How can I use the LOA when my life is such a mess?

[JustForToday]

I have really tried to use the law of attraction and I'm sure that I can't make it work for me because I am so unhappy.  I try to get happy and it lasts for a few moments and then I think about all the things that are not right in my life.  I can't get happy.  I try and think of the things I am grateful for and there are always only 2 or 3 things, not more.
I know that I am the creator of my situation and all the bad, unhappy things I created with my negative thoughts.
I feel like I am in a catch 22 situation.

Any advice will be welcomed with open arms.

p.s  I have tried to meditate, read positive mind book, e-books, dvds, music, counselling and nothing helps.

I can't live this way anymore!   

knock on my door and i will open.... already in the bible.

i know where youre coming from, i was exactly the same, but exactly.
full depressed, wanting to give up, i am serious. had so many bad experiences in my life, but then i came here. so its not an accident that you found this place.
it will change your life

the most imortant thing though is really that you find things for what you are grateful for, thats important to draw positive things into your life.
write it down, each day, youve done already.---- when me asked someone for what are you happy in your life? i always asnwered--- hmmm, then told about all the bad stuff again.

now,
i bet you have a roof over your head?
i bet you have enugh to eat?
i bet you have enough clothes?
be thankful for everything, this works for you to come into that positive mindstate.

you have to be aware, that if you stay negative, nothing positive will come, i am just honest.
so try hard!
change your mind completely
i have just answered with all those things in another thread

pelase take a look.
you have to be first positive and full of trust BEFORE good things come.

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/i-am-looking-for-15/i-am-looking-for-my-perfect-and-dream-jobgtgtgtgtany-help/msg44392/?topicseen#new

try it with small manifestations with that box, but believe that it will come, dont concentrate on it.
you will see how quickly things will manifest in your life, once you changed your mind and let it go by just being SURE that it will come and it will.

i hope i could help you

i choose to rechoice

[colibri]

Hi Bella!

You are in the right place at the right time.

The Law of Attraction can definitely help you, with a
little help from your friends.

Think about what has made you feel better in the past.
Think about and do those things again.

Is there a song, movie or book that lightens your day
and makes you feel better? Read it, listen to it, watch it.

Feel free to contact me through my profile if you like.
I am quite familiar with the Law of Attraction and may
be able to coach you through it (no charge of course!)

In any case, I wish you the best. Read something about
the Law of Attraction every day and you will come through
it.   

Ron
 

[SAINAM]

Bella, firstly you need to get rid of all negative thoughts..I have just now added in another post how our thoughts convert into our reality...
For me, paying gratitude to even small things/events in my life, makes me feel good and raise my vibrations..so just start with Gratitude list first..say thanks to your parents who have given you this life which is so beautiful...say thanks to your education, your teachers, your friends, your brother/sister if any..I even say thanks to universe for all small things..like the cab driver who drives me home safely...the food vendor, medicine vendor...this will surely remove all negative things and you will start seeing events, people in more positive way..trust me.
Every night before going to sleep, close your eyes and take a deep breadth and say,"I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME, I LOVE YOU AND I THANK YOU"..repeat it 5-6 times. If you look at my profile image, it says few sentences how to visualise..take a look..anytime ask us..we are here..God Bless You!

[Aanspire]

I'm sorry to hear about your situation.  I know how hard and frustrating it can be.  To me it sounds like you are reaching out to do the right things to help better your situation, but there is still one major thing that is hindering your happiness. That important thing is your mind.  Your emotions are the direct result of what is going on in your mind.  So if you are feeling horrible, then there might be some negative thinking going on in your mind.  When negative thinking is present, there is no room for positive thinking.  Your mind may have positive thinking and then negative thinking, but it can't have both thoughts at the exact same time.

My advice is to do anything you can to start increase the positive thoughts in your mind.  Do what makes you happy.  This could be a special hobby, surrounding yourself with friends, or just going to the park to clear your mind.  Once you feel good, it will be easier for you to sustain the positive thoughts.  One of my favorite things to do is to so something special for another person.  It could even be a stranger.  When I make other people smile, it makes me smile.  Find out what brings you to that happy place and don't be afraid to use it as much as you would like.  =)