THE DIFFERENCE AS i UNDERSTAND

[Era]

For 2 months and a half now, I have been wanting to have a new laptop. I have been working hard and saving my hard earned money, but every time I am set to buy,  there is an emergency coming up which ends up affecting my budget. I really really  want that laptop, every time I walk pass through it in a store on my way to my office, it looks ,like its waving to me saying “Come and get me” and its so frustrating.  I feel like I need to work more and more and exhaust my energy to really saved enough but its not working at all, maybe this is one reason why I am so stress lately.  I have been using the Law of attraction to achieve my desire and I think I am visualizing it the wrong way. I talked to my mentor which happens to be my boss at the office where I worked as a team leader for a security agency and he explains why. He told me that one reason why its not working its because I focus so much on “wanting” the item and not having them.
I am now on the process of trying to  understand the difference of wanting and having . So I did my assignment and  research and so far  this is the  lightest and easiest to understand  t explanation I got as to what is the difference between the two http://attractingabundancehq.com/how-to-attract-abundance/wanting-vs-having/ I would like to know if I understand this perfectly, because I have faith that if I get this correctly, then, I can buy the laptop before September ends.
As I understand “Wanting” is  if my emotion is focused on “Wanting” my center of attention will be on attracting more “Wanting”. In my case, since I wanted to have a laptop, my mind is focused on “wanting” and this attracts more thing to want for. For example since I want a laptop I may not be fixed on one laptop but I would want to have the latest laptop in the market and there are a lot so I keep on wanting them up to the point where I cannot buy them or I have a feeling of not being able to buy a laptop.
However, if my thinking will be on the “having” vibration. I will feel and I will think that I have already bought a laptop. In this state I will enjoy the feeling of having a laptop and I will attract the vibration that I already have the laptop with me. So, in this state my mind will be focused on having the laptop itself and in time my actions will be moving toward having laptop.
Please let me know if I am getting it right. As I really want to start visualizing as soonest time as possible. If you have suggestions, I would really appreciate it.
Thank you all so much in advance.

[schenderson22]

You are quite correct in your assessment of the law.  The way I like to exercise this difference is by stating how grateful I am for whatever I want as though it already exists.  For instance, you would say "I am grateful for my brand new laptop""I am grateful for the ease it brings to my life" etc.  Write these down, repeat them when you need to.  Let go of any feeling of desparation or disappointment, etc.  If you need help try using EFT.  You can find information on Youtube.com or order the dvd from www.thetappingsolution.com.

Let me know how it goes!