What works for you?

[dhruv]

My experience is little different ready

1.Adopted Positive attitude - Surely Worked for me.
2.Feeling the "Already Having " phase - Surely worked for me , it brings much more positivity and strength in me.
3.Faith in God and myself- Surely worked for me

The strange thing is EVEN AFTER POSITIVE THINKING and all , sometimes i feel so down and i BADLY or Desperately !!!!!! want something from him , and at the very same moment i get something from him , either he sends a foto of him , or Text , or blank mail or message via friend !!!!!!!!




I am concerned with deadlines. I set deadlines for Objectives ( like 1, 2, 3, ...) and One deadline for final Outcome .

Setting deadline worked for me partially , for example If decided that on this DATE and time Me and My Love are together , But it didnt happen , But ofcourse i got his message .

After setting a deadline , i dont review it agai and again. I just fixed it in my mobile calender.

Should reviewing ( reading , or visulizing )deadlines , i mean dates , many times will HELP???

Infact i wrote the details on life and relation i want , Should i repeat reading ? Will it help?

Love your inputs

Sunidhi

[Andrew Wilkie]

Sunidhi,

I'd keep reading what you have written until you get it or decide on something else.  You, your unconscious mind, the universe keep constant reminding and feeling as if.  It's great to review when you wake up and when you go to bed.  You're at your most 'receptive then.

Deadlines - from the reading of it you're setting goal conditions.  You have a final goal.  That is what you focus on not 1,2,3.  Just focus on 3.  There are many, many ways to get to your final outcome.  This in itself is a demonstration of doubt.

[dhruv]

There are many, many ways to get to your final outcome. 


Can you please through some light on this.I am sorry , i didnt clearly get it.

Thanks
Sunidhi

[ph]

this is also one of my issues.  my wish is for my guy to return to dubai after the semester (he's currently a med student in new york city).  he was planning to visit me again before things changed between us.  so on my vision board i've posted pictures of us together during his first visit in dubai.  i also set a date of his arrival here.  i created an itinerary of his visit (which i did the first time he came), like the places we will go to next month.  i printed a copy of his flight details and hotel booking (i just took a screenshot from expedia).  i've been preparing for his return.  i enrolled in salsa class because he dances salsa.  i was hoping that we could dance salsa together in one of the clubs during his visit.  i even packed my things, like the swimsuit i would wear when we go to the beach together.  do you think i'm doing the right thing to attract him?

[dhruv]

Friends ,

I also want to know from you all ,

It is often said that There is a step called" ACTION".

I do visulization ,use vision board , affirmations , gratitude diary , writing event diary , sending mail from his a/c to mine ( I really enjoy fooling myself ..and i felt strange when galia said it worked for her...IT WORKED IN MY CASE ALSO) , Preparing myself and many CRAZY things...I enjoy

But what is the "Action" step in getting him Back .(if i am not wrong , Many members on this forum are still not clear on this "Action" part)
I am sorry , if i am the only ...................

Thanks
Sunidhi

 

[Galia]

"Action" - first of all make the list of "I don't want" things and then "I want" things in my relationship.

Then find out what are your fears hidden behind this wish to take your ex back - fear of being alone, abandonned, hurt again, end up alone....

Set up your final goal and your deadline, make your vision board, visualize, prepare free space for your outcome, and TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF - go out, see people, work, meet new friends, go to holidays, get a new hobby, be selfish...

The point is not to be dependent on this goal - to be detached - if that happens, ok, if not it's ok as well because you have so many other things in your life...

In all the cases, how you feel is your own choice... If you decided that your happiness depends on this specific person then this is the truth for your life...

It's you the one that chose... This is your life, your destiny...

[uncle]

...
The point is not to be dependent on this goal - to be detached - if that happens, ok, if not it's ok as well because you have so many other things in your life...
...

the bold text makes me want to ask: how can you call it a law if there's room for such uncertainty whether it will happen or not? law of gravity leaves no doubt that you'll go down if you jump out the window.
i know there are many factors that might decide the end result but it kinda seems to me that all this stuff is much more delicate than (since i mentioned it) law of gravity, since it takes a lot of hard work to make you fall down slower, let alone fly. here it seems like it's enough to set a date or some other specifics, have a headache or something else unimportant etc etc and then immediately it's off.
i'm not saying it isn't working, as i myself can testify that it does, but it's strange to me how delicate it is.
(sorry for the OT)

[Galia]

Uncle,  I didnt understand quite good your question?


the text you quote from my reply explains what is to be detached of the outcome...I didnt say "have a doubt" ! This is the opposit of doubting actually...

And yes, it is "delicate" as you say it,  when comes to a specific person. Many people are focusing on getting their ex boyfriend/girlfriend back which is not their major "problem" since the real one is hidden behind this wish.

Here the article of "detachment": http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/relationship/letting-go/

I gave the basic steps to apply when wanting something specific and that's all: 

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Set up your final goal and your deadline, make your vision board, visualize, prepare free space for your outcome, and TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF - go out, see people, work, meet new friends, go to holidays, get a new hobby, be selfish...
For more details see my article: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/how-to-apply-the-law-of-attraction-consciously/


If you have time check the other topics where the subject "is the law of attraction an exact science?" is discussed...

Peace and joy to you!

[Ginny]

One thing I've really noticed since learning of LOA is what a bad way of thinking I used to have. Before, whenever anything good would happen to me, I used to think, "It can't last" or "something bad has to happen". And surprise surprise, I usually turned out to be right! Since I've changed my thinking, and focus on just enjoying and being grateful for good things that happen, that cycle seems to have been interrupted.

[uncle]

Uncle,  I didnt understand quite good your question?

it wasn't a question, it was rather a comment/observation, but thanx for taking time to post an answer.

the text you quote from my reply explains what is to be detached of the outcome...I didnt say "have a doubt" ! This is the opposit of doubting actually...

yes, but IMHO, it's kinda contradictory anyway. if you have to have faith and feel certain it will happen in order to manifest what you want, then taking the "whatever" attitude lowers the energy you send out, or at least that's the way i see it.
but even if that was not what you were saying, i still think the outcome is too easily influenced by trivialities.
and sometimes even it seems like the universe is playing games. i.e. you want a bunch of money (a specific amount) and you get it eventually, but either you get too late or the inflation has eaten it up by the time you get it or something else to that effect. and the explanation for that is "you haven't been specific enough, but didn't you get exactly what you want?" yes, you got it, but 1$ from the times when i sent out my request is not the same 1$ when i got it, should i include exchange rates into my request or something? or if you set a deadline, you didn't get it because of the deadline, and if you don't, well you didn't set the t´deadline, how can universe deliver if you didn't say when you want to receive it. (this was just an example)

If you have time check the other topics where the subject "is the law of attraction an exact science?" is discussed...

Peace and joy to you!

do you have any links?

thanx once again.

[Galia]

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/2/is-l-o-a-an-exact-science/

[uncle]

thanx for that!

[Galia]

You're very welcome! 

I can encourage you contacting Andrew Wilkie or Ankur Sancheti - they have great discussions about this "science" approaches related on LoA...

Feel free asking!

Love and peace to you today!