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Once upon a time, Buddha meditated under a fig tree for forty-nine days straight without leaving his seat. He had an epiphany after his long spiritual journey making him the enlightened one. What brought everything together, to make it an epiphany, was his realization that it’s all self-perpetuating. All the puzzle pieces of all the riddles came together with that one realization. This is a golden rule to always keep in mind when deliberately attracting.

What does self-perpetuating mean? It means it’s all you. We live in a light universe, and in this light-universe, there is light and the reflections of light. The rest is a cold, dark void. Our third-dimensional reality is a silhouette of the higher dimensional realities. In our third-dimensional reality we see the light, but in higher dimensional realities we are the light. A mirror reflects light in the third dimension. The universe reflects your inner light in the fifth dimension and higher.

Life can be complicated because everything becomes complicated when we put filters in front of our light. As I see it, we all have a plethora of self-created filters in front of our light. Those filters are your third-dimensional beliefs. Those filters limit the brightness and projection of your true inner light. However, that is of no concern to the universe because the universe is incapable of having a concern. The universe is just a dark void of mirrors. Therefore, the universe is going to reflect exactly what you project. The universe is going to reflect you, back to you, at every level of who you are. This includes, but is not limited to the reflection of your self-created filters, which are your beliefs.

From a universal standpoint, you manifest what you believe and attract who you are. You manifest experiences when you interact with the elements you attract. The elements you attract consist of people, places, and things. Without elements, you can’t have an experience. The elements you attract are the result of the beliefs you have about yourself. Therefore, whichever way you choose to look at it, the least common denominator will always be your beliefs. Every limiting belief you have is another filter in front of your light which compromises its brightness.

Because we are engulfed in a dark void filled with reflective surfaces, everything you experience is going to be a reflection of yourself. This is because you are the only light In this dark void of mirrors known as the universe. My point is, you must be the light that you want to experience having shined upon you. You must believe you can have the experience before you can have the experience. You must believe you are capable of attracting the elements required to have the experience you desire before you can attract the required elements. You must belong to the experiences and the relationships before you can attain them. In other words, you must be the person who has it in order to get it. I realize I come across as self-contradicting so I'll try to explain as best I can.

When you're attracting, you are doing so from a specific point of reference. Your reference point is comprised of your attitude, your beliefs, your intentions, and your overall awareness to name a few. That said, your life as you know it will never be more exciting than you. If you are a total bore of a person who cannot see the excitement that is out there, then life is not going to hand you an exciting life without any effort on your behalf. Let's face it; if you are bored, then you're boring at this point in your life. I believe that everyone can feel a spark and be exciting, but bored people look about for stimulus instead of looking within themselves where the light shines.

Just like with excitement, life will never give you more love than you think you deserve. There can be plenty of love surrounding you, but you won't feel it if you don’t let it in. If you don't love yourself, you will never understand how someone can love you. Instead, you will believe that others are trying to manipulate you to get something from you until those are the only types you draw in because you see that in everyone. You will have a permanent wall between you and everyone else.

Life will never be satisfying and abundant until you can appreciate what you have. It takes a wise person to know when to rest and appreciate the rewards of his or her labor. If you would like to buy the latest gadgets, cars, and home decorations, then do it because that's the lifestyle you genuinely enjoy and not because you are trying to win a race with the rest of society. Remember, there will always be someone who will top you. Don't wait until you reach the age of seventy to figure this out. Don't find yourself looking back, only to ask yourself, “What was I doing all this time? I could have been enjoying life, but instead, I was too caught up in the competition."

You will never be happy in any relationship until you are happy with yourself. This includes all relationships from romantic, to work, to friendship, and to the ones you call family. To reiterate, when I say "happy with yourself,” I mean content and satisfied. This contentment must be of yourself as a person and your contribution as a whole to the world. Your purpose in life is what you contribute to society and how you contribute it. You must love your purpose and to love your purpose, you must have a purpose. Otherwise, you will slowly find yourself yearning for something different. All the new relationships, toys, and getaways you can pursue will never fill the empty void inside you.

Within your most authentic desires, the bliss is not so much in getting the experience as it is in being the person who is a part of the experience who balances with life in a way that leaves you wanting no more or less. The goal is to find that part of who you are. The way to begin this journey towards the right direction is to look within yourself for the truth. Don't be the person who looks outside himself or herself for the truth.

People who look about and away from themselves live with an empty void in their lives. What they don't realize is if they seek truths outside themselves then they will find truths that don't belong to them. The more they dive into truths outside themselves, the more they lose themselves in everything else. They genuinely believe that if they can figure out what the content people are using to their advantage, then they too can obtain the same benefits. If this is you, then you need to know that the only real truth is your truth. Only you have your awareness, while everyone else has theirs. Therefore, because this is the only awareness you could ever have, then the only truth you could ever know is the truth as it relates to you.

Your truth may not be the truth for anyone else in this entire world, but it is the truth because it is your truth. One way to understand the concept of a personal truth is to ask yourself, “Where does cold end and room temperature begin? Where does room temperature end and warm begin? Where does warm end and hot begin?” Everyone has their own personal reference points and preference points according to their body. Every one of us is right. Also, every one of us is wrong from another's point of view. This is the case with many issues and opinions in our society. There will never be one solid truth, so don't chase rainbows trying to figure it out. That said, it is in your best interests to find your own truth. Once you know your own truth, you will know the real truth because you will relate to the world from a stable reference point.

You must meet your desires halfway. To be the person who belongs to the experience you desire is to meet those desires halfway. In other words, to manifest any desire, you must first be willing to pay its price. That price can only be paid by you, through your expression, which is a result of your true inner attitude deriving from the core of your true inner beliefs. This doesn't mean you can't manifest or attract without self-modifications, but you take a chance of attracting what you have always attracted in the past. Therefore, self-modifications should be taken into consideration when you are pursuing a completely different experience than you have yet to explore.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

If any of us were asked if we know what we want we would most likely respond with a quick, “Yes I know what I want.” We think we want certain things because we believe they will lead to more desirable experiences that we would define as happiness. Unfortunately for us, if getting what we think we want won't result in the outcome we believe our wants will bring us then we won't attract what we want. Thinking like this or idealizing is a form of micromanaging and it is impossible to micromanage a force that is infinitely more aware than we are. By micromanaging, we limit the flow of possibilities. By limiting the possibilities, we place additional buffers between us and our desired outcome. That said, instead of focusing on all the fine details, you should instead focus on an overall outcome and only the main details of interest, then let the universe fill in the blanks. Focus on the experience and not how you think that experience will become your reality because you won't know until it happens.

To make a point, if you seek a nice car you should first focus on the experience you would like to have and then how a car could help you belong to that experience. What kind of relationship would you like to have with the experience you seek and what type of car would make that relationship possible? Essentially, you would only go as far as deciding on what that car would need to provide in order to fulfill the relationship you would like to have with the experience you seek. It's not about the car; it's about you and the experience. It’s about how you would like to fit into or belong to the experience. The car is merely a prop. You would only go as far as staying aware of the details that contribute to the parts of the experience that excites you, and the details that would make your relationship to that experience inevitable. These are the details that would link you to the experience and anchor you in.

Let’s say you want to race a car. If this is your case, you might stay focused on the wheels, tires, suspension, shocks, exhaust, and the minimum horsepower it must have to catch your attention. Basically, you would be more concerned with what is under the hood as opposed to someone who wants the experience of being able to take his family on long driving trips without dealing with his children’s impatience. In his case, he would be more focused on what's in the cabin of the car. He would want an entertainment system installed in the back so his children will remain entertained throughout the entire drive.

Keep in mind that you don't know what will be available on the market when you are ready to make a purchase. You may swear that you want a specific make and model, but every year new models from every make come out. For all you know, you will fall in love with a car from a make and model you never considered. For all you know, someone may have customized a car that is perfect for you, regardless of it being three years old. If it’s a car with low mileage and an extended warranty, then three years may not be a big deal for you. For all you know, the car that is perfect for you is already within your budget. You don't know, and you won't know until you are ready to make the purchase. The only thing you need to know is that you will find something you deem as perfect for you.

You wouldn't stop there either. Maybe you want to park that car in a garage, so it doesn't get worn by the elements or broken into. You might want a customized garage to service and maintain your new car. You might want to be part of an automobile club, or customize it and bring it to car shows. My point is, there is a lot more to the story than just driving a nice car down the street. There is a whole lifestyle behind the driver, and you need to know the story you wish to call your own. Therefore, just stick with the crucial details that appeal to you when you are deliberately attracting. Only focus on the few crucial details that must be present to fulfill an experience. Let the universe fill in the rest.

When the universe fills in the blanks, it will give you no more and no less than what that experience requires. For example, let's say you want to buy a home. You want a cozy home that has privacy and a nice view. You focus on attracting $200,000.00 because you know that amount will afford you what you are looking for. You find yourself going nowhere because the house that suits your intentions is only $110,000.00. Also, this house can be furnished and fixed up for another $20,000.00, leaving your attraction attempt to be $70,000.00 more than needed. Furthermore, you figured you would keep your car for a few more years and share it with your spouse until you save up more money for two new cars. If you were to have the extra $70,000.00, you could get two new cars, and they can be nice cars at that. Because the attraction of a newly furnished beautiful home and two new cars is out of your league of beliefs, you will not obtain the money and won't get the house, let alone the two new cars.

Why did this happen? It happened because you micromanaged. Your beliefs on what is true for you and what is actually true for you don't coincide. Ultimately, this creates a frustrating situation where you are spinning your wheels and getting nowhere. You would be better off believing what you want about the cars while staying focused on finding the right house that suits you. You wouldn’t focus on the money because when you buy the house, you don't want money to be an issue. Therefore, you wouldn’t make an issue of it upfront to avoid having the universe reflect those beliefs into your future experiences. This would allow the perfection of a higher awareness to take care of the rest perfectly. Therefore, in a perfect scenario where you deliberately attract and manifest in accordance with your beliefs, you would be able to obtain $110,000.00 and save up for the two new cars while making due with the furniture you currently own.

No one knows all the possibilities that lie beyond us. Therefore, it's ridiculous to micromanage a force we can't conceive. The moral of these explanations is you must only go as high as your beliefs will allow. $90,000.00 for new furniture and two new cars is chump-change to the universe, but it may be a world of difference to you. That world of a difference would create a conflict of truths which will stall your attempts.

I can't make any promises that you will manifest everything you pursue or that you will experience it all at the same time as planned. So for all practical purposes, your goal is to obtain the highest yield possible. This is achieved by only focusing on the experiences that interest or excite you while leaving the rest for the universe to decide on. The less you micromanage, the more possibilities the universe has to work with, allowing it to be drawn to you quicker than if you micromanage.

~Nicholas D'Arezzo~

There is a word of caution given when learning how to drive a motorcycle. There is a similar word of caution that is often announced when learning the laws of the universe, as they pertain to deliberate attraction. When learning how to drive a motorcycle safely, it is cautioned that where you put most of your attention is where the motorcycle will end up. Likewise, when learning how to deliberately attract, it is cautioned that where you put most of your attention is where your life will end up. Therefore, the first priority for staying in control is to keep your mind on your intended destination and stay focused on the road that will get you there.

Staying in control of your wandering thoughts is imperative because you are attracting as long as you are awake and conscious. As long as you are awake and conscious, you are aware of something. This awareness continues non-stop from the moment you wake up in the morning to the moment you drift off to sleep at night. As long as you are aware, you are processing thoughts. This, in turn, produces aether energy which then becomes your presence (your gravity) and your influence (personal magnetism). Therefore, as long as you are awake, you are producing aether energy.

This is very serious because the average person has fifty to seventy-thousand thoughts per day. When I say “thoughts,” I'm talking about all the processes taking place in the brain. For example, we have about ten thoughts per second when we walk. As we are walking, we are processing what our five senses are taking in. This includes our direction of walking, our motor abilities, and feedback from muscle stresses. Involuntary actions like eye-blinking and breathing are also taking place. The actual intellectual thoughts are what you need to pay attention to. Each one of your intellectual thoughts will influence your attraction-results because they are getting feedback from your core beliefs. This is a filtering process known as consideration.

From those fifty to seventy-thousand thoughts per day, you make somewhere around thirty-five-thousand decisions a day. The decisions you make are a reflection of your beliefs. Therefore, on average, you have at least thirty-five-thousand opportunities per day to get in touch with your true hard-wired beliefs and intentions. Your intentions are influenced by your considerations which then influence your decisive actions. These processes take place in a continuous loop. This loop is made up of your observations, then considerations, then intentions, then actions, then back to observations again. Your responses will be reactive if you haven’t updated your core beliefs, which influence your intentions. If you don't make modifications to your current beliefs or intentions, you will be running on a default autopilot. This autopilot is what most of us navigate with on a regular basis. This is not a bad or good thing. This is just an observation of cause-and-effect.

Every micro-decision you make is a micro-step towards a more desirable direction or a less desirable direction. We move very slowly in either direction when on autopilot. This is because, after all the decisions we have made in a day, we usually end up with a few dominant decisions in either direction. The rest of the decisions we made throughout the day have been canceled out by the others. For the record, a decision is made after a consideration is surfaced to become a thought in the conscious awareness. From there you can decide to feed those thoughts with your awareness or ignore them. A decision is always the effect of a thought which can cause new considerations and new intentions to continue in a specific direction.

Remaining in a default-autopilot lifestyle is like slowly rocking a boat that eventually gets out of control. Ultimately, drastic actions need to be taken when the rocking boat has been unattended and requires severe counterbalancing to stop the fierce rocking. Usually, by the time you are aware of the violent rocking, you are about to be thrown off. Therefore, it's just as important to know how to keep the boat in check as it is to be able to stop it from violently rocking.

I tried to find a study on how many of our auto-thoughts have opinions attached to them. I couldn't find one because it probably doesn't exist. However, it's not hard to get an idea. You can figure it out for yourself in a few minutes and get a good idea of what's going on in your head. This is because, when you navigate, you are constantly forming opinions according to your observations. Next time you are alone doing something, become aware of all the auto-thoughts you are having for a minute or two. After you are aware of the auto-thoughts that go through your head, listen to the thoughts and feel the emotions that follow the auto-thoughts. You will start to get to know yourself better. Hopefully, you like what you hear and feel.

I tried this out while walking in the back area of a building. As I walked through the yard, I noticed my surroundings. Immediately after glimpsing at the flower beds, my awareness was suddenly infused with a feeling of perplexity. I was perplexed that the caretaker of that property plugged plastic plants with the real ones because we live in a tropical-climate state. I then realized how dirty they were and how a well-intentioned attempt to create beauty, backfired. I then wondered why the caretaker didn't realize this and assumed this person is lazy.

Do you see what just happened within a split second? The thoughts weren't even worded thoughts because they came and went too fast for me to translate them into words, as my awareness jumped to the next observation. It was a mere observation that was immediately followed by awareness, then thoughts, then emotion. The words I wrote are an explanation of the emotions I had because the thoughts were gone as fast as they came. The thoughts most likely canceled each other out because I saw the good and the bad in the caretaker. Try it for yourself. It may shock you.

What might also shock you is the large number of opinions you are having in such a short period of time. If you face your opinions on an individual basis, your ego will give you a plausible explanation. However, your ego cannot kindly justify the enormous amounts of opinion-interrupts it is pumping into your head without exposing itself and its intentions. Therefore, your ego’s explanations must be muted while you do this because it will be justifying a mindset that may not be in your best interests. You merely need to listen to what is going on in your mind without looking for an explanation. Every observation you make becomes a consideration that is a thought, laced with opinions. Some form of emotion then follows these opinions. These simple observations easily become charged thoughts that will determine your future. Therefore, it is up to you to decide on how you wish to continue feeding these thoughts, if at all.

That said, if you wish to find out where your emotional state of mind is, then quiet your mind and feel the automatic opinions you are having. Once it becomes easy for you to be aware of your charged thoughts, you must then counter the negative ones with desirable thoughts based on desirable intentions. This, in turn, will modify your core beliefs. This is an excellent meditation practice that can be used anywhere at any time. It's an effective way to find yourself and understand why you are where you’re at.

Nicholas D'Arezzo

Law of Attraction Lounge / Strong-Arming Your Co-Creators
« on: March 07, 2020, 01:16:38 AM »
Nothing deep…….Just a few thoughts for grins and giggles…….

I'm going to tell you a little story of a time I was experimenting with attracting money. This was when I was beta-testing theories to see which ones work best and/or how they can stack on top of other theories. In this experiment, I learned a completely different, unexpected lesson. The lesson was about being good towards my co-creators, and not a power-vampire.

In this experiment, I used a simple method of deliberate-attraction which is to be aware of a few critical factors of what I'm looking for, then go out and find them. I like to think of this style of attracting like operating a radio. All the frequencies are there; you only need to tune into the frequency you desire to hear. By doing this, you are becoming opportunistic towards that which you seek by flipping through the stations to find a song you like. When your deliberate attraction is executed like this (where you know it's out there for you, and then you look for it), you are doing the same thing.

I will give a quick example that you can probably relate to of what it's like to be opportunistic. This example is to give dimension to my story. Once upon a time, the stand that held my small TV broke. It was a stand that allowed me to set the TV on a surface. Fortunately, the TV had brackets on the back of the TV to mount it on a wall. However, I wanted to set it on a shelf. I didn't want to mount it on the wall. The brackets gave me the option to create a new stand for the TV because I could mount the back of the TV on something that could sit on a surface. Suddenly, I looked for the mounting potential in everything I saw, and whether or not I can set it on a flat surface. Eventually, I found something that would work after observing the TV-stand potential of everything in my home and in the hardware store.

This is what it will be like for you during the times you will be in “seek and find” mode. Everything and everyone has a potential of some kind. You are looking to see who and what will fit your purpose.

There is a saying that states if you put one-thousand people in front of the same picture you're going to get one-thousand different stories. Every one of those people is looking at the same picture, but they're all coming from a different world, and they are all looking for different things, if at all. Remember, you can only acknowledge what you know and what you believe to be true. In our lifetime, we will miss a lot of opportunities that most of the time are right in front of us.

That being said, I wondered if I could find the money that might have been in front of me all this time. The money I failed to see because I wasn't looking for it, or didn't recognize it was there.

I decided to put my theory to the test and look for money. I started to look and expect. For example, if I went somewhere, I would see if I can find money that was dropped. It was an amazing success. I would find dollar bills stuck in bushes and coins almost everywhere I went. I even found a ten-dollar bill at the bottom of a puddle, outside a supermarket. Every day I would laugh throughout the day because I kept bumping into money, either on the ground or blowing somewhere through the air.

In the two weeks of my doing this experiment, I think I found about fifty-five dollars when my small streak of luck took a turn for the worse. Many little things started to break or would end up missing. I found myself having to spend money on many little nuances that, in the end, totaled somewhere in the ballpark of three-hundred dollars. Eventually, everything settled back to normal again. I was intrigued by what happened as it came across as instant karma. In the first two weeks, I was willing money into my life, and in the second two weeks, it was taken away from me. From beginning to end lasted a few days short of a month.

I will now explain what I did that resulted in a negative backlash. I manifested money that someone would have had to have dropped. Therefore, if someone is focused on their lack of abundance (where they unknowingly repel abundance), they will most likely lose some money if I will be crossing their path at a future date. My energy helped force those beliefs into reality by proving their lack of abundant beliefs can come true for them as they drop money they could have used for themselves. I focused on finding lost money, and another person was focused on their lack of financial abundance before our paths crossed. This, in turn, made them drop their money on the path I was destined to cross that day. In essence, I was an energy-vampire who was willing money away from less-fortunate people.

I received instant karma because my abundance relied on a co-creator’s hardship, and to some degree, I knew it. Sure, a few dollars isn’t going to make or break anyone. However, what made it a negative move on my behalf was I intentionally set forth to be at the receiving end of a win-lose interaction. If I were fully aware of the totality of what I was doing before I began and still moved forward with the plan to find money, then I would have been a bit slimy with my intentions. If money is transferred to me voluntarily, I would be in the clear. An example would be if I provided a service where it would be normal for me to receive a gratuity. Therefore, remember to keep your intentions pure. At least then, if you are doing something harmful, you will only receive a small slap on the wrist to help aim you in the right direction.

One more thing for those who may be slightly confused. You still cannot create in another person's reality without their consent. In the last case scenario, I had the consent of every person who dropped their money. Their belief in their lacking abundance was their consent. Their belief in their not having enough would have caused them to lose money or spend it foolishly regardless of whether I stepped into the picture or not. However, I still received repercussions because an adverse incident was required for me to benefit the way I did. Although not on a massive level, some form of hardship had to take place for me to make extra money. Also, at the time, I'm sure I crossed the paths of thousands of people every day, yet only found the losses of a few people on a daily basis. Therefore, I (or anyone) cannot strong-arm a person out of anything unless they already gave consent to lose what I set forth to obtain.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

Essentially, we are here to experience creating with co-creators. This is one of the main reasons why we are here. Before we came here, we made agreements with our co-creators to manifest specific experiences together so we can grow together. As individuals, we integrate with what and who we attract into our lives or are drawn to. From those connections we manifest an experience, and from those experiences we create memories with our co-creators. Essentially, we attract each other and create an experience together. Together we weave the threads of the relative and create an absolute. Our experiences in the relative become an absolute because once we have an experience, we can never be robbed of it. Third-dimensional experiences cannot be created in a higher realm. Therefore, the reason we are here is to create and have physical experiences with each other.

As a result of our purpose for being here, almost everything you do relies on a co-creator. I will take an educated guess and say that ninety-nine-percent of all your experiences will happen and can only be possible with the help of your co-creators. Even if you lived like a hermit inside your home and never left, you would quickly die without the help of your co-creators. Some people live like this today. They sit in front of a computer and/or TV all day. They have all the popular TV channels along with the fastest Internet speeds and remain happily alone and entertained every day. These people order their necessities and food online and ultimately, in due time, they rot away.

As much as these hermits condemn the outside world and the people they share this planet with, they cannot survive without the service of others. Firstly, they wouldn't have a computer and TV, let alone the entertainment that comes from the computer and TV. They would have no one to talk to online or play games with, online. There wouldn't even be a worldwide web. No one would deliver food from the supermarket because there wouldn't be a supermarket to provide the food, let alone a delivery person. They wouldn't have a dark closed-off house to hide inside because there wasn't a team of construction workers to build it for these people. I can keep going on to the point where we can count over one-hundred-thousand co-creators who have an immediate connection and contribution which allows these hermit-people to survive.

Point being, whatever life you may live, with whatever luxuries you may have, with whatever options you can choose from, all come from your co-creators. You will be intertwined throughout your life with many co-creators whose faces you will never see, and names you will never know.

Just like sound needs a medium to reach your ears, so does the universe need a medium to get to you. With that said, I want you to understand that you are in the relative living amongst co-creators in a third-dimensional, dense reality. Therefore, as long as this remains the case and as far as you should be concerned, your co-creators ARE the universe. You are dreaming if you think you can put your full direct trust in the universe and receive an immediate expedited delivery from the absolute without going through the channels of the relative. These channels are your co-creators, and only through them will your miracles occur. Without them, you would be a reference point amongst no others in a lower relative dimension that only works through a network of reference points. When deliberately attracting and manifesting, you are intentionally infusing yourself into the collective consciousness. Once inside the grid, for the purpose of your intentions, you can then gain momentum.

Because most of your experiences will come from your co-creators, it will do you no good to attempt to deliberately attract and manifest new experiences if you feel bitterness towards the people who will make it happen for you. Feeling bitterness will kill your chances before they have a chance to happen. Feeling any negativity towards your co-creators will put limitations on your intended outcomes. Remember that you attract who you are and manifest what you believe. Therefore, the quality of your manifested experiences will be tainted if you aren't resonating with the co-creators who are intertwined with that experience.

I would now like to bring to your attention the rest of the co-creators out there. Not your friends, or family, or intimate partners, or people who are close to you. I’m talking about everyone else. These people can be the people you see once and never again. They can be people of influence in your life, both good and bad, whose names and faces will never be revealed to you. They can be fly-by-night angels who are there to help you get out of a rut when you are in trouble. They can be merchants you buy products from. These are the so-called “outsiders” who are not part of your safe inner circle of friends, family, and partners.

A significant portion of your manifesting success will come from the temporary co-creators in your life. We are creatures who are genetically designed to live in packs. These packs function amongst each other in what we call society. Therefore, most of our visions for a better lifestyle are dependent on society to come to fruition. Because of this, our co-creators have a strong bearing on whether or not our desires will come to fruition, which means, you must have a genuine appreciation for ALL your co-creators if you wish to have optimal success in all your attraction and manifestation pursuits.

Here’s a final thought. All the people who influence your life (both knowingly and unknowingly) are mediums or chain reactions within a divine plan that is now in progress. In a higher evolved society where all is at their best and realize their gifts, talents, and personal power, they live in a very balanced synergy. Their give-and-take in life is to everyone’s advantage. All decisions are made for the well-being of the individual making the decision and the well-being of everyone else’s. Unfortunately, we don't live in a higher evolved society. In our society, we either recognize our power and use it or have someone else use it for us. Therefore, realize that if you are not aware of what your goals and desires are then there is no telling how all the co-creators around you relate to you. At least when you do know where you desire to be, then and only then can you know where you stand and appreciate everyone's purpose in your life, as valuable contributors, whilst you continue towards your desired outcome.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

TIP #1: Live beneath your means, so you always know you have more money than you need. By budgeting, so you will always have plenty left over, you will begin to see where you have abundance when you start obtaining liquid assets. This, in turn, will make the reality of having money your belief because it’s your truth. The universe will then mirror that belief and amplify it into your life. In other words, living beneath your means can help you obtain more money according to the law of attraction.

Put yourself in a place where you can say, “I can afford it, but I don't want to invest in it right now.” Choose a large bank account over the latest toy on the market. The more money you have put away, the more peace of mind you will have. Also, when you do spend money, you spend it knowing you have it. This beats using credit cards which can sabotage your ability to attract money because you are reminded (at least once a month) that you owe money you don't have. If you are going to use a credit card, use it because you don't want to carry cash. Only spend what you will be able to pay off in a month or two.

TIP #2: It is often said and more often proven that those who share their abundance gain more abundance. Personally, I have experienced many windfalls of abundance from this act alone but I didn't always have an abundance. That said, here’s a tip to help you gain abundance during your next attempts at manifesting a better way of living if you can’t share monetary abundance (because you don't have enough to give). 

I would like to begin by pointing out the accumulated stuff in your home. I'm talking about the items you haven't used in the last three years and cannot see yourself using in the next three. These items which you have little use for are powerful tools that can aid you in your journey towards living an abundant lifestyle. Unfortunately, they can also set you back.

Inanimate objects possess two things that can work against you. First of all, everything has a vibration to it, and that vibration may not work in your favor or your best interests. Some of the things you own will conflict with the vibrations you are drawing in. Therefore, those things will disappear one way or the other during your journey to better. If you have too many things that hold an opposing vibe, then your manifestation attempts will most likely put you in a position where you will have to make a tough decision. That decision will be to downsize if you want to move on to better.

Secondly, holding onto specific items may hinder you from moving on because somewhere in the back of your mind you think that one day you are going to do something with those items. By doing this, you risk putting the experiences you desire on hold, that you can be doing now, instead of staying stagnant with false expectations or hopes. This, of course, is all happening on a subconscious level. Watch a documentary on hoarders, and you'll understand where I'm coming from. These are people who collect and never throw things away because they think they're going to use these items someday. Many years down the road they find themselves trapped in all the stuff that was intended to bring more fulfillment into their lives.

That said, I suggest you do a major cleaning of your home or place where you dwell right before you start a new life plan. This is because when you start a new plan or project, you may find that the items you've never used or didn't think you'll ever use can have a new purpose in aiding you in your new pursuits. At this point, you can help the flow by rearranging your living space and re-assigning a new role for your belongings. This is an excellent time to either keep or rename all that you own. If you have no use for the item and can't think of how it would fit into your new lifestyle, then you should consider getting rid of it. 

You can give things away or sell them. Of course, throwing away things is an option but giving it to someone who will appreciate what you have will accelerate the flow of abundance in your life. Giving items to charity is good, but individually finding others who will genuinely enjoy that item will help your state of mind by helping you practice how to give. Just make sure to ask that person if they are interested before handing over something you think they would be interested in. 

Finding others who will cherish what you once cherished is a great way to begin your flow of abundance. This is because when you give in this way, you are verifying your thankfulness and appreciation for what you have. You are also being appreciative of your abundance when you give something to someone who can benefit from that item. An appreciative state of mind is imperative to obtain and have abundance. By starting your new journey with appreciation, you are likely to end up with what you will appreciate, and that gratitude is the beginning of a more abundant lifestyle. If it is a cherished item (like an inherited item), then you should keep it. I'm only suggesting that, at this point, you release the physical clutter in your life. Physical clutter will contribute to the inhibition of a smooth abundant flow.

TIP #3: Are you familiar with feng shui? I will give you a little secret if you are solely concerned with abundance as it pertains to money. Money is just a small part of being truly abundant, but if this is your primary concern, as of now, then throw the picture collage away and use feng shui. There is plenty of information on feng shui, and it has worked for me. Also, I hear nothing but positive stories about its results. You can even hire a consultant to come to your home for a consultation. Feng shui is about influencing your life by affecting the flow of energy in your home. If you do not wish to explore this path, then let me make one suggestion, and that is to protect the corners of your living space with plants, sea salt, energy-items, and the like. Without plants or other forms of positive energy in your home, the fluctuating energies of the world penetrate into your home, claiming whatever they want as they blast through your comfort zone. Energies and spirits enter and exit through the corners of your home. Whatever corner you can place a plant, I urge you to set a plant there and get the biggest one that will comfortably fit. Make sure it's by the windows and free of drafts. If you can manipulate the airflow from your central AC to avoid the window-lit corners, then you need to do it and put a plant there. Place orgone-generator pyramids or Himalayan-salt rock-lamps where there are no windows. All of these items are relatively inexpensive. If you are really in the scraps, then pour salt into the corners and make sure you are using real sea salt (that can be found in almost any supermarket). Don't use table salt; in fact, I suggest you don't even put table salt in your body. Table salt is sodium chloride, and your body is not able to process sodium-chloride efficiently. By putting any of these in all the corners of your home, you are creating an environment free of harmful or abrasive energies shooting through from outside. As for the orgone generators, I recommend getting the ones designed for success. Money is nothing more than a ball and chain if you aren't happy with how you attain it. Money is just one of the many factors of being successful in life.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

How to Use Law of Attraction / It's Not Always Bad Karma If Things Go Wrong
« on: February 09, 2020, 04:17:31 PM »
The intensity of your karmic repercussions depends on your intentions during your expressions and not so much the disaster you may have created. It is impossible to move through life and not create unwanted circumstances for others, no matter how pure your intentions are. Just because things go wrong doesn't mean karma's going to get you, and just because things went wrong for you doesn't mean it was the wrath of karma. If you had a quick mishap, maybe it was the only intercept that could have made you act. Perhaps it was just a kick in the but to motivate you. It's impossible to know this if you don't have any premeditated goals or intentions. However, If you do have a purpose and intent, you can identify what's happening.

Here is a personal example of manifestation kicking me in the rear through a big mishap because I never made a move. What seemed like a karmic backlash was a situation created to make me do what I knew I would eventually do; I just didn't know when. Anyway, the story goes like this. I started getting tired of paying over twenty dollars for a buzz-cut that took the stylist no more than four minutes to complete. I also would give four dollars in gratuity for my cut out of kindness. I had my hair cut by a professional twice a month which totaled six-hundred-dollars a year and 36 hours of my time. I knew I could do it myself, and I knew that I would do it one day. However, I kept putting it off due to the fear of messing it up beyond repair. I didn't want to look like I lost a bet from having to cut my hair really short to even out the mess I made. However, I still truly believed I would eventually do it myself. I even asked questions to the barbers and owned a professional electric shaver that was given to me.

To be brief, one day I was stung by a wasp right between the eyes. I was rushed to the emergency room because I had an allergic reaction and turned purple. The next two days my face looked like a swollen pimple. I had to call into work because my eyes were almost forced shut from my puffy cheeks. I was home-bound and too embarrassed to get my much-needed haircut because I looked like a monster. At that same moment, an AHA thought struck me. I realized that I couldn't get any uglier than I was, so for the first time, I slowly buzz-cut my hair. I had nothing but time, so I started high on the shaving attachments and gradually got the gist of it. I still looked like a monster for three days, but I was a well-groomed monster.

That is what I would call a law of manifestation kick-in-the-but because, like electricity, attraction and manifestation take the shortest path. If there's too much resistance in the more accessible routes, it will eventually find its way through the more complex scenarios. It's not always bad karma if things go wrong. Many times, it will be your lack of synchronicity. Your thoughts, beliefs, intentions, and actions have to be on the same wavelength or else, in your path towards change, there will be a conflict of interests materializing before you. Therefore, always keep your previous intentions and beliefs fresh in your mind so when things go awry, you will have a better understanding of why it happened.

Let's say a high school graduate wants to join a specific college because she genuinely believes it's the best one for her. From day one she is met with resistance. Her request letter gets lost in the mail, so she decides to drive to the office and hand it in after her day-job. She is met with heavy traffic on the way over and doesn't make it on time because the office closed earlier than usual that day. She decides to go back the next day, but the person she needs to talk to is home with the flu. Against her better judgment, she drops off the letter which again gets lost in the shuffle of paperwork. She makes an appointment after discovering the letter was lost again. On the day of the scheduled appointment, she reaches for her outfit of choice and finds that it became the cat’s new scratch-post of choice. That was the best professional outfit she had. Luckily, no other outfit was touched, so she settled for second best. She finally makes it to the office and finally gets to talk to the right person. Unfortunately, this ends up being two months after she sent the first letter, and sadly enough she is turned down because (in the eyes of the recruiter) her eagerness was sub-par to all the other applicants who applied much earlier than her. Although dismayed, she was relieved when the school of her second choice accepted her application within the first week. Unbeknownst to her, this happened because the second school of choice is the school that best matches her beliefs.

In your journeys, your hardships will either be due to your karma, your beliefs, your default manifestations, your default attractions, your truth, your destiny, or a combination of the six. In the graduate’s case, it was all six. The truth is, the first school of choice won't be what she believes it will be. It may be what she desires, but if she doesn't believe it, she won't get it. Also, she could have been imagining how great it will be when the reality of the matter or the truth is, she would be disappointed. A successful attraction happened immediately and was right in front of her the entire time. The school that matches her beliefs was ready to take her during her entire ordeal with the other school. karma struck because she borrowed a friend's outfit a while back and when it got too hot, she placed the jacket down and left it behind. The jacket was part of her friend's best outfit but just like the cat, in the name of comfort, she ended up ruining a full outfit. Just like the cat, she couldn't replace it, and just like the cat she forgot about it shortly after. Like her friend, she had many other outfits, and like her friend she moved on to other clothing selections and got over it fast. Next would be her destiny because she met her future husband in the school that was her second choice. Years later, as she looks back and reminisces, she can appreciate the overall manifested experience she had and how it all began.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

How to Use Law of Attraction / Are You In Sync With What You Seek?
« on: February 01, 2020, 03:40:39 PM »
I will explain how to be in sync with what you seek by showing you a common scenario of two people who are out of sync with what they seek. Here is a “lack of synchronicity” scenario that caused two people to be repelled away from what they thought they wanted.

A violent repelling of wants by Truth is typically what's taking place when a couple tries to buy a house they think is perfect for them, but can't get it. Unfortunately, they fall in love with a house that seems to be inexplicably forbidden to them. It commonly begins when the two of them believe they are going to be so happy living in this house because it has everything they think will make their lives so much better. They believe this to their core and are emotionally charged about the possibilities of a bright future, living in this house.

It could be true that this house would make their lives a lot better, but they moved forward while idealizing. They idealized by believing the house would make their lives more better than it could. This frame of mind is one of the ultimate killers of a successful deliberate attraction. Because they idealized, no matter how hard they try, they cannot seem to close the deal on the house.

Little things come up like failed inspections and appraisal issues. There was also a problem finding the person who owns the house, who they need to get a hold of, so she can sign a document that is missing her signature. This missing signature caused the banks to stall on a loan approval. No matter what they do, they cannot seem to get this house. They finally give up when they discover prior liens against the house, which make it unsalable until those liens clear. They gave up because they don’t have the time to wait for the issues to clear. This is an unfortunate scenario because that house would have made their lives better, but not as much as they anticipated.

This ended up being the case because there was no intentional focus on their behalf, beforehand. Instead of being overtaken by the dream of an experience then have the house fit into that dream, they were overtaken by a house and imagined all the scenarios they could have in that house. Basically, they put the cart before the horse. They were overtaken by the essence of an inanimate object instead of having the inanimate object fit into the essence of their attraction-requirements, for the specific experiences they seek. They needed to have the intentions FIRST then the expectations. After they have intentions and expectations, they can then act on, or give motion to those intentions and expectations.

If they had intentions first, they more than likely would never have been drawn to that house, but instead, would have been drawn to the right house as a result of their magnetic resonance. However, this wasn't the case. They had the order wrong. They had it backward. They started with the motion by leaving their home before putting much thought into their intentions. After they left their home, they had expectations to find some beautiful houses. When they explored the beautiful houses, they brainstormed all the possible intentions that could come to fruition in each house. When they found a beautiful house with an attractive set of uses, they envisioned what the lifestyle would be like for the people living in that house. After that, they attempted to stuff, mold, and stretch themselves to fit into that lifestyle in their thoughts and imagination. This, in turn, put them out of touch with their truth.

They jumbled up the order, even more, when they believed and expected their lives would be a certain way in that house. They then intended to bring those beliefs and expectations to fruition by putting in motion an effort to buy. The energy they put into bringing their false beliefs to fruition were directly proportional to the counter-energy they were dealing with, from the truth stopping them. In other words, the more they tried, the more they were met with resistance. Remember that Intentions are very powerful. Because of this, you need to have intentions first, or you will give yourself a migraine. By having intentions first, all your energy is spent productively.

Just like the couple, you should still be prepared to go all the way in all your pursuits and believe the best of everything (that you found the prize) so to get it right the first time or be immediately redirected. You should use Truth to guide you when searching while using an “all or nothing” mindset. However, you shouldn't micromanage the universe by relentlessly pursuing what you “think” will make you happier. By staying focused on the experience you desire and letting what can be, be, you will be in a better place before you know it. The trick is, you must always be ready to walk away. You should never have a point of no return. The moment there is any friction, you should turn around and walk away with confidence that it is not what you are seeking.

This scenario of a couple failing to close on a house is neither negative nor positive. Much like Truth, this scenario is what it is. It may feel different for this couple because they decided to fight Truth and by doing this, they eventually felt the pain of fighting an impenetrable force. Truth is like a huge tree. It just stands there and exists. If you decide to punch the tree and fight the tree, you will hurt yourself. Therefore, just like the tree, if Truth stands in your way, then walk in a different direction or around it. The moral of this explanation is, if you keep your eyes on the desired experience than anything that happens will be for the best.

Let's take the same couple and put them in a different scenario where they didn't idealize. They intended first, then put into action those intentions by moving while expecting. They found a seemingly perfect home and loved the home for what it truly was. They genuinely knew they “could” be happy in it because all of the deal-making elements were there. However, what they didn't realize is that the house had a lot of issues. The house had severe water damage and mold that was hidden from plain view. This water damage is what made the gnarled wood attractive to the termites that infest the house. Also, the neighbor is a creepy man who likes to stalk redheads, and it just so happens that the wife is the exact type of redhead he is obsessed with. If all goes well, they will attempt to buy the house, and because of their intentional expectations, they will not get it.

That said, pursuing a new experience, intentionally, will save yourself a lot of time and a lot of grief. Stay aware, so you will know when things are getting too complicated,and you are being stopped. When things were meant to be, they are drawn towards you effortlessly. When you are in congruence with what you're looking for, all matters will run smoothly. It will almost feel like you have manifested effortlessly because everything around you is working in your favor. That said, it would be in your best interests to decide on specific intentions, and expectations (i.e. dealmakers and deal-breakers) then swear by them so you either get it fast or get repelled by it immediately. Go with the flow, but only when you have set intentions.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

Most of the dreams and fantasies you have revolve around you being the person who belongs to them. Most of the excitement is in you being the person who experiences these fantasies in a specific way as a particular individual. In your fantasies, when you daydream, you usually play a part or role in the fantasy. In your part or character's role, you are a specific type of person who looks, dresses and acts in a particular way. Essentially, the best part of the fantasy is where you are the individual who the fantasy belongs to. To reiterate what I’m suggesting, if you fantasize about winning an Emmy award for best actor, you will receive that award as the great actor you would have to be. You wouldn't walk up to the podium seeing yourself as an accountant for a small firm.

A strong influencer that will make or break your attraction-success is your personal beliefs about yourself. Your beliefs dictate your final results because your beliefs become your truth. If you don't believe you can belong to the lifestyle or experience you desire, then you need to find that person within you (the part of you) who could belong to it because the beliefs you have of yourself can be a game-changer. Therefore, your self-beliefs are very important when attempting to deliberately manifest and should always be a top priority. Otherwise, if you think you should make self-improvements and don't, then your results will be tainted by the limiting beliefs you have of yourself. These are learned beliefs that need to be removed.

Unfortunately, we can't just change our beliefs overnight or remove harmful, learned beliefs. However, we can make the correct changes to ourselves that will allow new circumstances in, which will create a more solid confidence. The culmination of your new confidence and new experiences will birth new and beneficial beliefs. This, in turn, will place you at a higher starting point during your next attempt to deliberately manifest. Therefore, sometimes attempting to obtain the ultimate prize isn't an option. That said, stay aware of the beliefs you have about yourself when deliberately manifesting. As long as you diligently work towards having beneficial beliefs, you will eventually get closer to the ultimate goal-point.

Let's say you fantasize about being someone who turns heads at the beach with your perfect summer-body only to have self-doubt and confusion ruin it. You may suddenly experience past issues that make you feel negative emotions. Perhaps you become scared of the thought of too much attention as that brought on many bad experiences in your past. Maybe you need to strengthen your interpersonal skills because the extra weight is protection against being singled out. Only you will know because your subconscious will let you know. An inner struggle is taking place because most of the fantasy is what you have to offer it. Therefore, to bring that fantasy to fruition, you first need to feel comfortable with having a perfect body, let alone, have one. After that, you have to get the right swimsuits; then you have to find the active beaches. Once this is all done, you can go out and experience your fantasy. We are in the relative and because of this, we need to meet our miracles halfway. Your subconscious knows this and is bringing you doubt because you need to address a few things before you can run off to a beach and show off.

Therefore, a good indicator that an area needs to be worked on is if you find yourself tormented by negative inner-voices that point in a specific area's direction while thinking of your desires. These seemingly counterproductive thoughts are the hurdles you need to overcome before pursuing more desirable experiences. If the state of being you are currently in doesn't match the state of being you wish to be in, during the experience you seek, then you should make modifications. Find where the resistance is and write it down, then work on it. Let your intuition be your guide.

To sum it up, if there is something you think you need to do for yourself that would have a direct influence on the outcome of the experience you desire, then start with that. Try finding the modification(s) that, if achieved, will make the birth of the experience you seek the inevitable next step. Doing this will help simplify your goals which will help you find a comfortable starting point. That being said, what are the improvements you would like to make? Do you want to quit smoking or lose weight? Do you wish to improve your social skills? Usually, the necessary changes would be the ones that boost your confidence which is essential if you want to be a part of a better experience. You want to belong to it and let it belong to you before you attempt to draw it in.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

Is there someone you can’t stand? Wanna get rid of them? Well then look no further because I know of a fun contract-destroying exercise. In this exercise, you get to breach an interpersonal contract, all the while loving every minute of it. The way to do this is to raise your vibrations.

First of all, the reason you are in a rut is when you first met this person you either did not show this person any love or you flat-out did not like this person at all. Simultaneously, this person also didn’t express or feel any love for you or express any positive energy towards you, whatsoever. It might have been more subtle where you were minding your own business and ended up being a target.

Whatever the circumstances are, the two of you have a vibe clash. The cause can be transparent or something on a deep subconscious level. Regardless of your case, you still had something to do with this bond. If you showed love or expressed positive energies, and that person accepted it, you would have bonded in a positive way. However, if you projected positive energy on a deep level and that person chose not to accept it, then you both would have repelled.

Firstly, you need to realize that action alone “or being nice” isn't the recipe for being an admirable individual. The recipe is to have a genuine affinity for other people while having a genuine affinity for yourself as well. When you show a genuine affinity for another person, they will feel it and know it. When this affinity for yourself and others is your truth, and you feel it, others will feel it too and feel comfortable in your presence. It must come from the heart, not from the brain or from the norm of what you should do and what should make you get along with others.

Anyway, let's go back to that relationship where the two of you hate each other. You both do not express any love for each other and because of this, you are both engaged in a very unpleasant relationship, contract bond. That said, here is how to get out. I want you to get out a piece of paper. Next, you are to write all the things you like about that person. I am aware that pouring sand in your eyes seems like a more pleasant experience than this. However, it is imperative that you understand this so you don't make this mistake again.

You are to think of this person and try to locate as many similarities as you can. You are to look for similarities that make you both attractive and strong. You should also seek admirable qualities in this person you wish you could improve on. After that, find the similarities in both of you that need work and aren't so attractive. Don't only find what's unattractive in that person because that's what got you into this mess. Only find the unattractive traits that you know for a fact you both have. You will more than likely find alpha traits in that person you also have. You more than likely will find things you don't like about yourself that the other person most likely dislikes in his or herself too. However, that's not of your concern.

((Your primary concern is to find all the things that make you two alike, both good and bad.))

Stay more focused on the good traits, but stay aware of the dark side in the two of you that are similar. Become aware that the two of you struggle with the same issues as a result of your dark sides and as a result of living in this world. General things like the similarities in age, nationality, and profession should also be included. The way to overcome blockages (if you are struggling with this) is to think of that person sitting with you on your couch in your living room. After that, think of yourself in their living room, sitting on their couch. You will have to be imaginative when imagining their living room as I'm sure the two of you never socially bonded on this level. After you can do that and be comfortable, you can begin your list.

I would like to emphasize that I'm not suggesting you force yourself to be kind to this person or do much different than you have been doing unless what you are doing is mean or negatively aggressive. The only thing I'm asking you to do is recognize that person’s exceptional qualities and what makes you two alike, then feel it. That is all you have to do. The word “tolerate” doesn't exist in the world of deliberate manifestation. Tolerating means you're going to put up with it, and you're going to suffer in silence. Tolerating nonsense is not what I'm suggesting you put yourself through. I am suggesting you stay focused on the good traits and similarities. There is no need to change a thing. Deal with this person as usual, but with your new state of mind. Read your list until you can feel that bond whenever you think of this person.

Keep reading your notes until every time you think of that person you recognize and feel their great qualities and how similar the two of you are. An amazing thing will happen if you do this correctly. That person will disappear out of your life in a way that you no longer interact with him or her. In rare cases, you might get along with that person, but that's usually not the case because that person typically won't be willing to see the better side of you. Love being the universal winner will cause that person to move away from you. In some cases, you might find yourself moving up to a better area, or a better position, or a better situation that is away from that person.

Keep in mind that after you start this exercise you may notice you act differently around this person. You may notice you respond to this person or speak to this person differently. You may also notice that you are suddenly able to avoid this person effortlessly. By doing this contract-breach focus, you will alter your magnetic field and ultimately alter their existence in your life. I have done this with great success, and if you do this correctly you will experience less weight on your shoulders. Make sure to make this a habit with the new people in your life so you will move forward agreeing to pleasant contracts. Otherwise, you will end up attracting the same person with a different name.

As a side note, if your view of others is bad, then you are pushing away a lot of potentially fulfilling relationships. This is because the people who you see the bad in sees the good in themselves and you. These people refuse to see it any other way, and for that, you will repel them. In other words, these rules go both ways. For the sake of your well-being, choose the side of unity. The ride in life will be a lot smoother. If you don't have a favorable view towards others and believe that the people you're going to be around will annoy you, then you are going to attract others with that same belief.

On a final note, you would be surprised how you physically change in the eyes of others when your attitude changes. Your opinions and beliefs about yourself and others are felt and sensed by others. Let's say you're wearing a white shirt and you spill a drop of mustard on it, during lunch. The more you think about it, the more everyone else is going to notice it. It's a very similar concept. What you focus on, concerning yourself, is what others see in you. If the other person has the mustard stain and you stay focused on it, then that person won't feel comfortable around you and will avoid you. Your attention plays a considerable role in your relationships with others as well as the maintaining of your contracts.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

I remember when I was in my early twenties, standing in a supermarket in front of the refrigerated-drink section. I came from an interview that didn't go well, and I was a bit bummed out because it would have paid well. I was staring at the drinks but wasn't there mentally. It was “lights on nobody home,” so to say when a distributor approached me and asked me if he can help me find something. I said, “No thank you.” I then picked something and left. Halfway to my car, in the parking lot, a premonition slapped me in the face and said, “The right answer was yes you can help me. You can help me get the job you are doing.” I don't know what distributors are paid today, but back in the day, they did very well. Also, he was an employee of a well-known beer distribution company.

The moral of this story is you must always be ready and always be looking. This is done by staying intentional and in the now. Had I remained focused on my intentions to find a job that pays well, along with my intentional role of being an excellent choice for hire, I would've asked the distributor that question at the blink of an eye. It would have been automatic. I was already moving; I just needed to be able to know when to intercept or know when I was being intercepted. Unfortunately for me, I didn't.

As you move through the day, you must remain within your intentions when interacting with anyone or anything. Keep your intentions in mind for everything you do. Look for the doorways everywhere you go. Make sure your intentions are always in check, so you are always prepared. Make sure you are always ready and always expecting, so you are in the moment.

Here is another thought. There is a saying that goes, “leave your problems at the door.” When I had the dreadful experience of promoting penny stock, the boss would say this several times a week. What this means is if you left for work right after an argument with your spouse, you need to remember that when you walk through the door of the building you are a promoter. If you remain an irritated spouse during work, you will waste the day. You must remember to update your role as the shifts take place into new segments of your day.

What this means for you is during your endeavors you will have to hit your “refresh button” many times throughout the day. Just like movies and plays have scenes, so do you throughout the day. The difference is that, on average, you have more scenes that are much shorter than that of a movie or play. Every time you enter a new scene or segment, you must reevaluate your role. You must evaluate whether you want to remain in the role you are in at the moment or shift to a different one.

Let's say you are going to a store to buy something. Scene one would be your driving into the parking lot to find a space. Scene two would be you getting out of your car and making sure it's secured. Scene three would be you walking through the parking lot towards the store. Scene four would be you entering the store. Scene five would be you looking for the item you came for. Scene six would be when you find the item. Scene seven would be you walking towards the cashier to pay for the item, and I will stop there because I think you get the idea.

Every time you begin to move through a new scene or moment you must hit the refresh button and acknowledge the most appropriate role that will suit your overall intentions according to the new scene you are in. It's tedious at first, but as you keep consciously practicing, it will become second nature to you. There is a unique essence or feeling you should get from each of your roles. Remember to focus on the feeling and essence they spark up so every time you reach a new scene you merely need to revisit the emotion. This will be more instant and effective than mentally voicing words all day long. Reviewing a list of titles for your intentional roles while feeling the essence of each title will help you access the feeling quickly. Transitioning between titles will also be swift.

Always be in real-time. Stay away from your mind and your daydreams when you are in “ready mode.” Stay away from yesterday and tomorrow, and get back to your senses right here, right now. The more intentional you are, and the more ready you are, the more natural and quicker your transition will be. Even when you are alone and want to tune everything out and relax, be your role in “relaxed-mode.” Who you are when no one is looking is the defining factor of your true character and ultimately your destiny. As long as you are conscious, you are manifesting. Who you are when no one is around also determines who and what you are going to attract into your life.

Trillions of things are happening every second on this planet. Even when you are alone, you are still influencing unseen events with your gravitational presence in this universe. Therefore, it is best to always be the role and state of mind that belongs to the life you desire because there is constant movement and change happening around you at all times. By staying in your role and the moment, you allow whatever opportunity that is around the corner to come into your reality and join you to have an experience with you. Staying in your role and intentions at all times (Even when you are alone) contributes to the manifestation of your choice. Right now, you are resonating with the universe, and right now there are many shifts and setups taking place to balance with your resonance. As long as you are conscious, you are creating your tomorrow.

Stay open to all options and avoid being selective when you are in pursuit. Do not only be your desired role when you think you are in more promising circumstances according to your limited awareness of all possibilities. You do not know how it will come to you, or when, and will always be a bit surprised when your attractions come through. Therefore, by knowing this, it makes sense to always be on guard and ready to interject or be interjected.

Let your walls down and intentionally flow with reality. Attempting to hide behind a “proverbial wall” while selectively interacting with who you think is a good prospect, is ineffective. This is because you will only know who the real prospects are by letting everyone in your space for evaluation. If you hide behind a wall and interject selectively, you will grow bored as the many opportunities continue to pass by.

You must tell the universe what you want to experience and let the universe take care of the rest. The universe works efficiently when you fully allow the energies to flow into your life. If you are a moderator of the flow, then you are placing restrictions on the possibilities and sabotaging your opportunities. If you choose to micromanage, then you will end up in a stagnant place.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

Affirmation Journal / Do You Have Motivational-Speech Syndrome?
« on: December 29, 2019, 05:00:32 PM »
Doubt sometimes hits us shortly after we feel very motivated to do something and begin a new journey. I like to call this "motivational-speech syndrome." To be brief, most of us have heard a stellar motivational speech, which after hearing, was ready to take on the world. Shortly afterward, we felt worse than we did before we listened to that motivational speech.

I will speculate and say that maybe you began to work on your awesome new life while following the suggestions of whoever conducted the seminar. A few days later, doubt started to sink into your head and you felt intimidated by life. You looked around and took in the entire world, noticing how small you feel. You wondered how you could ever make an impact big enough to create a significant difference in your own life. That said, always bite off what you can chew. Keep the steps small enough for you to be able to take, yet big enough to keep you excited.

The more diligent you are in implementing the small steps or the little things, the sooner you will look back and realize how far you have gone. Think of it like cleaning a house and finishing choirs. You have to vacuum and mop the floors. You have to dust the furniture. You have to clean the windows and organize the garage. You have to do the laundry and fold the clothes. You have to wash the dishes that are piled up in the sink. You have to organize a few messy rooms. After that, you have to mow the lawn, trim the bushes, and power-wash the driveway. If you were to think of doing all of that at once, you would probably have to take a seat because you would feel overwhelmed. However, if you wrote it all down as a list and tackled one thing at a time, you would most likely get it all done within a day. You would be done before you knew it because you paced yourself.

During your attempts to deliberately manifest, a brief moment of feeling overwhelmed is enough to cut the flow of energy and set you back a bit. To avoid being overwhelmed, it is enough to tell yourself to do something every day, no matter how small it may seem. Doing this alone will make dramatic improvements in your life, within a year. I remember I made a New Year's resolution to spend the entire first month of that year perfecting a daily plan to use for the rest of the year. I followed my plan religiously, and not only was the rest of that year productive, but the following two years after that were productive as well. Duration is far more effective than scattered spurts of high intensity when undergoing a transition. Like the tale of the tortoise and the hare racing each other, you must be like the tortoise who was paced and diligent towards the finish line.

Personally, I like listening to motivational speakers and if you also like a motivational speech then here's my suggestion to you. The common mistake people make when listening to a motivational speech is they listen to it once then go out and try to take on the world. My suggestion is to get ten or more seminars on audio and listen to them for an hour a day. Let's say you have ten seminars that are three hours long, each. If you listen to an hour a day, then by the time the month is up you will have listened to them all. You can get more seminars or you can listen to them again for another month. Motivational seminars and motivational speeches are effective when you continuously listen to them. This is why I make sure to listen to affirmations once a day. The negative voices will always find a way back into your head if you don't continuously practice thinking positive. Just like everything else in life, your mindset is either moving you in a positive direction or slowly sinking you into a less desirable state of mind and direction. You are either going up or down. There are no plateaus. Let's face the facts, this world is a negative place and it's too easy to sink into a dark place, mentally. You will draw yourself closer to where your attention is, and that focus is based on your awareness. If you are where you don't want to be in life, and you remain aware of it, then you are going to stay there.

The famous phrase said by an American dramatist named Clare Boothe Luce is, “No good deed goes unpunished," and it is a phrase that everyone can relate to. In a nutshell, it means it’s not uncommon to do something kind or thoughtful for someone without suffering adverse consequences of any magnitude, which includes being taken advantage of.

When we go out of our way to do a good deed, sometimes we give with the intention of receiving a reward from a higher power or from the person we did the good deed for. The problem with giving while in this state of mind is you cancel out the purpose of doing a kind act. Remember, our universe is just a group of mirrors. You can't manipulate a mirror; you can only make changes to yourself if you want your reflection to change. Just like you can't manipulate a mirror, you will never be able to manipulate the universe. Even if you were to lie to yourself, you would receive a reflection that would deceive you and eventually put you in an undesirable position. This means if you give with the intention to gain a return, you will only attract someone who will do the same by trying to take a mile after you gave an inch. Fortunately, there is a way to do good for others that will show returns, but it's a bit of a dichotomy because you aren't supposed to do it for the payback. Instead of looking good to your co-creators, you want to look good for yourself and the universal mirrors.

The way to properly give is first to appreciate what you have to give and appreciate that you have it. Whatever it may be that you give, you should give it while feeling grateful that you are able to give, because you have plenty. By giving with this state of mind you give with pure intentions and are able to forget about it because you aren't looking for anything in return.

Let's say you have a good friend who needs financial help. Maybe he is behind on an electric bill, and if he doesn't pay what he owes, his electricity will be cut off. Let's also say you have plenty of money and you can help your friend. If you were to give the money to your friend, you wouldn't miss it. Of course, you appreciate having money and you work hard for the money you earn as money doesn't grow on trees. You give the money to your friend knowing you have it. If you did it right, you would know what it is to have plenty, make a difference, and be genuinely grateful for your well-being. Instead of seeking the gratitude of your friend, you would be too busy feeling gratitude for your abundance. At first, It will feel strange to help someone then sincerely thank a higher power for being able to do it.

If your mindset is in a place where you acknowledge you have it, and you give it to a respectable source who truly needs it and isn't taking advantage of you, then you can give thanks for having it and move on with your life of abundance. However, let's say you do a good deed just to do a good deed. Let's say you do it for a “thank you” or positive acknowledgment. You do it because you want someone to acknowledge your good side and you want to feel special. You want to prove to yourself you are a good person by seeking out the cheerful reciprocation of a thankful human being. You do it because you're acting out a role and want someone to play the part where he or she says you are terrific or whatever warm fuzzy word comes to mind. Maybe you feel guilty and want to make it up to a higher good. Maybe you want to be able to tell others what great things you did for your fellow humankind. Do you see where I'm going with this? If Truth were an entity and you wanted to get the instant, undivided attention of this entity, then this is what you need to do because these scenarios are like the smell of sex to Truth. Do a good deed with alternative intentions, other than to be genuinely kind, and the wrath of Truth will be drawn to you faster than a fly is drawn to poop. Simply put, the wrath of Truth upon you is the result of your insincerity. When we are insincere, our beliefs, intentions, actions, and expectations are out of balance.

As human beings, when we do something for someone, we would like to be recognized and thanked for doing it. This recognition would require that the person you're doing a good deed for understands you're doing a good deed for that person. There is a rule about believing in something while you're doing it. If it is not true, the more you try to convince yourself, the more whiplash you get. This whiplash is usually what happens when you do a good deed solely for the sake of doing a good deed because you did it for a gesture of gratitude (which counteracts the purpose of doing the “good deed”). You expected a gesture of gratitude because you believed you were helping out this person, which may not be the case. This person might find your assistance to be intrusive.

On a similar note, if that person is supposed to be in a predicament and you are trying to help get that person out for the sake of being a hero, you may be interfering with a lesson or experience that person needs to learn. What I'm trying to say is, you might be doing someone a disservice. Furthermore, if that person needs to have a specific experience or lesson to learn and you are taking that away, then you will get the whiplash for it. In other words, you will accrue negative karma and will have to endure an experience to understand that some people need to be left to their own devices.

If your intentions are pure and the good deed makes a disaster, you will be exempt from the crucifixion you would receive if the good deed were laced with your ego. Here's a simple rule of thumb to live by concerning generosity. If it would bother you to move on knowing you did not help, or the person in question would be without help, then assist that person. An attitude like this will spare you punishment for doing a good deed. Otherwise, don't do it. Maybe the young girl with the flat tire makes you think of your daughter, so you help her change it. Perhaps the old man who is stuck on a bench reminds you of your grandfather, so you help get him a wheelchair. Whatever your reason, you do it so you can look in the mirror with dignity for one more day, and nothing else. If you genuinely do a good deed and things go awry, you will only get a small slap on the wrist. You won't be beaten into submission because your ego was involved.

All that being said and for a quick recap, every time you give, you must finish with pure inner gratitude for what you have after you give. Leave your ego out of the process and simply reflect on how well you have it as you give. Be thankful you have whatever it is you offer and be thankful you have enough to pull someone else out of their rut. That recognition will shoot through the clouds, into the universe, and reflect back to you. That recognition will begin to be your new truth and truth of your real personal power.

~Nicholas D'Arezzo~

Just some food for thought…...I'm going to talk about the so-called dream.

In the beginning, many people who make it to the top one-percent, financially, start off similarly. They will live in an eight-bedroom, six-bathroom house with a pool and a hot-tub, inside a screened-in patio. In the patio will be a kitchenette section with a grill, a mini-refrigerator and a bar setup overlooking a lake. They will have a dock with a boat sitting on a lift. The house will have a three-car garage with three luxury-cars parked inside. Outside the garage, there will be a driveway with an extended drop-off area to drop someone off in front of the enclosed courtyard surrounding a three-tier stone fountain in front of a labyrinth front door. The landscaping is always lush and well-manicured because there is always a crew of some kind maintaining the property that is commonly a one-acre lot. There is often a maintenance team working inside as well, making improvements or fixing something. Because of all the required maintenance and upkeep these houses require, it's not uncommon for these homeowners to hire property management companies to manage their home.

I realize today that this so-called dream is dramatically changing as it is becoming less of a preferred lifestyle. Most people who live a lavish lifestyle end up leaving it, never to look back again. I know this because I have worked for this class of people. I have observed and noticed that over the years they get tiresome and slowly let their investment rot when they begin losing the motivation to keep things up. Usually, this happens when they realize the dream lifestyle is more of a headache than it is glamorous.

I remember going to a house to do a job at seven in the morning. When I arrived, I parked in their driveway because if I parked on the curb, I would have had to walk a few hundred feet to get to the front door. I drove around the full-circle, drop-off area next to the in-law suite behind a canary-yellow Lamborghini Diablo. I quickly noticed the mangled spoiler dangling over the bumper, held by the brake-light wire. The car was dirty and covered in morning dew. Leaning on the car were two garbage pails and the bottom part of a children's plastic basketball hoop that is typically filled with sand or water to keep it stable. I remember looking at it and forming a thesis on why I was looking at what I was looking at.

Here is my take on how or why a $250,000.00 car was neglected and left outside where the elements will beat on it all day and night. First of all, before I start, you must realize that we are all limited. There is only so much you can do on a daily basis. Most of the time, I don't see people buying many things and enjoying them all, equally. Most of these people would build a mini-empire only to give it all up and live in a three-bedroom, two-bathroom house with a basic economy sedan in the garage. This usually happens after their motivation to maintain their empire dwindles and they start to see their investments start to deteriorate with time.

When you own a huge million-dollar home, you have to run it like a hotel. There is always someone manicuring the landscaping and lawn. There are always housekeepers cleaning up the house while the maintenance people are making a mess. It's as if the owners never enjoy true privacy because they are too busy managing others to keep their house in check. Owning a home like that is very draining (to say the least). It's as if most of the people who live like this need to get it out of their system and be able to say they did it. It is short-lived and soon ends when the owners realize it wasn't what they thought it would be. I'm not suggesting that everyone who lives like this bails out but, from what I have personally witnessed, it is more common than not.

Here is what I have personally witnessed on countless occasions. I will start with the first item that stops being used which is the boat. Most people who buy a boat will practically live on it for a few months then never look at it again. If you don't run a boat engine once a week, you will soon run into problems when trying to take it out for a ride. Also, the entire system needs to be flushed, lubricated and re-serviced after a year of non-use. This is usually done after a few years of non-use before being sold for a fraction of what it originally cost. The next thing to be ignored is the pool, yet the headaches of maintaining one remain. It is at this point the homeowner swears that the next house won't have a pool. However, the hot-tub might be used during the year when the weather is cool. Also, if the grill setup had been installed to complete the tropical-getaway pool-vibe, then it will become a home for rodents. Next to be ignored is the motorcycle. Similar to the boat, it must be thoroughly flushed if not used for more than a year. Also, the battery will need to be replaced. The next thing to go is the fountain. Usually, after the water pump burns out for the fourth time (because it was left to dry out), it is drained and used as a gigantic planter, which looks elegant in my opinion. Soon the only rooms in the house that are occupied are the kitchen, living room, and master bedroom. I had a customer who had no idea what the other side of his house looked like. His exact words were, “It's been four years since I have been to that side of the house.” The last thing to go would be the house because life's too short to battle something so big that deteriorates so fast. When these people end up living in a lovely three-bedroom, two-bath house in a safe and serene area, they seem more relaxed and happier.

The whole point of writing all of this is to add some dimension to your views on wealth. It is to help you understand that you may be a lot closer to living a lifestyle you cherish than you think. The only way you will know what your relationship to money should be is by coming to terms with what experiences you truly desire to experience. The experiences you wish to have may not require a lot of fiat currency. In fact, I am pretty confident that most of you do not want what you are "supposed" to want.

On a side note, I would like to emphasize that I was talking about the top one-percent in the United States. If you make $32,400.00 or more a year (as of 2019), you are in the top one-percent earning-bracket in the world.

I obtained that figure from this article.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

When deliberately manifesting, avoid having any "expectations" regarding the details of the experience you seek. Only have an expectation of having a specific experience. You will be hard-pressed to be able to predict who, what, when, where, and how you will attract when attempting to attract, in order to manifest deliberately. This is because what you attract is a reflection of your entire being and essence. It is a reflection of who you are at your very core which is something that our intellectual thoughts can't comprehend.

Although our logical mind is a wonderful tool, it doesn't have the final say in that which we draw towards us. We know so little about our entire mind, body, and soul. Our intellectual minds are limited to knowing our ego’s identity, and not much more. Your conscious mind and all your mental developments, both socially and academically, are a single-digit-percentage of who you are as a whole. However, the universe reflects one-hundred-percent of who you are in all your attractions. Therefore, you will never attract who, what, when, where, and how you “thought” you would. That said, because like attracts like, and your manifestations are based on the elements you attract, the experiences you manifest will never turn out as expected.

When you think of the term “deliberate manifestation,” remember that it is possible for that manifestation to be twenty-percent deliberate if you only use your mind. The other eighty percent would then pan out by default according to who you are as an entire being. Therefore, events will not happen how you envision they would turn out.

At our level of spiritual development, it is almost impossible for any of us to grasp the totality of who we are, and that's what the universe reflects back to us. It reflects the totality of who we are, and last I checked we only use about ten percent of our brains. Our hearts and spirits are ageless. Our physical conscious minds are relatively new to an eternal universe. Our minds are new to an eternal universe that has been operating under the same rules for an eternity. Our mind is just a tool for us to be able to adapt to and navigate within this third-dimensional reality.

Although our logical construct of thinking constitutes a very limited part of us as a whole, we still need our logical minds to be able to embrace the third-dimensional Earth-human experience, fully. That said, what must be understood about deliberate attraction and manifestation is the results of your efforts will never come to you in a clean, linear fashion as expected. Also, the results of your efforts will never come to fruition how you expected, or along the lines of a plot you expected.

When attempting to deliberately attract and manifest, it is vital that you release your expectations. Put your thoughts to a minimum; follow your heart and raise your awareness. When you are ready to manifest and are deliberately intentional, you must get out of your mind and trust what happens. Follow your heart and stay aware because the five senses you use to navigate within this third-dimensional reality are incapable of navigating you through the shifts of higher vibrating events. Only your heart and spirit can do that. In other words, you must learn to trust your gut feelings all the while going with the flow. Of course, this is only when you are a fully intentional being.

To expand on the reality of actual manifested results, let's take the artist who would envision an art design then set forth to create it on canvas. This is the artist who is not sketching or copying from anything physical. This artist is copying an idea from her mind onto a physical medium. The artist who creates from a thought is very similar to how you will be manifesting. No artist ever ended up with the exact masterpiece envisioned before attempting to create it. Usually, during the process of creating an art piece, the artist hits many points of improvising through intuitive guidance. The artist is still focused on the idea, which is the intentional state of mind needed to follow through. Her intention to create a specific piece of art remains solid in her mind through the entire process. She also believes and knows the project will eventually get done. The rest is left to the joy of the process, and the emotions to be felt upon its completion. It's not uncommon for an artist to gaze upon their finished art in amazement and disbelief because it came out better than expected. An art piece that is perfect, and one-of-a-kind.

When manifesting deliberately for the first time, the worst-case scenario is you won't get anywhere close to what you attempted to manifest, but instead, get closer to figuring out who you truly are and what you truly desire. You would figure this out by knowing where you started and realizing where you ended up. In this worst-case scenario, you will have a better reference for future manifestations. Once you have found enough of yourself, the fruits of your labor will be the life you truly desired all along. You will likely deal with turbulence towards this discovery. Once you unlearn to want what you are supposed to want according to the status quo, the ride will be smoother. Upon your coming to this conclusion and seeking what genuinely fulfills you, all those old empty feelings you once had will start to reside. Remember, your attraction, and manifestation results are directly proportional to all of who you are. All of who you are also includes your mind, but also includes your beliefs, intentions, feelings, genetics, experiences, and so much more. Everything that makes you uniquely you and only you is what makes your experiences unique from everyone else's. For many of you, this will be bad news in the beginning, yet great news towards the end of your journey.

Remember to leave the micromanaging and technicalities for the universe to take care of. Just like when you are going to a beach to surf, you know that waves are being created and will continue to be created when you arrive. Your only task is to know how to get to the breaking point of the waves so you can ride them. That said, a lot of thought and planning happened before your coming here to Earth, and you had a lot to do with it. For that reason, you can not micromanage where you are. When you do return to the absolute, you can micromanage all you want because then you will be more of a creator who materializes your reality instantly. As for now, you are a manifester who lives off the fat of the land in this pre-created reality known as the relative.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

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