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Hey Guys....hello to All


I saw a nice topic started by beautifuldreamer here... This topic was something which i have been thinking of posting since a while...So, Thank U  for posting it....


Here's my doubt ....::::

Even before I came across LOA, i just had a general idea on how my partner should be.I met such kind of a guy.struggled as things cudnt work out.i tried to hold on as I loved and respected him a lot. I also had strong gut feeling that it will work out. as with time he fell in love with me.But marriage was a question mark.Till date I donno y?? Though he was in touch with all his Ex's, I thought once he thinks about commitment he will stop all of it..But last month he got married to someone..and he said it was decided by his family.... Fair enuf...All over ...

So its past....  just few months back I joined this forum....I had let go and I did.... was tuf but I'm proud I did..Thanks to some wonderful people here who helped me to understand things :)  I Lost and found myself back. Working all on MYSELF.. Made some new friends..Learnt lessons..Knowing men.. Attracted few random men, who kept saying good things about me..Even with them I learnt detachments.. Honestly,  I felt all good about myself more... :D like flattered with praises u know....  I still do think about him but like a post i saw here on forum today...
I'm not there yet...but i'm far ahead from where I was yesterday :)))))))

I am now ready to manifest new love. But I see frens saying me to compromise on my demands. Its not demands..Its my wish. I know it exists... they say i am demanding for a rich guy as my ex was rich. its not so.. its not richness or money. Cant i wish to get married to a guy seek who is financially secure??  Cant i wish for a good looking guy even if ppl think I am avg looking grl ?? (dats wat my relative say, I don't think so) .. IS having such desires called being too selfish and too demanding... I have seen my Ex was so close to what I always wanted in a partner... Yes, he was not loyal to me,he fell finally for fake beauty,he was more concerned about people's opinion... Which i need to make sure to be specific on wen i make my new partner list.....

Is it not that he being so close to my desire implies that something more better exists for me.. Better in all aspects I mean. I remember once my Ex told me this-- who will fall in love with you now at this age, better allow ur parents to find a decent one and get settled--- (I donno how serious he was wen he said this) I dont want it dat way. settle for some avg, coz society will have a problem if u stay single for too long being an Indian girl....

So, I need to rewrite my list ... All fresh and new..Need to manifest my soul mate who wishes for ME rather than me going in search :) ...Can you guys help me....So that I desire carefully to manifest HIM ...

Also, if I'm wrong in any of my thoughts, then please do correct me on what can I do... I'm here to learn...
I love my life and always want it to be beautiful... cant allow anyone to ruin it....

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Re: Ready to manifest :: Seek help to start and boost of confidence
« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2013, 08:45:09 PM »
I dont think your being demanding. I also think its perfectly normal you want a handsome guy. Who cares if others say your average. Your guy could think your beautiful and you should write that in your new list. And if you want a family finding a financially stable man is obviously just smart not demanding and no I dont think you have to have the same amount of money to attract him. He may want to be the main breadwinner and as long as you as a woman have the freedom to work if you desire or stay at home eventually if you desire, thats all that matters. Couples have various setups and I say whatever works for them. Make sure you include everything even that he's heterosexual or in a certain age group, location etc. The most important thing to include is how you want him to feel about you and that he wants to marry you and that its a mutual feeling.

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Re: Ready to manifest :: Seek help to start and boost of confidence
« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2013, 11:44:24 AM »
Thanks a lot for your reply Love is here....

This was a relief...Coz since few days this thought was not making me feel good about my choices in my future partner.
And yes u understood it..Its not a selfish demand. That's how I want it... I see that I m been told to compromise with men who don't sync with my thoughts, who are rich but too much materialistic, else not well educated.. Good looking but dumb at times.... Im not saying some one just falls flat on me in one look though.... but that one feel... dat let me go ahead and see kinda feeling.... This feel happened only once, which sadly failed.... But I want something like dat.....

And among all the men I met in past, I observed that everyone wanted me, liked me, flattered me.. but noone told they wanted me for all life......So guess it shud be easy for me to spot HIM.....
But in real terms I guess no one felt that for me...That feeling which comes from a guy as to no reason of being specific but he just likes the way I am. For a real me..Not a fake up or made up me...Wherein even before I feel or confess, I need HIM to feel it that he wants me for rest of my life..... This is definitely my first priority..... I just need to welcome that love...

Rest are those material things which are obvious for any person to seek in his/her partner. I am not even being too specific with money.its just a financially independent guy.... Coz I am pretty much independent then that's no wrong in expecting HIM to be bit more independent than me :)

And thank you for making it clear to me..... Would make sure on all specifications..May be add a special indicator, anything easily visible, to spot him easily as well.... :)

Also,I see many ppl visualize it, set dates.. I'm unable to think or visualize on how or what date I wish to see him..Somehow dates never worked out for me.it seems like work... So i'm not sure if I should do it...


Thanks a lot.... :)

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