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Feeling negative about my job
« on: January 08, 2018, 09:40:41 PM »
I've been managing a dental practice since Sept 2017, and while at first I was grateful for the opportunity I'm beginning to realize that I'm not suited for this position or industry. I love the patients but the person I work for is rather unprofessional and testy. I feel negative feelings being here.

I want to know if this is all me just stewing in negative emotions and not giving this place a chance, or should I move on?

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Re: Feeling negative about my job
« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2018, 10:16:58 PM »
want to know if this is all me just stewing in negative emotions and not giving this place a chance, or should I move on?

Hi Lux,
I copied something for your situation, This is a text by Louise Hay.  See if it helps you:


Youíll never find work a pleasure if you hate your job or you canít stand your boss. What a terrible affirmation that is. It will be impossible for you to ever attract a great job with that belief system. If you want to enjoy your time at work, then you must change your thinking. Iím a great believer in blessing every person, place, and thing in the workplace with love. Begin with your current job: Affirm that it is merely a stepping-stone to far greater positions.

Youíre in your current job because of things you believed in the past. You drew it to you by your thinking. Perhaps you learned your attitude toward work from your parents. No matter-you can change your thinking now. So bless with love your boss, your co-workers, the location, the building, the elevators or stairs, the offices, the furniture, and each and every customer. This creates a loving mental atmosphere within you, and the entire environment will respond to it.

Iíve never understood the reasoning behind belittling or berating others at work. If youíre an owner, a manager, or a supervisor, how can you possibly expect to get the best work from others if theyíre frightened or resentful? We all want to be appreciated, acknowledged, and encouraged. If you support your employees and give them respect, then theyíll give you the best work they can.

Please donít believe that itís hard to get a job. That may be true for many, but it doesnít have to be true for you. You only need one job, and your consciousness will then open the pathway for you. Donít have faith in fear. When you hear of negative trends in business or in the economy, immediately affirm: ďIt may be true for some, but it is not true for me. I always prosper no matter where I am or what is going on.Ē

People often ask me for affirmations to make their relationships at work smoother. In fact, for many people this is a really big issue in their lives. Iím deeply aware that whatever I give out comes back to me multiplied. This is true everywhere, including at work. In the workplace, itís important to know that every employee (and employer) has been attracted by the action of love, for itís his or her Divine right place here at this very moment. Divine harmony permeates us all, and we can flow together in the workplace in a most productive and joyous way.

There arenít any problems that donít have solutions. There arenít any questions without answers. Choose to go beyond the problem to seek the Divine solution to any type of discord that seems to appear. Be willing to learn from any strife or confusion as it comes up. Itís important to release all blame, and turn within to seek the truth. And be willing to release whatever pattern may be in your consciousness that has contributed to the situation.

You know that youíre successful in all that you do. Youíre inspired and productive. You serve others willingly and gladly. Divine harmony reigns supreme within and around you and within and around each and every person in your workplace.

If you like your job but feel that youíre not getting paid enough, then bless your current salary with love. Expressing gratitude for what you have now enables your income to grow. And please, absolutely no more complaining about the job or your co-workers. Your consciousness put you where you are now. Your changing consciousness can lift to you a better position. You can do it!

During your workday, there a number of things you can do to release tension. Here are a few of my suggestions:

1. Before you go to work every day, do this simple exercise: Just sit comfortably and concentrate on your breath. Whenever you notice thoughts coming in, gently bring your awareness back to your breath. Give yourself at least 10 or 15 minutes to dwell in the silence each day. Thereís nothing difficult or tricky to this.

2. Write or type this affirmation and put it where you can see it at work every day:

ďMy job is a peaceful haven. I bless my job with love. I put love in every corner, and my job lovingly responds with warmth and comfort. I am at peace.Ē

When you start to think about your boss, say this affirmation to yourself:

ďI only give out that which I wish to receive. My love and acceptance of others is mirrored to me in every way.Ē

Refuse to be limited in any way by human-mind thinking. Your life can be filled with love and joy because your work is a Divine idea. Remember to say to yourself every day before going to work:

ďNo matter where I am, there is only infinite good, infinite wisdom, infinite harmony, and infinite love.Ē

MY JOY ALLOWS ME TO EXPRESS MY TALENTS AND ABILITIES, AND I AM GRATEFUL FOR THIS EMPLOYMENT.

THE JOY I FIND IN MY CAREER IS REFLECTED IN MY OVERALL HAPPINESS.

MAKING DECISIONS IS EASY FOR ME. I WELCOME NEW IDEAS, AND I FOLLOW THROUGH WITH WHAT I SAY.

AT MY JOB, MY CO-WORKERS AND I ENCOURAGE EACH OTHERíS GROWTH AND SUCCESS.

WHEN I WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, I PLAN FOR A GOOD DAY. MY ANTICIPATION ATTRACTS POSITIVE EXPERIENCES TO ME.

THE PERFECT JOB IS LOOKING FOR ME, AND WE ARE BEING BROUGHT TOGETHER NOW.

I TRULY BELIEVE THAT WE ARE HERE TO BLESS AND PROSPER EACH OTHER. I REFLECT THIS BELIEF IN MY DAILY INTERACTIONS.

I CHOOSE HEALTHY STIMULATION. DURING BREAKS AT WORK, I SPEAK POSITIVELY WITH OTHERS AND LISTEN WITH COMPASSION.

I AM AT EASE SPEAKING IN FRONT OF OTHERS. I HAVE CONFIDENCE IN MYSELF.

WHEN I ENCOUNTER PROBLEMS ON THE JOB, I AM WILLING TO ASK FOR HELP.




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Re: Feeling negative about my job
« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2018, 10:29:45 PM »
Thank you! Beautiful read.

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Re: Feeling negative about my job
« Reply #3 on: January 09, 2018, 06:32:22 AM »
thank you, lovelies!!!

was not intended to me but helped me just the same. bookmarked!

xo

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Re: Feeling negative about my job
« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2018, 10:41:37 AM »
I know this won't work with everyone or every situation, but sometimes if you are having problems with a specific person, you have to change how you deal with them.

Some years ago, we got a new boss at work. I'll call him Mr. O. He was always cranky and cantankerous and nobody liked him.

I love to cook and bake. I was single at the time and couldn't possibly eat all that I made. One day I decided to bake Mr. O. a batch of cookies. When I set them on his desk, that was the first time I ever saw him smile! He was so happy and appreciative.

I learned later that he and his wife were not getting along and she didn't treat him well. He was bringing these bad feelings to work and sort of using the sh*t rolls down hill thing so taking his anger out on those beneath him. And because if this, he got no respect from anyone.

From then on, I took him something every week. Usually some candy, cookies or a loaf of bread that I'd made. Occasionally a craft item like a Christmas ornament. I just love making things.

I had people come up to me and question me as to why Mr. O. was always nice to me and seemingly no one else.  Even when I tried to explain it, they didn't get it or thought I was sucking up to him. But no. It was such a simple gesture and I was already making the things anyway.

I wound up asking for and getting a rather substantial promotion and I feel that my actions had to have helped.

Another thing that stands out in my mind was our monthly birthday breakfast. Once a month, we had a breakfast to celebrate people who had birthdays that month and we all took turns cooking and serving. When it was my turn we made pancakes that were rolled around peach filling. They were secured with toothpicks. When I plated Mr. O.'s, I put two toothpicks in it. He raved about that all day! "See? She knows who the boss is! And she shows respect!" Again, a very simple thing for me to have done. And in that case it worked very well for me.

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Re: Feeling negative about my job
« Reply #5 on: January 10, 2018, 03:21:39 AM »
nice story, Julie!  :)

i will keep it when necessary. (thankfully my boss is a great guy!).

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