Take Advantage of Other's Kindness, You deserve it.

[Iron Ur]

At first glance this can sound strange, when I say "take advantage of others" I don't mean, to be cruel. I mean when someone shows you a kindness, accept it.

often times we respond "oh no no thats ok, but thank you" even though we are showing a form of gratitude we are also showing a bit of resistance, by turning down the gift.

think about why we turn these gifts down? do we not want to feel we owe them, not want to feel guilty or feel unworthy?

I find it alittle funny how some folks say "I do so much good, WHEN am -I- going to get something good in return??" then something good comes our way and we say "oh no no no, you dont have to do that."

today, I was at work. I sell car parts and a guy walked in wanting wiper blades. he asked me if I had ever been to the japanese steak house , I dont him I hadn't. he introduced himself as the owner.

on top of that he told me his name and offered to pick up my tab and to come to his steak house tonite. I did and I got a great meal that was maybe worth well over $50 for free.


Show but gratitde for your gifts AND accept them as they come. by doing this you allow more and more to come to you.