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Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« on: January 14, 2013, 05:32:32 PM »
Hello Everyone. Success story! I am back together with my ex. Here’s my story:  http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/getting-my-love-back-9834/30/
I know everyone has different ways of dealing and coping, but perhaps if I explain everything I went through, it may help even one other person.

So basically, I am so very happy that we had the breakup. I think if YOU are in a breakup and upset/sad/miserable because of it, YOU should be so very happy that you have this opportunity to heal yourself. I realized that, basically, we get crushed in the aftermath because during the relationship we always loved the other person MORE than we loved ourselves. Think about it, even if the relationship was bad you probably just tried to make it better, tried to get them to care more express more BE MORE than they wanted to be or were willing to be.  Did you ever stop and think, “what do I want? Does this person make me happy?” I never did. After the breakup I was a mess. I came online and found this forum and read every single thing I could to “get my ex back”. You all know.. How many times have you searched for the same thing online?  As I devoured everything I could get my hands on, I realized that I was lacking in self-love. I was so busy chasing others, I never asked myself what I wanted or does this person make me happy?

No contact was not easy as a pie but it wasn’t so difficult for me because I always loved him unselfishly. I mean to say, I really truly wanted him to be happy. Even if he didn’t want to be with me. So I kept sending him loving vibes etc. (I guess he really got all my RS! He said he dreamt of me every single night! Wow!)

As I read up on everything, as I watched every single Abraham Hicks on youtube, every single Bashar video, I moved further away from him spiritually and closer to myself. And it felt so good!!!! Finally, I was ready. I found myself! I said to myself, I don’t care if he comes back or not, I am so happy either way. And then voila he came back  Now, I am going slow, I am going to be the one deciding this time.  Everytime I get upset or sad or want more than he is willing to give, I am going to do EFT or Ho’oponopono or use switchwords. I am never going to give up my power again to anyone! And you shouldn’t either. The only person you are going to have with you forever and ever is yourself, so you need to get happy being by yourself as soon as possible. Just let go of resentments, of wanting to hold on tightly to everything. Just let things be.

In the last month, I read all the links below a million times. You should too, just in case one little sentence even helps you. Sometimes that is all it takes. I read every link in this forum on relationships. I watched every single video on youtube. I couldn’t really get into RS that much. I have problems meditating still. I started pilates but am doing it from dvd. I lit candles every night and just sent him love. I really connected with ho’oponopono and switchwords. I read up on everything that showed me self-love.

Please know that you can do it. It is a process. I tried to force it. I got upset with myself when I couldn’t just snap out of it. I thought about him all the time! But, I guess everything I read and listened to, made little dents inside of me, good dents, even though I didn’t realize it at the time. Dents that became full blown confidence and love for myself. So one day you wake up, and you are shining bright like a diamond. And you are so pleasantly surprised to see that you got through everything. And you have love for yourself, and your ex is back OR NOT but even if they are not you meet someone even better and you love them too, but YOU NEVER STOP LOVING YOURSELF THE MOST.

I hope this helps you, all of you, and please let me know I you have any questions at all !

Books:
Meetings with Remarkable People by Osho
Loving What Is by Byron Katie
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz


http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27987-Albuquerque-LIVE-March-10-2012%21/page12
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27780-Abe-quotes-about-the-Grid/page4
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28058-How-do-I-want-to-feel-about-this-BUILDING-MY-NEW-GRIDS/page2&highlight=relationship
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28897-Reaching-for-relief-in-a-relationship&daysprune=10
http://dancewithtruth.wordpress.com/tag/don-miguel-ruiz/
http://pathwaytohappiness.com/insights.htm
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?20829-Aligning-with-reunion-with-my-ex/page4&highlight=breakup
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/8017.html
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/11078.html
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/core-sadness-vs-wounded-sadness/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-you-dont-love-about-yourself-triggers-you/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-he-owe-you/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/#comments
http://tr.scribd.com/doc/92574680/How-I-Found-Freedom-in-an-Unfree-World
Ho'oponopono - Feel it!

Can I Attract A Specific Person with the Law of Attraction?

http://www.blueboard.com/tao/tao_20.htm
http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/psychic-paranormal/57266-gentle-way-requesting-most-benevolent-outcomes-4.html
http://www.trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/krishnamurti1.shtml
http://www.ichoosetoheal.com/downloads/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind.pdf
http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/intention-manifestation/51129-zero-limits-ho-oponopono-discussion.html#post678943
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9538-3.html
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9408-3.html
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?29094-Random-quotes/page3&highlight=quotes
http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/24XlL6/becrobbins.com/blog/top-10-reasons-emotional-pain-is-good/
http://lovesagame.com/no-contact-help-how-to-fight-the-urge-to-contact-your-ex/
http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P213.PDF
Bashar - 7 steps of manifestation

http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/getting-your-ex-lover-back
Deepak Chopra - Way of the Wizard

http://thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=19650
http://voices.yahoo.com/lighting-old-flame-law-attraction-1339187.html?cat=5
http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P103.PDF
http://www.theabundanceparadigm.com/fe/3476-the-clearing-video
http://www.mindreality.com/archive.html
http://www.ascensionhelp.com/higher-self-meditation.php
Tapping Through a Break Up - EFT with Brad Yates

Watch a Belief Disappear with Morty Lefkoe (1 of 5)

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/swith-words/
http://books.google.de/books?id=QWUA7d0_EBUC&pg=PA99&lpg=PA99&dq=switchwords+for+love&source=bl&ots=_I3fD0p2XJ&sig=h27hElyrmFdNW1okeL3OTYQe4ww&hl=de&sa=X&ei=bzZ3T7LTHNDIsgak9Z3RBA&ved=0CEoQ6AEwBQ#v=onepage&q=switchwords%20for%20love&f=false
http://www.lollie.com/romance/love5.html
http://www.conures.net/shinn/game7.shtml
hptt://www.tut.com


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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2013, 05:50:37 PM »
wow...dlovess
SO detailed post,sure of help..
Thanks and more than that Congrats not for getting him back but FINDING YOURSELF BACK..

I am happy for you and wish you all the very best !

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2013, 08:00:48 PM »
Really helpful and well written. I wish I could have written my story like you've done with yours! Also, the proccess you followed, involved self respect, wich is something really hard for some people. I think you've just done an exercise that healed you and is going to help other people. Hope you keep on doing the same. Thanks for taking the time to write this.

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2013, 08:07:59 PM »
Seriously, thank you soooo much for your post.
I've been having so many problems with my own self-esteem and been so down and depressed because of it.
Hopefully, I'll soon reach that stage of complete self-love and learn to be happy without the need of others.
:)
Thanks again and God bless!

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2013, 08:20:44 PM »
Don't ever give up! And don'T get frustrated because I really do think even though every LOA thing I have come across seems to be preaching the fact that "you can change in a second if you want to!" that isn't really the case because we are not that enlightened yet. Sometimes it takes a while for change. I mean we didn't get the way we are in just one night, so how can we expect ourselves to change. It just causes needless stress and anxiety. And then we feel like we aren't doing the processes right. I sure did.

Then one day I woke up and I realized wow I don't hurt inside anymore. I don't have that great big kanyon of sadness inside anymore. And it was so exhilarating!

And I KNOW you can do it. Everyone can. Just believe in yourself and take little tiny baby steps. And one day you will find yourself flying, not walking, flying!

with much love :) :-*

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2013, 09:24:06 PM »
Thank you for this encouraging post! I'm very happy for you!! :)

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2013, 11:40:15 PM »
Congratulations Dlovess :D! You have it all now, your guy, powerful knowledge of LoA and confidence/ total self love. I'm so happy for you!

I know what you mean about waking up and realizing it doesn't hurt anymore. I love reading success stories because from day one of the journey the person become this totally different character. Completely transformed into a stronger version.

Also thanks for the links I will watch some now :).

VICTORY!

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2013, 11:54:02 PM »
thank you for the post. the videos are amazing!! Congratulations!!!
Also, never heard to switchwords. will research more about this.

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #8 on: January 15, 2013, 01:18:52 AM »
Thank You, congratulations! ;)

I've got only a small question:

How long did it take him to come back to you after you let go? :)

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #9 on: January 15, 2013, 01:21:09 AM »
Congrats!! :) Happy that you began loving YOURSELF..... :)

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #10 on: January 15, 2013, 01:44:47 AM »
Wow... Such great news for a Monday morning... CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!

YOU GOT THE POWER GIRL... WISHING YOU A BLISSFUL LIFE AHEAD WITH YOUR MAN  :D :D :D

Thanks so much for the links and videos... Will check them out at home.. Do you have information on what switchwords you used?

LOVE & GOD BLESS,
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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #11 on: January 15, 2013, 12:42:49 PM »
Thanks for all your messages :)

@pantera Just that day I had decided that I didn't want him anymore. I changed his number in my phone to "You Deserve Better!!!" and I told my sister that I was so happy without him I didn't need him anymore.  And that night he called and came and we made up!  But when you know , you know because you stop thinking about them and where they are, what they are doing, are they missing you, etc etc.  So just keep working on yourself  :-*

@AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :)  - I just used one phrase and that was "REACHTOGETHERXXDIVINE"  xx being his name.  I would do ho'oponopono and then just keep repeating the switchwords.  Hope that helps :)

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« Reply #12 on: January 15, 2013, 12:59:30 PM »
Congratulations to you dear friend...[/b][/i]

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #13 on: January 15, 2013, 05:24:09 PM »
Congrats girl :) i m really happy that you got him back... currently i m even dealing with a breakup but due to ur post it is giving me more hope and also i ll check all the videos once i go back home... i ll be trying the LOA do give me sometips as i m new to this... thank you and i know that i have a feeling that he will come back to me  ;D

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Re: Success! How I got myself and my ex back :)
« Reply #14 on: January 15, 2013, 06:03:16 PM »
Thanks for the respond, I'm really happy for you :D I'm not attracting anyone specific right now. I was just very curious how fast things happen when you let go ;)

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