal stories are also welcome! Thank you in advance!

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2018, 03:06:44 PM »
emg, for me it was helpful to look beyond a current situation in order to see the bigger picture.
Do you know what I mean?

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2018, 03:32:13 PM »
Maybe do reverse seduction and make yourself feel that way and her chasing you...it can break down her resistance. What you may be feeling is what she is projecting, rejecting your energy, so go with your intuition and see how to best approach this. Making any moves while loaded with those feelings will only make things worse so you have to switch it around and get back to that happy place you both were in. It helps letting the thoughts be, not analyzing it but let it flow through....look into cutting the cord meditations to free yourself and give yourself time. Give her time to miss your energy as you heal till you feel back in control

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2018, 06:29:18 PM »
How have all of you dealt with negative thoughts?

I will answer this.

Negative thoughts are nothing to be scared of. We all have these thought and it is very NATURAL to have negative thoughts. The whole world is made of Matter and Anti matter - both of these are complimentary.
So, Relax. Breathe Deep, have plenty of water  :)

Now the tip - I am going to give, might sound to simple but it is indeed very powerful:

When I acknowledge any thought which is not desired, I feel very happy. I do feel happy bc now I am conscious about my mind's rant. The moment I acknowledge it - I try to think the opposite whatever it may be or ignore it. This way I take away all its power. Any thought form if allowed to be repeated inside your head or mind it starts becoming powerful. The more powerful it is, the more it goes deep to impress on your subconscious mind.

So, it is good that you know you are thinking negative and now you also know what to do next.

Journaling helps a lot. Write down everything you are thinking - change those which are not desired.


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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #4 on: January 11, 2018, 08:42:36 PM »
A thought is just a thought. It is neither good nor bad until you label it as such by your own perception of it.

In essence, your problem is that you think to much. You put too much of your attention onto your thoughts. Let them go and pass without batting an eye lid at them.

The truth is, having a "bad" thought does absolutely nothing at all in reality apart from make you feel like shit for thinking about it.

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #5 on: January 11, 2018, 09:03:04 PM »
The truth is, having a "bad" thought does absolutely nothing at all in reality apart from make you feel like shit for thinking about it.

Absolutely.

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #6 on: January 12, 2018, 12:10:21 AM »
emg, for me it was helpful to look beyond a current situation in order to see the bigger picture.
Do you know what I mean?
Hello, thank you for your response! do you mean like living in the end result? :)

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #7 on: January 12, 2018, 12:13:42 AM »
Maybe do reverse seduction and make yourself feel that way and her chasing you...it can break down her resistance. What you may be feeling is what she is projecting, rejecting your energy, so go with your intuition and see how to best approach this. Making any moves while loaded with those feelings will only make things worse so you have to switch it around and get back to that happy place you both were in. It helps letting the thoughts be, not analyzing it but let it flow through....look into cutting the cord meditations to free yourself and give yourself time. Give her time to miss your energy as you heal till you feel back in control
Hello, Thank you for you response!
So its possible for our specific people to let us know with their energy/vibration that they dont want to be with us anymore? I guess my biggest concern comes from her not wanting this anymore. One more question. Is there specific meditations or steps for reverse seduction? ive never heard of this lol THANK YOU IN ADVANCE!

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #8 on: January 12, 2018, 12:16:25 AM »
How have all of you dealt with negative thoughts?

I will answer this.

Negative thoughts are nothing to be scared of. We all have these thought and it is very NATURAL to have negative thoughts. The whole world is made of Matter and Anti matter - both of these are complimentary.
So, Relax. Breathe Deep, have plenty of water  :)

Now the tip - I am going to give, might sound to simple but it is indeed very powerful:

When I acknowledge any thought which is not desired, I feel very happy. I do feel happy bc now I am conscious about my mind's rant. The moment I acknowledge it - I try to think the opposite whatever it may be or ignore it. This way I take away all its power. Any thought form if allowed to be repeated inside your head or mind it starts becoming powerful. The more powerful it is, the more it goes deep to impress on your subconscious mind.

So, it is good that you know you are thinking negative and now you also know what to do next.

Journaling helps a lot. Write down everything you are thinking - change those which are not desired.



Thank you for your response!:) Your tip makes lot of sense! in other words we determine what powers we give our thoughts? I was just scared, because ive been working really hard. ive been meditating and practicing self love to the max! I was scared my progress would reset. if that makes any sense? I have been doing a gratitude journal every night, which helps, but should i do a journal that is focused more on venting these negative energies? or would that attract more negative?

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #9 on: January 12, 2018, 12:19:03 AM »
A thought is just a thought. It is neither good nor bad until you label it as such by your own perception of it.

In essence, your problem is that you think to much. You put too much of your attention onto your thoughts. Let them go and pass without batting an eye lid at them.

The truth is, having a "bad" thought does absolutely nothing at all in reality apart from make you feel like shit for thinking about it.
Thank you for your response! :) I do over think. I have OCD , so I tend to obsess over things that other people would let go of. I always think of 1000 ways that it could go wrong and one solid way it could go right. Its not necessarily out of negativity, but out of being too cautious. I loved your last comment. You are right a negative thought is useless, because nothing comes out of it.  Thank you! :)

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Re: How do you deal with negative thoughts?
« Reply #10 on: January 12, 2018, 12:48:46 AM »

I loved your last comment. You are right a negative thought is useless, because nothing comes out of it.  Thank you! :)
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I meant that last bit literally too! Having a negative thought does not mean negative shit is going to happen at all. It is only ourselves that sabotage reality by our very physical actions and choices. True, these actions can of course be encouraged by thinking negatively but the thought itself does nothing at all.

Ahhhh shit...OCD!! Stop trying so hard mate. Seriously. Put your focus and energy into other things like working out, seeing friends and family, drawing, reading, anything else other than LOA techniques.
Find you again. The real you. Let the past go.
Trust me, you will feel much better for it in 2 months time and you'll thank me for it later.

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