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Once upon a time, Buddha meditated under a fig tree for forty-nine days straight without leaving his seat. He had an epiphany after his long spiritual journey making him the enlightened one. What brought everything together, to make it an epiphany, was his realization that it’s all self-perpetuating. All the puzzle pieces of all the riddles came together with that one realization. This is a golden rule to always keep in mind when deliberately attracting.

What does self-perpetuating mean? It means it’s all you. We live in a light universe, and in this light-universe, there is light and the reflections of light. The rest is a cold, dark void. Our third-dimensional reality is a silhouette of the higher dimensional realities. In our third-dimensional reality we see the light, but in higher dimensional realities we are the light. A mirror reflects light in the third dimension. The universe reflects your inner light in the fifth dimension and higher.

Life can be complicated because everything becomes complicated when we put filters in front of our light. As I see it, we all have a plethora of self-created filters in front of our light. Those filters are your third-dimensional beliefs. Those filters limit the brightness and projection of your true inner light. However, that is of no concern to the universe because the universe is incapable of having a concern. The universe is just a dark void of mirrors. Therefore, the universe is going to reflect exactly what you project. The universe is going to reflect you, back to you, at every level of who you are. This includes, but is not limited to the reflection of your self-created filters, which are your beliefs.

From a universal standpoint, you manifest what you believe and attract who you are. You manifest experiences when you interact with the elements you attract. The elements you attract consist of people, places, and things. Without elements, you can’t have an experience. The elements you attract are the result of the beliefs you have about yourself. Therefore, whichever way you choose to look at it, the least common denominator will always be your beliefs. Every limiting belief you have is another filter in front of your light which compromises its brightness.

Because we are engulfed in a dark void filled with reflective surfaces, everything you experience is going to be a reflection of yourself. This is because you are the only light In this dark void of mirrors known as the universe. My point is, you must be the light that you want to experience having shined upon you. You must believe you can have the experience before you can have the experience. You must believe you are capable of attracting the elements required to have the experience you desire before you can attract the required elements. You must belong to the experiences and the relationships before you can attain them. In other words, you must be the person who has it in order to get it. I realize I come across as self-contradicting so I'll try to explain as best I can.

When you're attracting, you are doing so from a specific point of reference. Your reference point is comprised of your attitude, your beliefs, your intentions, and your overall awareness to name a few. That said, your life as you know it will never be more exciting than you. If you are a total bore of a person who cannot see the excitement that is out there, then life is not going to hand you an exciting life without any effort on your behalf. Let's face it; if you are bored, then you're boring at this point in your life. I believe that everyone can feel a spark and be exciting, but bored people look about for stimulus instead of looking within themselves where the light shines.

Just like with excitement, life will never give you more love than you think you deserve. There can be plenty of love surrounding you, but you won't feel it if you don’t let it in. If you don't love yourself, you will never understand how someone can love you. Instead, you will believe that others are trying to manipulate you to get something from you until those are the only types you draw in because you see that in everyone. You will have a permanent wall between you and everyone else.

Life will never be satisfying and abundant until you can appreciate what you have. It takes a wise person to know when to rest and appreciate the rewards of his or her labor. If you would like to buy the latest gadgets, cars, and home decorations, then do it because that's the lifestyle you genuinely enjoy and not because you are trying to win a race with the rest of society. Remember, there will always be someone who will top you. Don't wait until you reach the age of seventy to figure this out. Don't find yourself looking back, only to ask yourself, “What was I doing all this time? I could have been enjoying life, but instead, I was too caught up in the competition."

You will never be happy in any relationship until you are happy with yourself. This includes all relationships from romantic, to work, to friendship, and to the ones you call family. To reiterate, when I say "happy with yourself,” I mean content and satisfied. This contentment must be of yourself as a person and your contribution as a whole to the world. Your purpose in life is what you contribute to society and how you contribute it. You must love your purpose and to love your purpose, you must have a purpose. Otherwise, you will slowly find yourself yearning for something different. All the new relationships, toys, and getaways you can pursue will never fill the empty void inside you.

Within your most authentic desires, the bliss is not so much in getting the experience as it is in being the person who is a part of the experience who balances with life in a way that leaves you wanting no more or less. The goal is to find that part of who you are. The way to begin this journey towards the right direction is to look within yourself for the truth. Don't be the person who looks outside himself or herself for the truth.

People who look about and away from themselves live with an empty void in their lives. What they don't realize is if they seek truths outside themselves then they will find truths that don't belong to them. The more they dive into truths outside themselves, the more they lose themselves in everything else. They genuinely believe that if they can figure out what the content people are using to their advantage, then they too can obtain the same benefits. If this is you, then you need to know that the only real truth is your truth. Only you have your awareness, while everyone else has theirs. Therefore, because this is the only awareness you could ever have, then the only truth you could ever know is the truth as it relates to you.

Your truth may not be the truth for anyone else in this entire world, but it is the truth because it is your truth. One way to understand the concept of a personal truth is to ask yourself, “Where does cold end and room temperature begin? Where does room temperature end and warm begin? Where does warm end and hot begin?” Everyone has their own personal reference points and preference points according to their body. Every one of us is right. Also, every one of us is wrong from another's point of view. This is the case with many issues and opinions in our society. There will never be one solid truth, so don't chase rainbows trying to figure it out. That said, it is in your best interests to find your own truth. Once you know your own truth, you will know the real truth because you will relate to the world from a stable reference point.

You must meet your desires halfway. To be the person who belongs to the experience you desire is to meet those desires halfway. In other words, to manifest any desire, you must first be willing to pay its price. That price can only be paid by you, through your expression, which is a result of your true inner attitude deriving from the core of your true inner beliefs. This doesn't mean you can't manifest or attract without self-modifications, but you take a chance of attracting what you have always attracted in the past. Therefore, self-modifications should be taken into consideration when you are pursuing a completely different experience than you have yet to explore.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

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Your beliefs are powerful because your beliefs have the final say in how everything will turn out. As you modify your beliefs, you modify all outcomes as you move forward. This is such basic common knowledge when learning the laws of attraction and manifestation that it almost need not be said. It only needs to be a small, consistent reminder throughout your studies and journeys. Unfortunately, we tend to fall short in taking our beliefs seriously as they continue to pave the way to our future. Therefore, because your beliefs need to be taken very seriously, I decided to share some data that will help motivate you to work with self-sabotaging beliefs. Data that will motivate you to re-prioritize and “bump” the working on your beliefs to the front of the line.

Here goes…...

Let me ask you a question. Do you think your beliefs are private? Do you think they are hidden safely inside a metaphorical box? Do you think you can safely explore your beliefs in the comfort and privacy of your own home so as not to expose your true beliefs to the outside world? If you answered yes to any of these then, my apologies, you are mistakenly wrong.

Whether you know it or not, every one of us projects muscular microcosms from our body language that are expressions of what we are thinking and feeling. They are also expressions of our traits and are noticeable in handwriting to the trained eye. Although these microcosms are not visible or noticeable to the conscious mind, they are very prominent in the subconscious perception of others. That said, you don’t have to be a gifted empath to get a bad vibe from anyone because these microcosms stand out loudly to the subconscious awareness within all of us. There are many clues that display who we genuinely are, within everything we do, no matter how minuscule our actions may be.

We all have an empathic nature hardwired within us. Even those who are born with a social disorder have empathy. The few among us who do not have empathy are classified as sociopaths. Personally, I don't believe such people exist organically. I believe these people learned (after being traumatized) to tune out their connection with others, but I'm no expert on the matter. This empathic nature is the reason why everyone cringed when the news played footage of a football player lying on the ground with one of his broken bones sticking out of his torn uniform. This hard-wired empathic nature is why we feel other’s happiness and pain. Of course, sometimes our dark side makes us feel better when certain people feel pain, and sometimes we feel pain when other people are happy. Nonetheless, it's still that empathic nature that causes us to respond. It's the very reason why we yawn when we see other people yawn. As humans, we always try to relate so we can understand. If I wanted to make someone yawn, I would start talking about a person yawning. I could start by explaining the process of yawning as it would be witnessed by another person from beginning to end, in second-to-second detail. I could also describe what it feels like to yawn, in detail, from beginning to end. This is a simple example of linguistically guiding someone to attain a specific response. This would be an application of neurolinguistics. However, for the sake of this post, I'm more interested in the act of yawning when we witness someone yawning. This is what is called “animal magnetism,” which is the empathic responses we have to other’s body language.

Animal magnetism is a result of our mirror neurons (also called cubelli neurons) firing up when we observe another person doing anything. As the neurons observe the behavior of another person, they mirror that person's behavior and communicate with other neurons as though the observer is doing what the person being observed is doing. The neurons will begin to mimic the person being observed. Remember this next time you try to get a cat to swallow a pill, or take a bath. Remember this when you try to take your dog to the vet. Animals are more in tune with their mirror-neurons and align themselves with your fearful anticipation. They start to feel your fear, and the only way to stop the fear is to get away from you. They try to get away from you the way you try to get away from people who give you the creeps. This is because you start to mirror their microcosmic movements that are foreign to you and out of place. You don't like the feeling and want to get away from that person as fast as possible. This is why the presence of some people seems to uplift and heal you, while the presence of others makes you feel ill.

Every thought and belief you have is expressed in loud, obvious expressions through the microcosmic movements of your body language. These micro-expressions are felt by others then mimicked by their subconscious minds to “feel” where you are at. An opinion is then made about you according to the microcosmic movements you radiate, that other people are mimicking. In other words, your vibes are being mimicked by everyone who sees you on a daily basis. Everyone who witnesses you is instantly feeling your essence. Therefore, if you notice you consistently get undesired reactions from others when you seem to be doing everything according to the norm, then look to your personal beliefs. Also, take notice of your beliefs about yourself and others. As your beliefs are modified, your body language changes, and ultimately the reactions you get from others modify. It's a small suggestion yet a very challenging endeavor. This is the essence of animal magnetism.

If this has you worried or bothered in the least bit then you need to put some time aside and work on your beliefs about yourself, others, and life in general. As you modify your beliefs for the better, the world around you will modify for the better. Do what it takes to make your beliefs positive because no matter what side of the belief-spectrum you reside, your beliefs have a strong bearing on the quality of your destiny both neurologically and spiritually.

~Nicholas D’Arezzo~

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We attract elements, (people, places, things) and manifest an experience with the elements we attract. Therefore, all manifestations begin with attraction. Attraction is instantaneous and only sticks for a few moments if nothing is there to keep it held in place. The moment an attracted opportunity is present, it must immediately be shifted in a way that allows it to be a contribution towards your desired, manifested experience. In other words, you must have an open spot in your current, overall experience ready for your attractions.

You don't want to lose or reject a promising attraction due to poor planning. You need to have open areas ready to be occupied. In other words, you need to have a place in your life ready for when a potential “element” is in the midst of your presence. In a moments notice, you must be ready and able to offer your open areas because they are vacant and ready for the synergy you feel the opportunity or person can provide.

At this crucial moment, you must be grounded in the present with an intentional presence. In other words, you must be and stay ready. As you stay ready, you stay in the moment because you are prepared to interject. This is the moment of “take-off,” like when a plane takes off from the tarmac. This is the point where the wheels have just cleared the ground and the plane is the most vulnerable. Once the plane gains speed and altitude, it can handle turbulence due to its speed and inertia.

That being said, if you ever want to get a painfully accurate idea on what it’s like to attract and have nothing to bond that attraction to your life because there was nothing set up for that attraction, then read the “missed connections” ads. After reading a few articles you will quickly see a pattern. You will notice that the individuals who wrote these ads were all caught off guard.

Essentially, they attracted, but the attraction didn't stick because they had no available spots in the back of their minds that were easily accessible and ready to be claimed. They had to leave, regroup, then realize where the open areas in their life are, that could be available. By the time they realize what just happened, the crucial moment is lost and can never be re-lived again.

These are people who were going through the motions in their comfort-zones and were preoccupied with their regular routine. When an opportunity snuck up on them, there was nothing that made the person of interest want to stay. Had these people set a place in their lives for others (so to be a viable option for what others might be seeking) they would have been the appropriate “role” needed to follow through and make it a real connection.

Instead of trying to draw the lost opportunity back, these people need to decide on and prepare open spots in their lives for when the next opportunity arrives. At least then, they will handle the situation differently. They will approach the situation with specific expectations, which will help them further the opportunity.

Here’s an example that ends with a positive outcome. In my mid-twenties I had a roommate who wanted to get married and start a family so he moved out, bought a house and fixed it up. It wasn't very long before he found a wife. This is because, as he continued dating, he had more substance in his intentions and more confidence to see them through. His greater substance and confidence attracted a woman who was also looking for a deeper commitment. Birds of a feather flock together and as I see it, our intentions are our feathers. All of those pieces came into place by him doing that one thing. That one thing was the preparation of an open spot which created a void to be filled.

There is something called “the universal law of incompletion” where the universe is constantly balancing itself. By creating a void, you are setting up areas in your life to be occupied. You are creating imbalances to be balanced. Having open areas in your life, and staying focused on filling them, works wonders in the world of deliberate manifestation.

That said, it's enough to be one-hundred-percent sure on how you want those open areas in your life to be occupied, to create noticeable changes in your life. Once a solid intention to fill your self-made voids has been made, it’s enough to keep those areas in the back of your mind by mentally reviewing them throughout the day, or just staying aware of them. By doing this, you will not only amp up your gravity but will be magnetic when opportunity knocks. When opportunity knocks, your presence, magnetism, attitude, and state of mind will follow suit and will take care of the rest.

By knowing which areas in your life you are ready to offer, you are intentional, ready, and in the moment. The ongoing universal balancing that's always taking place will take place on a physical level when you are in the present moment because that's where your attention is. As you remain intentionally in the present moment, the re-balancing of circumstances will turn to your favor. The voids you have created for the sake of filling will be filled as you stay grounded and allow in. Keeping yourself grounded while focused on your availabilities will give you results quickly.

Just to be clear, an open spot isn't like a cage you would use to lock up your property. An open spot is your time and the amount of energy you wish to put into that time. A qualified occupant is a co-creator who will give you a specific amount of their time with a specific amount of their energy, in return. A qualified opportunity will provide a specific amount of compensation for your time and energy.

It’s up to you whether you want to draw in opportunities to share that availability with you, on your terms, or whether you want an availability that leaves you open to going with the flow. As you continue to feed the synergy, you will move towards new experiences and expand on them until they become part of your new lifestyle.

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