The Most Popular Question on the forum? Can LOA work in my case ?

[Andrew Wilkie]

This seems to be the number one question at the moment. So let's clear it up.

YES.

Now some of you will read this and go yes, but, what about in my case? The answer is still YES.


What you're really asking is will it work for me? YES.

If you want it to and allow it, it can, will and does. The forum is very much abot using LOA in a conscious and deliberate way. Even if you don't do it deliberately, it still will be working.  LOA is a collection of steps.  Each step can have its own set of tools to help you get to where you want to.

The only differences between your 'case' and another are really two fold.

YOU and YOUR BELIEFS, your wanting and ability to follow the guidelines of LOA consistently, i.e until you get what it is that you want or decide you actually don't want it any more.

The next piece (often underlying) that tends to come up is is it OK for me to use LOA? YES. 

But, what about other people? If you tell people what you want and are doing? You're often looking and wanting there approval. Often you're not going to get it unless you give them a reason which, they will find acceptable.  Even though you want to tell them what you're doing. I'd suggest you don't. Why? They will try and keep you don't. It is their OWN emotional response to your behaviour and you don't like their reaction.

Best thing? Don't tell them until you are strong in your convictions, have an answer which whey will like, better yet, got what it is that you want.

FYI - There is a great search button. Many examples and ideas are available. Use it. Most questions have been asked before.

If you then write your post. Stop for 5 minutes, re-read it. Notice where all your focus and energy is or on whom? Oh, yeah, paragraphs certainly help others read your posts, instead of one huge essay or text message. Some I can't even figure out where you going or wanting.

[manda]

Hi,

I've always found it challenging to make friends. People who meet me like me and say i'm nice but it doesn't develop into  close friendships.  Is it my low self confidence that they are noticing?  Any ideas on  affirmations I could use?

I am a believer in LOA but i'm doing it wrong i guess  

some help and guidance would be appreciated.

[Sandy72]

Hi Manda,
This might be a good idea for a new post because I'm sure a lot of people would want to read suggestions. If it's its own post, it would be easier to find.

Andrew, I enjoyed your post (as always!). Tongue-in-cheek but so true and helpful!

[manda]

Thank you sandy...will do

[loveofabundance]

Andrew, you are a doll!  Thank you so much for your constant great advice.  Thank you for that point about paragraphs.  i never use them on this forum and even i look at my post and think how is someone going to understand this?  Lol!

[Andrew Wilkie]

No worries.

Been there, done that. You just want to get your story out, but I just can't go through streams of text.

[Era]

Just be confident show kindness in all your acts =)