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« on: December 05, 2013, 07:42:20 AM »
On thanksgiving my ex fiance wrote me happy thanksgiving on fb and then i noticed his good friend who i have never met was trying to add me that same day. I responded to my ex saying thank you and that was it, the conversation stopped there. I've let his friend's fb request sit there and deleted it now he clicked add again! It seems fishy to me?  Like my ex fiance is making him do it?  I do not really want to accept the friend request since i do not know the guy ,however, now im curious as to what is going on?  What should I do about it?

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #1 on: December 05, 2013, 07:44:47 AM »
if you don't want to add him, don't add. Easy and simple.

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #2 on: December 05, 2013, 09:13:35 AM »
Do you have any friends in common with your ex's friend? If you are already friends with your ex on FB then I don't see why he would recruit others to friend request you as well.

Honestly you may just be reading too much into it, and if you really want it to stop then you should block his friend. Sounds rude, but your privacy is your own.

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #3 on: December 05, 2013, 09:35:41 AM »
no i have no friends in common with him so that is why it is a bit odd.  I am not friends on fb with my ex.  He can send me messages though because i have it set to everyone can send me messages.  I deleted the request again.  Thanks for your help!

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #4 on: December 06, 2013, 01:27:51 AM »
He is using his friend to snoop for info, for sure. Just deny it if it persists, you can block his friend, then he can't try and add you because you won't come up in his searches.

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #5 on: December 06, 2013, 08:57:08 AM »
ya hes trying to snoop, it was weird that he text me and his friend tries to add me on the same day! I just don't get why he wouldn't just add me himself?  oh well at least him saying something nice when he text me is a huge step! even if it is just happy thanksgiving! at least its not "i want my sweaters back" like it usually is LOL

I honestly didn't even expect a thanksgiving text ...i guess that is why i got one...no attachment to it (:


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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #6 on: December 06, 2013, 09:03:41 AM »
if you want your ex back i would totally add his friend, so he can stalk you and see how well you are doing without him, it drives them crazy, makes them grow up faster

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #7 on: December 06, 2013, 09:19:19 AM »
ya hes trying to snoop, it was weird that he text me and his friend tries to add me on the same day! I just don't get why he wouldn't just add me himself?  oh well at least him saying something nice when he text me is a huge step! even if it is just happy thanksgiving! at least its not "i want my sweaters back" like it usually is LOL

I honestly didn't even expect a thanksgiving text ...i guess that is why i got one...no attachment to it (:

That's good. If you want a future with him, it would be good to stay on friendly terms, do not play games and do not pursue too strongly.

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #8 on: December 09, 2013, 07:33:35 AM »
ugh now im so hurt/confused he put all these pics of a new house on fb on the public setting which he never does! i have a feeling he knows i look at his stuff the same way i know hes always looking at mine even though we arent fb friends.  Anyways it says how he has a new gf who helped him with the garden etc of the house.  ugh i guess our engagement was a joke he always said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but now hes building a new one in another state with another woman.  What sucks more is i know he wants me to know! he never puts things on public   

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #9 on: December 10, 2013, 08:29:38 PM »
Truly happy people don't have to blast everything on Facebook.  They do it for attention. Of course he wants you to see it. Anyone that posts things publicly on fb do so for the purpose of hoping their ex sees it. Otherwise it would be shared with their friends and family privately.

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Re: Facebook add
« Reply #10 on: December 11, 2013, 03:18:08 AM »
I would say ignore both of them. It sounds like your ex is trying to make you jealous. He's sharing that he has a new girfriend and that she's helping him out with his new house/garden because he knows you probably look at his profile. It's like he's wanting you to check out his profile so you'll see these things. Don't give him the satisfaction of adding the friend or texting him.

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