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« on: September 09, 2013, 11:00:45 AM »
My Love and I made plans to hang out this week. He's going to call to plan it, and said he's happy to drive over to the part of the city where I live. (I just moved).
And he wants to hang out, despite the fact that we also have a four-day church retreat starting Thursday.
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« on: September 06, 2013, 08:30:26 AM »
You were implying that I hadn't read their post properly and therefore was talking out of my arse.
I actually do read before responding.
And its not always "easy" to immigrate to the so-called wealthy countries, and there are a lot of factors involved.
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« on: September 06, 2013, 02:51:20 AM »
Mr B. they'd already taken "studies" off the table. They said they wanted to come over for work.
But what do I know? I'm just a foreigner who's lived in 3 countries, with a possible 4th.
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« on: September 06, 2013, 02:49:01 AM »
Okaaaay. Geez, excuse me for asking.  So you just need to explore what LOA tools you are comfortable with to see extra money coming in, while continuing to work and save.
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« on: September 06, 2013, 02:34:15 AM »
Mr. B - and most Americans are under the impression that it's super duper easy to just move to the US, too.
Its not QUITE as easy as citizens would think to move to their / a foreign country.
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« on: September 06, 2013, 02:27:30 AM »
I wasn't actually responding to anything in particular, so I wasn't suggesting anything either.
I had assumed you wanted people's accounts on personal experiences with NC so that's what I gave.
As for NC success = getting someone back. NC is not a tool to be used in that way.
HOWEVER - he's not my ex, but since ceasing NC our relationship has changed and we're spending more time together.
He's told me twice that he's happy I'm "back."
And our text messages have evolved to conversations, from the brief one or two word texts they used to be.
I guess in some way NC was successful, if the point had been to make him
miss me or something.
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« on: September 06, 2013, 01:52:42 AM »
I'm not sure what kind of success you are asking about.
I went No Contact for 3 months. Completely cut myself off him in every way - even removing myself from our church and social group so I wouldn't have to see him.
BUT I did it for myself, and my own emotional well-being and comfort.
At no time did I establish NC as a way to make him kiss me, or whatever other reason people may have.
It was solely for MY benefit.
So, yes, I had success, I suppose you could say.
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« on: September 05, 2013, 11:50:43 PM »
There's a lot involved in moving to a foreign country.
Money is only one small part of it.
Have you even begun exploring visa requrements, or Canada's foreign worker caps?
You need to get a job, start saving money and start researching.
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« on: September 02, 2013, 08:19:18 PM »
Ah yeah, thanks Zeus - but its SOME women.
Not all of us believe in, or are looking for, our very own "The Notebook." A lot of us hate that crap.
Woman Lesson 1:1
pursuit - that was Snape's choice. He chose to not just carry a torch for Lily forever, but to not pursue anyone else.
Also, he's a fictional character and without romantic angst there is no story.
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« on: September 02, 2013, 09:36:05 AM »
If it feels right, then go for it.
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« on: September 02, 2013, 09:10:57 AM »
I would be more straight to the point "I don't want to your booty call. Period."
Leave emotion and anger and the past out of it.
And keep it short.
Just IMO
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« on: September 02, 2013, 09:02:53 AM »
Same.
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« on: September 02, 2013, 08:39:39 AM »
K. Hold on. I'll post me and my favourite pic of him - that I happened to take 
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« on: September 02, 2013, 08:31:21 AM »
I'm too scared to even share a picture of ME! lol
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« on: August 31, 2013, 09:01:25 PM »
Yeah.....why are you wasting your precious energy on this guy?
And it's the disrespect he's showing his girlfriend - you know, the woman who means so much to him he was about to move for her - that you should be worried about.
You want no part of a man (and I use that word to describe him, with reticence) who treats women like that.
You poured your heart out in a letter telling him how you feel - and he just wants to get laid, and cheat on his girlfriend - and THEN has the audacity to basically say "what's wrong with YOU that we can't screw around?
If you sleep with him while he has a girlfriend, then A. You would be as bad as he is and you would most DEFINITELY just be his booty call, and B. he won't dump his girlfriend for you. He's only interested in sex.
Pursuit - you deserve better. There's a man out there who will adore you and treat you with the respect you deserve, because he won't be able to fathom any other way.
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