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Still having hard time being DETACHED!!!!
« on: September 07, 2013, 06:22:35 PM »
In a nut shell...
 
I am having the hardest time 'Letting Go' as I am in the midst of what feels like a major Manifestation...my fear is I may kill it before it can fully come to fruition.
 
I need to detach again and i'm struggling with it big time :-[ :'(


My old co workers..who I really miss, show up at my new school on the first day....out of no where!
I have new coworkers talking about my ''love'' from my old school for days, the entire first week of school!!!!
And now the 2nd week, my former Principal (who wouldn't offer me a new position to stay on at my old school) is now retiring----effective immediately which excites the hell out of me!!!! 

As things are unfolding in front of me..how do I not get ATTACHED all over again. I am having a reallllllly difficult time staying focused on the NOW and letting things unfold without getting all caught up in the how's and when's and where is this all heading?

I didn't realize until I heard about the Principal retiring how much I wanted to go back to my old school..and just as I was feeling positive about the new school year and feeling comfortable at my new school.

I just don't know how I should feel or act, for the first time I am actually lost as to what I am supposed to do. I am either excited at whats next..or I am worried that its a big tease and nothing will come of it!!!!! Even though the signs and movement of all this has really blown my mind.




Advice please, I don 't want to screw this up :D

















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« Last Edit: September 16, 2013, 03:06:53 AM by FindDivineTogether »

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I have the same problem. Whenever I see things start to move I get attached again.

First, go with the flow right now, don't try to force anything. Be grateful knowing things are working out how they are meant to be. Also, get busy with other goals and manifestations to take your mind off of it. And maybe some affirmations to help, such as " Everything is working out for my highest good"

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Eeeek. So difficult to detach!!

I would say, allow yourself to be excited at the potential, but definitely don't worry!

I'm finding more and more if you REALLY NEED a particular outcome then it seems to push it away. You are better off knowing that it would be great, but you don't need it. Sit down and be completely grateful for the job you already have and know you are being taken care of no matter what happens.

And lastly surrender it to God.

I know it's pretty hard to just go about your day, but do your best, maybe book in some interesting things to do to keep you in a good place mentally. :)

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Something else that just came to me. If you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that the job you wanted was yours, would you worry for even a moment? No, you would just be grateful a set about getting ready for it.

I know that kind of contradicts the whole be happy either way advice I just gave but I felt the urge to say this to you.

But maybe the 'happy either way' thing is just another tool to eliminate worry,

So which ever way you go, don't worry. Haha.

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I have the same problem. Whenever I see things start to move I get attached again.

First, go with the flow right now, don't try to force anything. Be grateful knowing things are working out how they are meant to be. Also, get busy with other goals and manifestations to take your mind off of it. And maybe some affirmations to help, such as " Everything is working out for my highest good"

 
Thanks so much!!!!

I definitely wont take any action, unless the opportunity presents itself..but in the meantime..i am just Grateful for what is..its just hard not to go back to old habits of worrying and feeling anxious about the outcome. Also,  I actually started saying a similar affirmation to myself all day yesterday..cuz I was going a bit crazzzzy..I kept saying to myself at work...

I am so grateful to be here and I know you (God) are watching over me, taking care of all this...I don't need to worry at all!!!!!!



I am trying to repeat this to myself as often as possible. Thank you :)








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« Last Edit: September 07, 2013, 07:44:22 PM by FindDivineTogether »

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Eeeek. So difficult to detach!!

I would say, allow yourself to be excited at the potential, but definitely don't worry!

I'm finding more and more if you REALLY NEED a particular outcome then it seems to push it away. You are better off knowing that it would be great, but you don't need it. Sit down and be completely grateful for the job you already have and know you are being taken care of no matter what happens.

And lastly surrender it to God.

I know it's pretty hard to just go about your day, but do your best, maybe book in some interesting things to do to keep you in a good place mentally. :)


Thank you truelove...

I am surrendering, cuz in all honesty, I just feel He will work it all out for me, just as God's brought things this far.  I know I need to keep feeling the Gratitude for the position I have now WHICH I ABSOLUTELY DO and I told myself yesterday as this was hitting me more and more that even if it doesn't come now, or even this year..i am happy to have a job and I am lucky to be at my new school!!!!!!!!

Which ever way..i am going to go with it..if the opportunity presents itself then great, if not I do have a great new job at a nice school..i just wasn't prepared for all this, especially the way it came together..just NOT the way I envisioned it at all!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I visualize A LOT it was all the same people involved, just in a completely different way :D

 
« Last Edit: September 07, 2013, 07:40:49 PM by FindDivineTogether »

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Something else that just came to me. If you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that the job you wanted was yours, would you worry for even a moment? No, you would just be grateful a set about getting ready for it.

I know that kind of contradicts the whole be happy either way advice I just gave but I felt the urge to say this to you.

But maybe the 'happy either way' thing is just another tool to eliminate worry,

So which ever way you go, don't worry. Haha.




I thought about this to, if I already knew it was a done deal..would I be worrying? No, i'd be dancing around my kitchen like I was the other night when I heard the Principal was leaving the school :P


I just don't want that feeling of excitement and OKAYYY I GOT IT keeping me attached as well..no what I mean? Does that make sense?  Should I stop thinking about it all together maybe???
« Last Edit: September 07, 2013, 07:51:44 PM by FindDivineTogether »

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NAPS ;D

(sorry, couldn't resist :) - but actually, I'm just having fun, I'm sure it would help actually, as would my perennial favourite, meditation.)

But FDT, you have a big advantage over some in that you have religious faith. I think that must help with attachment, because every time you start to worry, you can just remind yourself that God is taking care of it, and you don't have to worry about doing anything. When the time is right for you to take action, if necessary, you will know.

(I don't have any particular religious beliefs, and when I start getting anxious I go through the whole gamut of this could be true or that could be true, and I'm never quite clear of what action to take, if any. if you believe in a higher power, I think you can safely leave it to that power)

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Ohhhhhh yeah that's right NAPS!!!

Ginny-----------that was funny  :P :P :P :P 

And yes I do believe in God..so you are right about my Faith and beliefe that He will protect me no matter what.

I always joke when I pray or talk with Him...cuz I am always asking Him for help, support, guidance, reassurance, etc. so its like yep its MEEEEEEEE again God asking for more help------------but what about The Universe?

Its not a religious figure or a denominational symbol but its a powerful force..you can always give it to the force that drives things and know that either way..things will move in one direction or another, that's LOA, no matter what things will happen :)



I hope that made sense...

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This happened to me. I've been using LoA to attract back this guy I work with who I had a thing with at Xmas. In June/July I was feeling happy and detached and my guy started getting closer again. Things were really looking up but I didn't go with the flow! I was impatient and always wanting more and things changed again. I feel like I created resistance and that stopped my manifestation from coming. I'm using a NAP now to clear out my limiting beliefs and even though right now me and my guy only speak at work and it FEELS like "nothing is happening" right now - I am learning to have more faith in the universe and not to be so focused on time or how or when etc.

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I think the purpose of detachment is probably because we humans have trouble with pure positive thought. We tend to let worry creep in even when we are trying not to, if that's the case, detach.

If you can think of it in absolutely positive ways with no doubt in your mind that its yours then I think you can think about it.

I think in your case no thinking about it is the way to go because its hard to go from worry to pure positive thought straight away, would take some time and its best to let it go I think.

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 Thank you for that story Petal...

I did work with my love and it looked like we were headed in the right direction....don't want to get into anything negative but once I lost my position at the school I thought all hope was lost, and I fought against it and tried to weezle my way back in...LOL ;D but you do create the resistance and stall things, I know that now.

 
I even returned to my school temporarily as a Substitute for a week but he wasn't ready and I was a mess!!!!!! I shouldn't have pushed through but I wanted to prove something to myself, that I could control the outcome and I was wrong..it was temporary and I was miserable!!!!!!


I did get a position at another school WHICH WAS A BLESSING and had to learn to let go all over again, which I did and then all this happened, it took a ear but I got a full time job and started seeing how God really works in your life when you let Him :)


SO letting go, letting things be and letting God/Universe work their magic is how things manifest for me now..so I learned my lesson!!!!!













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« Last Edit: September 08, 2013, 04:17:40 AM by FindDivineTogether »

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I think the purpose of detachment is probably because we humans have trouble with pure positive thought. We tend to let worry creep in even when we are trying not to, if that's the case, detach.

If you can think of it in absolutely positive ways with no doubt in your mind that its yours then I think you can think about it.

I think in your case no thinking about it is the way to go because its hard to go from worry to pure positive thought straight away, would take some time and its best to let it go I think.



I always felt somewhat attached to this situation, but I did move on to another position, met new people, started really putting all my energy into putting my best foot forward and liking my new situation...that's when all this started happening. So I did let go..and I did move ahead..i just never forgot (or wanted to close the door on it) I just learned to accept what is for now..i had to!

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I 'd say stay focused and try not to interfere just let the stream carry u. Remember for every wish there is an exact opposite unwanted outcome. Keep the momentum on the positive outcome going and if u feel u can't make the jump go general or do meditation to quiet your mind and then chose the vibration u want to accelerate.
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You said it perfectly..i need to quiet my mind! I am trying to just focus on other things that have nothing to do with this situation, so I don't lose my momentum or my mind ;D


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