Author Topic: what are your experiences with remote seduction (Read 5160 times)

beautifulmesss12sc · « **on:** March 31, 2012, 07:22:21 PM »

i know there are threads on this topic .. but i was wondering what your experiences with remote seduction are

how often you use it ... have you seen results .. after how long ... was it just a feeling that it was working or did u actually have proof of this .. i use it and it makes me feel good ... not sure of anything ... he does talk to me when i see him ... but that cld jst be him being nice not sure if i has anything to do with RS ...
would really like to know if this stuff works
he seems nervous around me

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #1 on:** March 31, 2012, 09:22:09 PM »

I used it quite consistently and it worked... then I did something that made my progress slide so now I am starting anew. I received a personal message from a community member here and she said her man responds quite well to this. Emails that used to be short are now lengthy and sweet.

I have no doubt that "his" behavior has everything to do with your practicing of LOA. Forgive him for his nervousness. Just say to yourself over and over "I forgive him for being nervous".

Much love and the very best of LOA to you!

MikeG · « **Reply #2 on:** March 31, 2012, 09:42:44 PM »

I've done it about 3 times and it felt really good. It's well worth the time, but lately I haven't found the need to use it, because I'm already in a good mood almost all the time. The answer you're looking for is if it helped me with my girl right? It did. I've been interacting with her a lot more lately and I take that as a sign that the LoA is working it's magic and that's because of my good mood and happiness.

Part of this happiness was due to RS, but I also did various other techniques and made it so that my desire became believable and manifestable. RS will help you in a way that you feel secure that your desire will eventually come true. This security will make you happy.

The thing is that the process helps you believe that your desire will come true. It shouldn't be used to bring your desire to you. By using RS in that way, you're using it out of desperation or inpatience, sending a message of discomfort of your current lifestyle.

REMEMBER: It's not something you do X times and then you have your guy/girl by your side.

Stay happy and that's the most important thing that you need know!

tereza · « **Reply #3 on:** March 31, 2012, 10:56:58 PM »

Quote from: beautifulmesss12sc on March 31, 2012, 07:22:21 PM

i know there are threads on this topic .. but i was wondering what your experiences with remote seduction are

how often you use it ... have you seen results .. after how long ... was it just a feeling that it was working or did u actually have proof of this .. i use it and it makes me feel good ... not sure of anything ... he does talk to me when i see him ... but that cld jst be him being nice not sure if i has anything to do with RS ...
would really like to know if this stuff works
he seems nervous around me

Ok, if I were you I would take him talking to you as a sign of it working. I would take him being nervous, as a sign of it working too. Like oh, he's nervous to talk to me because he's not sure if I want to talk to him or something that's positive.

If you've got a notebook, write this stuff down as little successes or signs that your relationship is on its way to manifesting. Put it in your gratitude lists. Don't squeeze the joy out of it by thinking it was just coincidence or that he's only being polite.

Also, check out Michael Losier's "Law of Attraction" book. I know I keep posting about it, but it's just that good.

sh-boom · « **Reply #4 on:** March 31, 2012, 11:01:10 PM »

I would be interested to hear any stories of anyone who used RS whilst in NC and if anything came of it.

I used RS a couple of weeks ago on a friend I hadnt spoken to for quite a few months, as I wanted to 'get a feel' for it first of all. I did it twice, and I was expecting something straight away, which didnt happen. Then I kind of forgot about it, and a few days later said friend texted me and we have been in touch ever since, so i'm really grateful about that.

I used it for the first time on my love, today, and I just sent lots of loving energy, I had a big grin on my face during some of it, I couldnt help it, and had some happy tears, such was the amount of love I felt for her when I was doing it.

Dr Scully · « **Reply #5 on:** April 01, 2012, 02:57:37 AM »

@sh-boom, yes I've been doing no contact for a few days now... last night my boyfriend finally initiated a conversation (first time since our breakup a month ago). I've been doing RS for about a week or so now, I think? The last time we talked around the beginning of the week, I told him I believed he was my soulmate and I would always love and respect him no matter what. He agreed and said he felt the same way. I know it's a small step, but since I've been doing it I've felt a lot better about myself and at least I'm not crying over him every night now.

Anyways I've been doing it to help myself heal and to send him (and myself) love, forgiveness, patience, kindness. We need to both heal and forgive each other before we can even think about rebuilding a new relationship. Accept the fact that the old relationship is dead, and use RS to help yourself heal and send love. That's when it really works

Peaches97 · « **Reply #6 on:** April 01, 2012, 05:23:38 AM »

Ive used it twice or so...it made me feel really calm and good...still in nc with my guy though i was kinda waiting to see if hed make contact or something because of rs but i kno i shouldnt be thinking that...but i also did it just to send love so idk...probaply better to detach from it totally...

sh-boom · « **Reply #7 on:** April 07, 2012, 03:40:25 PM »

after having used remote seduction on another friend i hadnt spoken to in a while (just did it the once), either last week or the week before, i received a txt message from her yesterday. this one took a little longer, but i only did the RS once this time whereas with my previous friend i did it twice so that happened quicker.

ive done it on my love a few times now, today i felt very emotional during it, im sure she felt the loving and healing vibes i was sending her

Dr Scully · « **Reply #8 on:** April 08, 2012, 07:40:51 AM »

I was going to ask does anyone have any usual things happen while doing remote seduction? Several times while I've done this on my ex I noticed I have a pain in my heart while doing it. I'm not sure if it's because a result of the intense emotions/feelings or am I picking up on some pain that's still there between my love and myself.
Also, the other night while I was doing the Wendi's RS mp3, I got to the point where I am in the love energy looking at my ex and I had a vision of him crying and saying I love you. I'm not sure again if this is picking up on his emotions or am I imagining things and going crazy?

Kas · « **Reply #9 on:** April 08, 2012, 07:47:55 AM »

Interesting! I have it downloaded on my iPod and have used it once. I'm going to try to do it more often to see how it works.

JustForToday · « **Reply #10 on:** April 08, 2012, 12:31:57 PM »

Quote from: Dr Scully on April 08, 2012, 07:40:51 AM

I was going to ask does anyone have any usual things happen while doing remote seduction? Several times while I've done this on my ex I noticed I have a pain in my heart while doing it. I'm not sure if it's because a result of the intense emotions/feelings or am I picking up on some pain that's still there between my love and myself.
Also, the other night while I was doing the Wendi's RS mp3, I got to the point where I am in the love energy looking at my ex and I had a vision of him crying and saying I love you. I'm not sure again if this is picking up on his emotions or am I imagining things and going crazy?

no, i really think you got his vibes and feelings, not only a imagination of you

how sweet is that?

JustForToday · « **Reply #11 on:** April 08, 2012, 12:36:12 PM »

Quote from: Dr Scully on April 01, 2012, 02:57:37 AM

@sh-boom, yes I've been doing no contact for a few days now... last night my boyfriend finally initiated a conversation (first time since our breakup a month ago). I've been doing RS for about a week or so now, I think? The last time we talked around the beginning of the week, I told him I believed he was my soulmate and I would always love and respect him no matter what. He agreed and said he felt the same way. I know it's a small step, but since I've been doing it I've felt a lot better about myself and at least I'm not crying over him every night now.

Anyways I've been doing it to help myself heal and to send him (and myself) love, forgiveness, patience, kindness. We need to both heal and forgive each other before we can even think about rebuilding a new relationship. Accept the fact that the old relationship is dead, and use RS to help yourself heal and send love. That's when it really works

that is a BIG STEP!!!! WOW, you have come far!!!! this is great. i wish you many more desires coming true!!!

Dr Scully · « **Reply #12 on:** April 10, 2012, 02:27:07 AM »

@crazysoul: thanks! Unfortunately now we aren't talking (I've decided to stop contacting him for a little while). Tomorrow will be one week, the longest we've gone without talking since the breakup. I think it's too much for both of us to handle right now. He said last week we are friends now but he still loves me. I think he's confused and wants to figure out his life (which was part of the breakup too).

I'm still doing the remote seduction and still getting a heavy feeling sometimes during it. I'm also trying to let go and part of me wonders if we were meant to be together (because I keep thinking of all the personal growing up he needs to do still). Just when I think I'm okay, I see signs of him everywhere! (I saw 3 signs today). It's driving me nuts lol.

JustForToday · « **Reply #13 on:** April 10, 2012, 02:32:26 AM »

hey scully, if you decided not to contact him, it will be right for sure. let your heart decide and lead you.
letting go is sure right, but i wouldnt worry about him needing to grow and learn. you can grow and learn together

go with your feelings though, they will show you the right way. give you both the time and space to find back to each other. and for that NC is right.

vanessa202 · « **Reply #14 on:** April 10, 2012, 06:16:25 AM »

A guy i dated a while back wanted to test remote seduction on me. I agreed as i was fasinated too. When we wasnt together.
He would write down the times he used it on me and I was to write down anytime i felt it. we would meet up and swap the notes and we was amazed at how acurate the times were together.
I dont know if the fact i was open to this or just simply it works on anyone.
It was certainly an eye opener to me xx